Threesomes: How Do You Handle Watching Your Partner

First time having a threesome with your partner? Worried or nervous about how you’re going to react to seeing them with someone else? We know what that’s like because we’ve been in your shoes. In this video, we explain how we felt having a threesome with each other as a couple for the first time.

Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)

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[dkj]

For my husband and I, being with another couple is all about letting go and having fun, watching each other with others and enjoying the extreme turn-on it gives us. After a night or afternoon or chance encounter with another or others, we always wind-up wanting each other intently and it definitely is powerful...

Derek and Angela
Seattle

[march]

Jealousy is the most destructive force in any kind of relationship! There needs to be a set of rules that both partners agree on to make an open relationship work. HONESTY between partners is the most important rule! Open, means open with each other, first, and foremost! Also, either partner can veto a third coming into a relationship. Everything has to be mutually agreed on before moving forward. We find that these simple rules are key to making this work. We have a great relationship with each other! Bringing in another male has only added to our bond. We do this purely for sex - nothing more!
Your advice is great for couples, even those who are monogamous!

[leeboriack]

Book idea: please write a book "Swinging for Dummies"
The good, the bad and the ugly, in order to protect people from fantasy and to mentor those that are ready for the experience.

[chloeratchford]

Great topic! Totally love the way they replied and their mindset towards the question.

[gilbertschannel]

This is a very mature discussion and I like it!

[maebrown]

I'm so grateful that I found your channel

[ourfamily]

I like the invitation to keep talking about how each situation is experienced and use that chat to grow your own relationship. Thankyou for sharing.

[shane]

Such a wonderful couple. Thanks for the videos John and Jackie

[jimfiore]

I do the same thing you do, watch to see what they do differently. I also enjoy seeing my wife enjoying herself, and that goes for absolutely everything. She feels the same for me. We aren't swingers, but we do occasionally have another person in our bed. It break things up. But it does absolutely require trust. Your trust for one another MUST be 100%. And unfortunately we don't tell others because they just don't understand it. Love and trust is so so so much more than most people understand. Both of those had actually strengthened even more after the first time we brought someone else into the bedroom. Neither of us thought our trust and love could go up. But, that definitely did. We trust each other more than most people trust themselves.
God bless

[Muck-qyoo]

You're one of the coolest people I've ever found on the net.

[RM]

Agree with all you mentioned there. Thanks for being honest and help a lot of people with your stories. Forget about those comments with those people saying they are honest when most people are no loyal and do cheat to their partners and in front of the family and society are very correct. Shame on them. Enjoy your life style as I do with my wife too. Lol 😆

[agrfulson]

you've done a lot of videos but i think this one finally gets at what's troubling me (and others i've spoken to) about the swinger lifestyle: won't i eventually lose my partner to someone else? could you pls address that question? does it happen? another slight pushback ... i think the word honesty has been used incorrectly because i can be extremely honest with my partner and in doing so be totally selfish and dismissive and cruel. what i think you guys mean, and i'd love to hear you address this, is that reassurance and commitment to each other is constantly reinforced. i love you. i choose you ... almost as though each partner has the kill switch on this lifestyle and could pull the plug at any moment. just my 2 cents. pls keep this dialogue going and thank you.

[nixworld]

Honest question regarding the term "cuckolding". My wife and I have had just a few swinging experiences (including one in Colette/New Orleans) and I've found that I really like watching her please another man. When the subject first presented itself a few years ago, I said to her I only want her to do it if she REALLY wants to do it, and not just to fulfill my fantasy. Fast forward, she REALLY enjoyed it, and so did I. My distinct preference is to watch, and I've actually asked to just sit back, relax, and watch after both my wife and/or her playmate invited me to join in.
I guess that makes me a cuckold (?). Is that term considered pejorative in the lifestyle world? It seems that in some porn which is self-described as "cuckold" the theme is one of humiliation of the husband. I find that very off-putting and have made it clear to my wife (and her playmates) that we insist on being friendly and respectful.

[jamesmaness]

Again, such good sound and honest advice. Unfortunately, I am in a marriage in which my wife would never, ever, allow us to swing or have a threesome, but a guy can dream. Thank you both.

[pablopeter]

Congratulations ¡ You are a super nice couple. Thanks for sharing with us.

[leeboriack]

Jackie you look fabulous and looking at you John, I can see why she is so happy.

[sharonemsley]

You can really see the love they have for each other ❤

[bassfish]

Thank you for posting this video. Watching my partner's pleasure is a big turn-on too. I see having compersion as a big plus for a partner too.

[maxlewin]

This is great! I felt the same in a 3some, we need to find another couple.

[chrisdell]

I don't oppose to the swinging as much as the Christmas tree up till mid-February.