I Spent 11 Years Dating as a Lesbian. Here's the SHOCKING Truth

Lesbians suck at dating and it's not your fault. Here's why YOU, lesbians, and queer women suck at dating. We've had our cards stacked against us from the beginning but that doesn't mean it's over for us.

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0:00 Intro
1:00 Lesbians in this heteronormative world/culture
2:26 Lesbians don't have enough resources
3:37 Lesbians can feel comfortable with their sexuality later in life
6:00 Lesbian fear of being hate crime and outed
7:19 Lesbians have a smaller dating pool
8:20 Final Takeaway
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@Risa Ru - LGBT Dating Journey

[risa-ru]

Do/Did you resonate with the struggles? What are aspects of dating are you struggling with?

[RedJade_Queen]

Coming from an older millennial perspective, modern dating just sucks for a lot of people today. I'm also coming from a perspective where I know for a fact that what hinders someone from dating is self-worth. I went about my teens with a mindset that I wasn't dateable until I decided to just approach and talk to people in college in my early 20s. That includes online forums and dating apps, but before this gamified version of it now. But, I proved myself wrong, and then I couldn't stay single unless I made the choice to do so. Dating is not as challenging as people peg it out to be. It’s about getting to know each other and yourself. So, to rewrite the spoonfed fantasy is to acknowledge that romance in media is a fantasy. And then understanding talking is the best approach. So, plan things around that. and as for the dating pool for WLW, it is actually larger than people think. People are just not open about their sexuality.

[oOOoOphidian]

It's so hard really and there are no good models for it. So many great opportunities go to waste because of the confusion

[tallyshay]

Im 28 and got out of a 7 year hetero relationship a year ago and now i feel comfortable in starting to date. This will be the first time I every try to date women in my life and i feel pretty late to the game😅
Thank you for the "big sis advice" and sharing your experiences, its helping me not fret too much over how much of a late bloomer i am. I too grew up in a conservative family & town. Im "out" to my immediate family, but to a lot of my extended family & people im aquainted with in every day life im still closeted. Its definitely odd not being able to talk about dating the same way as straight people for fear of others judging me & treating me differently. I hope to learn eventually to not care as much/become less fearful of others because it doesn't truly matter what they think of me.

[HomoLolo-xt]

You are RIGHT. LESBIAN DATING ABSOLUTELY SUCKS. IT IS HORRIBLE.

[paperpuddingTV]

omg 3 mins! i’ve never been so early for a video

[moomoomamamoo]

This video hits me harder. I started to develop a crush on a girl, but I never found the chance to talk to her. I tried, but I felt very shy and feared that she might not be interested in girls, so I decided to get over it. However, a friend recently told me that they heard she's interested in me, but she never said anything, and I didn't notice. Now I don't know what to do. How do I start? How do I show her that I like her?🥺

[justamediocreyoutubechanne]

Don't mind me straight guy just passing through :) ya'll gay gurls need to step ya game up and find the right one cuz we out here pullin