The only person you should marry || Jacob Aliet, Venus Kyengo, Robert Burale & Kerry Kagiri

Heated Round table conversation on facts & myths of the idea of happily ever after featuring Pastor Robert Burale, Venus Kyengo, a psychologist, Jacob Aliet, author of Unplugged and Kerry Kagiri of @TheDatingStories
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TIMESTAMPS:
INTRO: 00:00
00:02:35 Dictatorship in marriage
00:10:03 Submission & how much should you love a person
00:15:23 The cut off age for good sex
00:17:53 Defining leadership in the context of marriage
00:22:00 Hook up culture & best time to introduce sex in a relationship
00:24:35 The profile of people who succeed in marriage
00:35:06 Is marriage a raw
00:35:22 The difference between a woman and a wife
00:35:54 Preparing your woman to be somebody’s wife
00:39:00 Waiting for sex & the idea of meant to be
00:44:24 Grooming & Predators in Church
00:50:24 Real Dad Versus Step Dad
00:53:39 Impact of fathers on daughter’s future relationship with men
00:55:13 Loyalty of a woman after the man loses a job
00:59:27 Age factor in failure of modern marriages
1:08:40 Sexual market value
1:09:40 Secrets of marriages that last over 20 years
1:21:50 Why Christians believe in polygamy, selectively
1:22:54 The ideal marriage structure, loose women and impact of toxic feminism
1:25:21 Make up sex & Role of psychological trauma in collapsing marriages
1:28:04 How to identify spiritual patterns of disaster
1:29:08 Facts about taming a bad boy or a bad girl
1:33:58 The success of short term contractual marriages
1:38:10 Role of tribe in the success or failure of a marriage
1:47:40 Red Flags
1:52:00 clash over difference between leadership, submission and control
1:58:10 Weakness of Step fathers and reality of mixed families
2:02:59 Qualifying the idea of polygamous nature of men
2:08:19 Co parenting & the Impact of mixed families on the ‘original’ concept of nuclear family
2:11:37 the money conversation in a relationship
2:23:53 How men behave when they don’t have money
02:25:18 Man’s financial responsibility to girlfriend before marriage
02:41:25 Measuring the value someone brings in a relationship
02:46:48 Men who become step fathers
02:48:59 Choice of women not to have children before marriage

[brianndege]

Can we clap for Dr. Kingori his excellence in handling this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[bobericmurimi]

Jacob spills nothing but the bitter reality, made me focus on myself in my mid 20's coz damn I must cultivate my own value as a young man. Good job Dr.Kingori

[mutetikonfidence]

Who else noticed how calm Venus was throughout this show?

[clnitonnganganjagi]

On the contrary a woman with no friends or a small circle is a very very secure woman . She's learnt that quality is more than quantity .She knows her own strength, she has seen the drama and walked from it, she is comfortable in her self She would rather have a few friends than fake ones .She dosen't need to be surrounded by pple to feel complete

[jossymulinge]

Bring jacob and Robert again and again, I would love to consume more of their wisdom "

[mercyk]

It's very true what Aliet said,
that things don't go wrong, they start wrong. Most married people will tell you they saw all the red flags but ignored them hoping the person would change. Unfortunately, marriage doesn't change people, it can actually accentuate the negatives.

[InnocentNyariki-rkkm]

Burale assisting kingori to control the lady is amazing 😅😅

[Smodestar]

Hapo kwa "A woman without friends is a red flag, " should be a discussion on its own jameni.... 😂😂😂Juu Weuh.
A very interesting and informative conversation. 👏 👏 👏 Definitely ill re-watch again imewezaaa

[giddyakali]

Jacob Aliet is a man I would listen to the whole day. He makes me reconsider my decisions

[annewandati]

A great conversation with very well informed panelists... Kerry is her authentic self...take it or leave it.

[shizdequeen]

I like Robert burale he is wise and matured ❤🎉this is the best convo for all of you to join and teach young couples out here 😊

[KerryKagiri]

Thank you for having me King with your amazing crew. Professional and accommodating. I learned so much and major perspective shifts on my end. To my seniors in this space I am inspired! My loving friends Venus, Burale and great to meet Jacob. Reading all the comments and taking in what I can adjust especially the corrections made with love.

[as-it-is]

That's a home of all minds.A range of elites discussion to average snippets.

Jacob gave modern depth.Burale shone the lights of God and biblical traditions.Kagiri gave us dramatics with light notes-the intellects need that to deliver the factual truth.Venus gave psychological snippets.

Kingori, honourable.

[MainaMbatia]

The cap guy need to be in the show once per week, am sipping his words line fine wine

[chadwik]

Leta Bobbie Robertta…
I like how you chair your conversations, and how deep you dig informations

[evanske]

Jacob makes so much sense i think he is the real mhenga here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[suzanmusomi]

I've learned over time that the issues that you deal with as partners at the beginning of a relationship, you will always deal with them even in marriage. Some behaviors and characters won't just end simply because you're in each other's life. It requires alot of understanding, commitment and sacrifice

[rufusnganga]

Jacob mind, please buy his books guys...Great content King'ori

[hezbonokoth]

I really admire the Wisdom, patience, articulation, reason and beauty of Mrs. Venus on this show today. Jacob Aliet is a Wiseman for real I have learnt a lot from him. Kerry is a talented speaker she needs to learn a lot from successful ladies like Venus, she will go far. Burale is a role model. Dr. King'ori's brilliance is unmatched. Thank you for sharing knowledge with us guys.

[mercyk]

I grew up in the 80's but my siblings are much older than me. We're kikuyu and my brother married a Kisii, my sister is married to a Luo and both those relationships are successful, and both sides of the families get along very well.
I think it all comes down to principles and chemistry. Tribal origin shouldn't be a barrier.