ASMR | Getting YOU Ready for Pride!! | She/Her Pronouns

HAPPY PRIDE!!! Definitely OPEN this description box, it would mean a lot to me!
Thank you so so so much to all of the community members that helped contribute to this series. It honestly was way too long of a time coming, but I’m just glad that this year we did it.

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ABOUT THE SERIES
Hi everybody!! This is part of my 6-video pride series, so please feel free to watch whichever one(s) you’d like! 100% of the funds I make from these three videos will be donated to:

I’m also making a personal donation to:

Why does Pride Matter?

MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE (Updated)
My sexuality: I am pansexual. To me, that means my attraction to people isn't determined by others' gender identity/expression. Other people may have different personal reasons for identifying as pansexual, but that is why I resonate with it.
My gender identity: I am non-binary but use any pronouns - however it's hard for me to communicate it properly with my experience that we live in such a binary world and that being socialized/raised/viewed as a woman obviously affects me greatly. For me, being non-binary means I do not fall on the binary of "woman or man". I appreciate a mix of gendered terms :-)

Something I saw online that resonated with me:
Trans Men don’t owe you masculinity
Trans Women don’t owe you femininity
Nonbinary people don’t owe you androgyny

I certainly am overgeneralizing in this series, playing up physical stereotypes of masculinity, femininity, and androgyny to elicit a particular experience -- but women might not want to present femininely, men masculinely, nonbinary androgynously, etc.

Women don’t necessarily always use she/her, men don’t necessarily always use he/him, and nonbinary people don’t always use they/them. Pronouns don’t necessarily equal gender, nor have to align with any “rules” of sexual orientation.

Important: I am not professionally licensed or qualified to speak on or about mental health, nor am I professionally trained or educated. I very much care that you have access to proper resources that I cannot personally provide!
Trans Lifeline US: 877-565-8860
Trans Lifeline Canada: 877-330-6366

SOURCES AND EDUCATION

I also want to point out and appreciate all the work people put into growing Pride into such a large and supportive event, especially Black trans women. There’s so much to learn about the history of Pride, and even more to learn about each community that’s represented there.

A ton of the products and clothes used in this series are from queer-run or queer-owned small businesses!

HAPPY PRIDE!

[GibiASMR]

HELLO! I’ll be posting all 6 videos as they are uploaded to YouTube! :)
OPEN ME, AND READ DESCRIPTION WOO!


I couldn’t fit it all in the description!



This video series is meant for anyone who would like to watch and enjoy. Whether you are confident or questioning, unlabeled or defined.



If you feel safe to do so, please feel free to share about yourself and your own journey in the comment section. I will be instantaneously YEETING out rude people, so please be sure to be accepting and supportive of others in the comment section!
Please do be sure to protect your identity and personal information when posting, and stay



A few related videos I really enjoyed watching myself:

[potatomcgee]

Learning Gibi's real name is Gina was the most shocking part of this entire video

[Mila-iyzj]

I just love the fact that Ben actually screams "Bi wife energy"

[totalweirdo]

Damn. As an aro/ace person, it still gets me when I hear people explicitly welcome us into the community. Thank you so much.

[kyliephx]

All I can hear is “Bi. Wife. Energy. He’s got bi wife energy” any time Ben is mentioned 😂

[_eepies]

i watched the video for he/him pronouns a couple days after it was posted almost four years ago. it was so affirming as a gay teen and genuinely meant everything to me at that time. remembering this series existed, i came back tonight to watch this specific one for the first time as a trans woman. hearing "she just got here" almost made me start crying out of happiness. thank you for this series gibi, even after all this time ❤️

[RachASMR]

_You can literally pull off _*_ANY_*_ hair color/style!!! Literally every single one. And you’ve done A LOT_

[thgalaxy]

Here as a cis straight person but just here for the wholesome pride content. Happy pride to everyone! We will keep fighting to make the world safer and happier for you. :)

[kitty-pmmz]

im also bi dating a cis man!!! hearing u say “this doesnt make me any less bi or pan” made me so happy :) 💓

[octopiarejustwetspiders]

“Lesbians who don’t use she/her pronouns are valid.”

Oh, now I’m crying. Thank you so much for this series and these affirmations, I can’t tell you how comforting it is to be validated like that, even by a stranger through a screen.

-A they/she lesbian

[loveluci]

Gibi is ✨icon✨ and no one can tell me other wise. She supports everyone and literally makes everyone feel so welcome and appreciated. I wish I knew her in real life. Who agrees?

[leilam]

As an ace person who witnesses so much ace erasure each day, seeing you just mention us ace and aro people and tell us we are valid and welcome, has brought me to tears

[gmbrooksy]

I am a fellow Gina who is bi/pan and married to a cis man 💛 we are still a part of the LGBT community, and should be able to participate in pride proudly. Thanks so much for making these videos. You’re the best!

[melware]

This comment section is the most wholesome thing I've ever seen, everyone is so accepting of everyone and it just makes me happy to see that for once.
Happy Pride! You are all valid and beautiful and live your life the way you want to!

[VV-jbcs]

I don’t know if she’s playing her true self or not in this role play but GIBI IF YOU’RE ACTUALLY SCARED TO CUT YOUR HAIR SHORT YOU SHOULD DO IT IT LOOKS ABSOLUTELY GREAT ON YOU

[Atomicxxemily]

In addition to Gibi’s note “Women don’t necessarily always use she/her, men don’t necessarily always use he/him, and nonbinary people don’t always use they/them. Pronouns don’t necessarily equal gender, nor have to align with any “rules” of sexual orientation.” Please be patient with allies who are still learning! If someone uses the wrong one I don’t think we mean to gender you it’s just the way we’ve all learned. ❤️

[paincreatesfame]

As a closeted queer woman living in a _very_ unsupportive household, this makes me want to cry 🥺❤️ I’ve never been able to openly go to pride and I’ve never really been in a safe environment irl where I can just exist as who I am so I’m glad there’s places online that are safe and supportive

[joselocalau]

i’m a bi woman dating a bi man, truly the peak of wlw and mlm solidarity even if we look like the average straight couple to other people lol

[fishweasel]

"Oh my gosh you look adorable!"

My outfit: oversized sweatshirt

My hair: looks like a tornado styled it because I never brush it

[skye]

the funniest part about this series is progressively watching her coffee run out LMAO