Asking my wife questions guys are too afraid to ask | Ep. 48

This episode is sponsored by Manscaped.

In this week's episode, Matt reads out questions submitted by you guys to our Instagram page - JUICY QUESTIONS!

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Chapters/Questions:
00:00 - Episode 48
00:54 - are boobs two different sizes?
01:45 - are Brazilian waxes awkward?
03:50 - are periods really that bad?
05:38 - how did you convince your entire family to move to Arizona?
08:48 - do you feel flattered when other men flirt with you?
11:30 - is it okay for people in relationships to dance with people of the opposite sex?
12:57 - how do you guys have sex with 2 kids and a family living with you?
13:47 - how does Abby nurse in public using a shield?
18:02 - what are your thoughts on toys specifically for couples?
21:28 - will marriage ever be the same after kids?
23:33 - do you think the kids will be your first priority always? and not the husband?
24:56 - weight loss tips / easy meals to cook in college
26:38 - what is your body count?
30:21 - does size matter?
31:13 - do girls still want more traditional chivalrous acts
32:06 - was the first time scary?
32:32 - how do you have mom friends as a mom?
34:05 - how do you deal with family members that you don't necessarily get along with?
35:42 - what's more of a turnoff? a guy's ego or their laziness?
38:09 - do you prefer dad bods or like full on jacked bods?
39:00 - how do you politely tell a guy that you're not interested?
41:12 - does a man's job/profession change how attractive you find them?

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[carolynturk-huje]

It would be great to have a marriage counselor on the podcast, that can talk about pre-marriage counseling too.

[megs.]

Yess to Abby for saying you have to trust women when they tell you their experience! (with periods or anything else) I have endometriosis and so do millions of other people, and it really is "that bad." Honestly just love all of Abby's answers in this episode overall. She is so wise but also careful to be very inclusive of others who have different circumstances and perspectives.

[leen]

by the way Abby, it’s been tested and proven that people simply don’t flirt with amazingly beautiful women because they either think she’s out of their league or they assume she’s already in a relationship.

[tshenolomxathule]

5:13 love this question about periods. As a guy who has sisters, and raised by strong men and women in the family, I definitely always thought that they were horrible. Definitely blessed to be a boy and not a girl. Girls, y'all deserve respect for enduring that much pain and discomfort 😢

[Its_Cathryn]

As the daughter of a police officer and the sister of a firefighter, I completely understand what Abby said about how it would be scary if your spouse was one of those jobs. I thank you for recognizing that.

[dakotadupee]

My husband is a firefighter and I can confirm that it is scary sometimes hearing the sirens and knowing he’s there. But the long days off do makeup for the time away and also the time spent away is so nice when he finally comes home!

[katiemoonstone]

I feel like Abby is so wise & talented in communicating her thoughts, and I so appreciate Matt’s curiosity & intelligence! I just love hearing your wisdom & combined respect for one another. You’re both incredible humans ✨🙏🏼✨

[iveybolthouse]

Abby laughing about the “women’s physique” getting in “all sorts of trouble” 😂😂😂

[agirlnamedchuck]

I love having conversations with strangers. One time I was in the shampoo aisle and had a conversation with a woman. She told me how her and her husband travel around to play Santa and Mrs. Clause. I thought that was the coolest and so sweet! What a fun life. It’s also easy to bring up conversations with people if you are both buying travel size stuff. Where are you both going? It’s so fun to talk about. I wish more people would be willing to do that.

[laurenreay]

I don’t have tik tok and actually found you just through this podcast and your vlogs. I absolutely love you two! You both remind me of my fiancé and myself. Currently 10 weeks pregnant with our first baby and watching some of your baby vlogs and just listening to you all talk has been really helpful and comforting to me. Thank you! 💜😁

[choochoo]

I'm an old lady, in a very happy marriage with grandkids, etc. RULE NUMBER ONE: Always Prioritize Your Marriage! I was raised with my parents making sure we knew THEIR marriage came first, and I raised our kids that way. In the end, the children learn SO much about how to behave as an adult, how treat your spouse with respect, and how NOT to let your children 'play' you. Children need parents, not friends, as you know.

[annam.]

I always love hearing you guys compliment each other so much, and then the other says thank you, acknowledges the praise, and gives praise back. But it doesn't seem forced, it just feels so genuine. I wish more people could be like that, romantically or platonically.

[TualaFam]

Can I just say the way you two communicate together makes this grandmothers heart happy!!!! ❤❤❤❤ I wish more people communicated and were as kind to one another as you two

[ljjdsee]

The phone scrolling is the realest micro problem that avalanches quickly, thank you guys for mentioning this!!

[brookebentley]

How Matt talks to/about Abby and compliments her is SO SWEET !! He is truly her #1 fan . Love you guys!!

[Kelsey_Lou]

This is one of my favorite podcasts. I love to listen to it while I run or clean. I might be a little young for this podcast but I still like it. It’s very entertaining and I feel like I love to just listen. Keep it up guys!!!❤❤❤🥰 Also praying for you guys to have a wonderful 2024 and to have an easy going 2 under 2 experience🙏

[KristasVlogs]

I wish I could be friends with Abby, she really does seem so genuine and kind and I wanna be friends with people like that! I look up to her for many reasons!

[Mxdison]

I recently got hooked on your podcast after following your tiktok for a while but I hadn’t known you had this podcast. It’s been a marathon ever since, it is the best past time. You guys are so genuine and it feels like you’re in the room with me. I love listening and gaining advice from you botj

[AnelDuplessis]

don't ever stop having LOVE you guys

[biancaapilado]

I'm Australian, and I used to be a Laser and Dermal Therapist. I can confirm I have so many horror stories 😂 I can also confirm we get paid peanuts for seeing and smelling someone's lower region everyday 😂 can also confirm, I no longer work in the industry 😂 and we definitely do not earn six figures. The people conducting these treatments are Beauty Therapists and are unfortunately on a very low income. Not a good industry.