Did You Ruin Your Chances Of Getting Your Ex Back?

Hey guys, my name is Brad Browning, you may know me as “Breakup Brad”.... I’m a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver Canada, and I’m the author of 2 best-selling programs including The Ex Factor Guide.

Today I’m going to be addressing a topic that I get asked about constantly here on YouTube in the comments on my videos, and from my coaching clients…. I’m going to help you figure out whether or not any mistakes you’ve already made since your breakup have blown your shot at getting back together with your ex.

So, if you’re in that boat.. If you’ve done or said some things to your ex since the breakup that you now regret, or that you realize now were a big mistake… and you want to know if there’s still hope to win back your ex, then stay tuned.

First of all, let me give you some good news right off the bat…. You’re not alone.

*** More from Brad Browning: ***

[ashleybellerose]

Oh my god Brad. I am crying I am so happy. All your advice worked! all of it. I got my girl back. I honestly did not see it coming. The radio silence got to her, and she called me from a private number so I would answer. And she is mine again. It didn't even take a month for my situation. I now need to watch your how to keep them. I don't wanna act crazy. But if she leaves again I won't be pressuring. by that point I feel the cycle is endless. I adore you ! you are my favorite ♡♡♡

[crash]

I ruined my chances by being needy and sappy, and begging.

[DaWrestlingKnowledge]

Thanks Brad, I finally got my ex of 3 years back after 2 months apart, a lot went on in the two months including begging and pleading, no contact for 2 weeks which worked amazingly, but the one thing that made her realise how much she loved and wanted me back was her rebound relationship, I took your advice to pretty much do nothing to change her rebound relationship, and she realised on her own, ringing me, crying, wanting to give us a second chance. I decided to give us another go, even though it's hard for me knowing she has been with someone else, hopefully you might have So tips to get through these mental scars in my head with her with another man. I've forgiven her for it, but keep bringing it up again, which I know is a bad idea if I want to keep her, but I'm getting better. Thanks again for all your advice through a very hard 2 months. But I'm happy we are back together.

[nicromeo]

hey brad, I already poured my heart out to her multiple times after the break up, I'm afraid I did it too much and completely ruined our chances. its been about a month after the break up and right after she dumped me she said that there was still a chance later down the road that we could get back together but after weeks of me apologizing to her because I felt so guilty I just wanted her to know that I realized my mistakes and that I was truly sorry for them, apparently she changed her mind she told me after that she really thinks were never going to get back together. I realized what I was doing wasn't helping my chances. I fear that I painted a negative picture in her head about me. then I came across ur videos and I realized that I did exactly what u said not to do. For about the past week we have been snapping each other just to keep the streak alive I'm ending it today and I'm going to attempt the 30 day no contact. recently I have been going out with my friends a lot and she knows that I've been on social media ect.. hopefully that will help me out. I don't know if its to late because she basically told me that she was over it and we really didn't have a future together. Hopefully I can find a way to salvage this. thanks for the advice it really helped me out

[zacharyseet]

4 days into the no contact rule... I have no idea whether it's working or not. It's so hard.

[kdubzz]

hey Brad! just came across u videos. My ex and I were engaged and with had a kid about two months ago. last week he found out i cheated on him while i was pregnant. before i told him the time period of when i cheated he said we would be able to work things out and just needed a little space. then i told him i cheated while i was pregnant and after he proposed. now he wants nothing to do with me. he is even more angry and sees no future, he says. he said i shouldn’t have to him that bc if it were to happen before then, he would be willing to work it out. i told him i’m sorry and that i was scared after he propose so i cheated. which makes it even worst it seems like. we can still talk about how our day went and he baby sits when i got to work but he mostly just wants no contact and to be left alone. he is already talking to other girls. and i don’t want to lose him. it’s kinda impossible to go with out contact though bc we do have a kid. what are your thoughts?

[lenemarias]

I'm in the middle of the "no contact rule" and it hurts like hell.. My ex left me becouse he had this huge amount of stress and he just had to do something big and fast.
I have been talking to his mother tho and she says that he's already having some regrets. We were dating almost a year and I love him so much but yet he still hurt me. I have no idea what to think. I've been hanging with my friend a lot but I still miss him

[savatarslavge]

After 1month i win her back thank you so much you are legend

[abbyleedancecompany]

It's been almost a whole year since my breakup, I sadly feel like I have lost a chance to get back with her.

[KDOT]

Hi Brad, I really need your help on this. 5 months back I cheated on my ex with someone else that I had no feelings towards at all or didn't even care about at all. She found out that I cheated from the girl I slept with and she told her everything that I had been doing. When all of this happened I told her to leave me and that I should be alone but she insisted on trying to make this work again and I said my apology to her and really meant it because I could see how it affected her. So we decided to carry on with the relationship. It's October now and she's now saying that she can't do it and that she can't get the images out of her head of me and this girl I cheated on her with. She said she has tried countless times to forgive me but she is saying that she can't be with me because the betrayal is too deep for her. During those 5 months we were together we really didn't work on things or talk to why i cheated in the first place and just went on like things were normal. She then went on to say that she can't pretend like everything is normal because it is emotionally drainning her. To end the relationship we had she said that she's not happy in the relationship anymore and that she needs to find self happiness and love herself first and what I did to her has caused this to happen and that she keeps seeing images in her head. What can I do to fix this because I really love her and what I did was just a bad decision, I refuse to let 4 years go down the drain for a stupid mistake that I did. Should I follow the 30 day no contact rule? I don't know my hearts aching her not being here. We've still got each other on WhatsApp and Snapchat and she can see my stories and i can see hers. I just really need your help because I don't want to loose her.

