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Excerpt from Ross Rosenberg's Interview on Terri Cole's Podcast.

ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG

Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops.

His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel with 23 million views and 260,000 subscribers and the sale of 155,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

[reefprayerresin]

Pity that we need that knowledge at the very beginning, when we didn’t have that knowledge then….

[bonnylouwho]

Fifty years ago I had no idea what this was or what it meant when I was a high-school girl.

[susancoombes]

A person who is incapable of loving you cannot all of a sudden become capable of it just because youre leaving. I left three times and got reeled back in!

[joesther]

Sad when your so young inexperienced that you look back and see how they managed to charm people in your life for them to trap you. Thank goodness people are becoming aware of narcissists! Thank you for informing us on different traits they use to not be exposed. Oh they do use the word love to get away with lots. Beware if they want to nick name you

[splitpea]

Brilliant. I wish I'd known as a young woman what I'm learning now. Thank you.

[Vixter]

That is such a gem of knowledge 🤩 has you scratching your head like, why was I struggling to think of that 😭

[jeanettepelletier]

He’s right and if they show and voice that they can’t love ❤ then they’ve already told you. 😞

[MizzyG]

When the co dependent is so damaged by the narcissist they can in next relationship become a narcissist without realising but only temparory while our guards are up.

[tanzychatman]

And I remember the very beginning you right believe you thank so much right thank you help me alot I no better than that

[James-mchc]

Nobody knows about true narcissist.
Nobody would believe it anyway.
I could only digest it at 62 years old having been completely destroyed in every way possible. A living zombie.

[pmbarro]

I told a girl i didn't think things would ever work between us. Now she's chasing. Funny how that works.

[dawnphillips]

How many narc are there in the world? So much 🏃‍♂️

[whowearereally]

Yes, this would’ve saved my life unfortunately, five years ago, I dated a narcissist who ruined my family, my friends and my life my bank account everything he rushed me within an hour to date him rush me within six months to move in and sell. My condo, rush me to change my life and instead across from me and said it’s gonna be bad for you if you correct me, and then all kinds of things came out- screaming out of the blue at me, so and so forth!! my friends and family all supper from not understanding any of it so they’ve all totally left me alone and abandoned me because of his drama I am alone in life and it is God horrible! The fact that I was such a nervous wreck afterwards also made them all nervous…

[kerrycater]

Okay. I get the love bombing after an argument with long descriptions of how pretty I am and how they want to touch me and wouldn’t I like that? Ummm.
No? Not after what you did! But I need intimacy too sometimes, so I just don’t know how to handle this “affection”. It’s even worse when I get the “my”’s. Instead of you’re a good friend, supportive partner, etc. it’s the MY wife, MY lover, MY soulmate.., why do I crawl into my soul and hide?

[SoniaSonia-jy]

It never had anything to do with me, it s only stories

[tad]

What if the person who is love bombing you from a recent relationship break up. Is ill and facing major surgery and begging you to come back and consol them with hugs kisses etc.

[bernitacenteno]

She's worried about self, while nodding to Ross R. See her actions

[splitpea]

We don't need to see the woman. Her presence is distracting.