Dark Side of Polygamy in Islam Featuring Debbie (formerly Muneera)

I explore the dark side of polygamy in Islam and Debbie tells us what it was like being the wife of a man who took a second wife after 7 years of marriage.

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[Matt-kfec]

I'm not a woman but just asking "Can I have a second wife" would definitely break something in the relationship and my love.

[anggabriel]

A great lover is not a Man who romances a different woman every night; A great lover is one who romances the same woman for a lifetime

[MAX-twqz]

Polygamy is proof you don't love your wife.

[topgirl]

FINALLY a man from the Muslim world EXPOSING and calling out the bs in the culture

[scorzi]

I've met so many adult children from these situations whose mothers are the second or third wife. There's shame, jealousy, the kids from different mothers are treated differently in a hierarchy, and it's obvious many guys use it as a way to just have sex with more women; not for any type of religious reasons.

[jhnnbhfvv]

If polygamy were truly good, then why didn’t he want his daughter to be in it? He even say it will hurt her, you can see that he knew but as long as it isn’t his daughter he wouldn’t care.

[kittye]

I'm an Ex Mormon, our prophets all had multiple wives. I've seen the same arguments made for Islamic polygamy as the apologetics for Joseph Smith.

[dedyrahadian]

In Indonesia, man use this phrase to woman "polygamy is chance for you to proof that You love god (by agreeing polygamy) more than love man". Sick eh?

[AJansenNL]

My now ex-husband thought taking a second wife would fix our marital problems. He thought wrong. It was the last straw. He only took, never gave, didn't provide, didn't listen, didn't communicate, didn't pull his weight. Yeah, sure, bringing a complicating factor would improve things.

[jeanmullen]

In England ( as I am sure elsewhere) the second or third wife would be considered a single parent as she is not legally married. Therefore she can claim single parent allowance as well as child benefit. A very unwholesome situation for honourable Muslims to have their second or third union paid for by the state.

[momo]

Most women would leave if they could and were financially capable.

[anggabriel]

The biggest coward of a Man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her

[AS-joqh]

An honourable man doesn't look at women other than his wife. I am proud to hold myself to this high moral standard

[Seriouslynotme]

I would straight go crazy if my husband was sleeping with someone else.. nothing in the world is so shameful for a woman

[annafarago]

As a Christian - I told my husband, if he ever cheats, he is out and divorce will follow. Married 50 years.

[el_killorcure]

And sex slaves, Sameer. Always emphasize that. Not just 4 wives and "concubines", but literal sex slaves they are allowed to possess, to this day, under the "right" conditions...

[dyawr]

Thank you for this. It's a disgusting system & people need to call it out for what it is. What a horrible, nauseating situation - _"we were both pregnant at the same time.."_ 🤢

[earlgreystoke]

Why do Western women get involved in these relationships?

[Zainab-iskw]

I did love marriage .He married to second secretly after 3 years of marriage.when i found out i gave him divorce.He was saying it is allowed in islam but i refused i said then i want to have second husband then

[BLACK.ANGEL.]

The moment a man would just ask, if he could have a second wife the divorce Papers would be on the way via express delivery!!!