[cherrypeter]

My girlfriend breakup with me for second time, im so regret for what i have done... i really want her back...

[Krabbo]

I was being pushy and needy after my ex broke up with me. I kept talking to her about the break up even though she told me to stop, and I eventually got blocked.
It took me some days of no contact to find myself and realize that I just can't behave like this. I was being unstable.
My ex still has pictures of us on her Facebook and Instagram, she told me that she purposely left them on there. The last times we were in contact through mail she acted mean and cold.

Will her anger fade with time? Should I wait for 2 weeks and then try to contact her again? She is freezing me out of her life by being cold and sometimes ignoring me, but she still has pictures of us, she still has my stuff in her house etc...

[Clearconceptshindi]

my girlfriend ask for a space after 1year, 3months, 22days and 7mins of relationship...
plss tell me what shall i do now

[garygoldman]

Going on 3 months now. Haven’t heard a word it’s completely silent. Still blocked on social media. I don’t know what to do. I didn’t beg I didn’t yell at here. I excepted the break up and hung up. Thanks you this quarantine I have no way of finding out what’s going on. I don’t have much hope left. I wish she would just reach out and talk to me. She means the world to me and I would give anything just to see her again

[latrellebooth]

I’ve messed up things with my bm but now I really want her to come back to me

[Vampier]

I broke up with my ex a month and couple of weeks ago. No fighting was involved, it was her idea to break up, also I never plead and begged. I am doing no contact however I blocked her from social media yet unblocked her a couple days after...I don't know if I ruined my chances. We had a short distance and then long distance. She broke up because of long distance.

[thope]

Hey brad! I tried the 30 day no contact rule and she messaged me on the 2nd week of it. Should I continue to talk to her or should I continue with the 30 no contact rule?

[AvronSerrao]

Hey Brad I've been talking to my ex and we have had arguments but when I questioned my ex about me not taking to her ever she aggred to it she was cool with me not talking to her.
She tells me she doesn't want to get back with me ever but still talks to me and keeps playing mind games on me and walked out again she says she doesn't have feelings for me anymore we have had fights very often but she is not ready to get back with me ever and she says if she doesn't text me I should not bother her ever and she is cutting me out of her life and I've asked her for another chance and promised her to change she still disent agree idk what to do Brad please help me I really love this girl and I don't wanna lose her ever I really want to get her back.

[mobeennawaz]

brad you are great. your no contact worked magically. she initiated break up 5 month ago.
now she os texting me should i do now? ho should i deal now? for which things should i be careful about?

[MJROCKSeva]

Hey Brad!! I really need your advice.
I'm 19 and my ex and I had been together for 4 months. I was her first boyfriend and she meant the world to me. She said she loved me for the person I am as I know I am not rich and neither good looking. I did treat her like a queen initially but she broke up with me twice in three months and did get back after me asking her to. She never really did leave me and said that it's on her and her over thinking habits. She always did drop texts and called me. She comes from a very conservative family so she can't really go out with me until a year but she was really obsessed with me. She wanted to marry me in 3 years and would text me even if I didn't after fights in a few days. When she broke up I got so overwhelmed by insecurities regarding myself that I was really mean to her in between and also when she wanted to get back after a few weeks. When I took her back the next morning I was overwhelmed by emotions over thinking on how she'll not assuring me that she'll never leave me and only said she'd try. I left her that day after a fight. The next day after her begging me to take her back I ended up doing the same because she wouldn't remove a guy who insulted me where as I removed girls she asked me to. After a week I said we both made mistakes and wanted to start fresh but she refused and we stopped texting for a week. When I saw her in class the next time is what caught me off guard. She seemed really happy and normal. We texted and talked over the phone that day and I asked her several times to come back and told her how helpless I feel without her. She said she loves me but would never come back and thinks that this relationship has become too bitter and is beyond repair.. I guess what hurt her the most was how i said the worst things and left her and she didnt expect this from a person like me. The way she assured me that she'd be my wife no matter what is why I feel so baffled about her giving up. she seems hurt but strong enough to move on. And I made mistakes said the worst things only because I THOUGHT we were in the comfort zone of having an unbreakable bond and I wanted things to be like before.. She has her fb deactivated for 1.5 months and is busy studying and thinks it's not the time for this and we haven't talked for 12-13 days. Yesterday she came online and she did say she loves me back when I said I do and then went offline in 2 mins.. This is the same girl who talked to me for several hours :( I feel devastated.. I weep at night thinking how she'll never be crazy for me like before. Brad she means everything to me.. I want her back real bad. I feel that she'd get over me fully within this exam time taking into account how I pushed her away. I tired convincing and pleading twice
. Do you think she'd want me as much as she did just a couple of weeks back and come back in her own accords after exam time? A reply is highly appreciated.. God bless you Brad <3