6 Unattractive Things Men Do On Dates (From A Woman's Perspective)

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[Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

Don’t show up late on the date and act like it’s no big deal. Don’t Be on your phone.

[oza]

The No Initiative thing. It is VERY unattractive to me when a woman wants a man to initiate but they NEVER initiate anything themselves. This irritates me to no end. We take on all the vulnerability and risk with our decision of where to go on a date, how fast the relationship should develop, when to be intimate, financial matters, etc. I mean, I certainly don't even think it has to be 50/50. As a matter of fact, not even 90/10. Just don't hold me accountable to making EVERY decision and having EVERY failure come back on my shoulders in the relationship. It's a two way street...do something!

And great video Courtney!

[snoobeagle]

1. Being non-reciprocal
-not allowing your date to talk about herself
-whole point of a date is getting to know each other
-consider asking the same question back once you have answered
2. Lack of effort on appearance
-avoid wrinkles in clothing
-take a shower, observe hygiene
3. Taking no initiative
-not planning out the date
-not doing your part in the conversations
-can be a sign of how you run your life
4. Rushing the relationship
-don't make "we statements" too early, use "I"
-showering with gifts early in the relationship
5. Talking about your ex
-if asked, make it short, and positive
6. Being under the influence (intoxicants)
-you want to be in control of yourself so you can learn about your date
Bonus: Being overly sexual in conversation too early.

[Nierlock]

To point 1. I once had a date with a chick where it was like pulling teeth to get anything out of her and she barely asked me anything. So I assumed she wasn’t into me. Later she asked me why we didn’t do more on the date or hook up. I was like bruh, you seemed completely uninterested 😂

[chrismoore]

Too many women expect the man to do everything and do it all perfectly.
How about women need to give a little instead of expecting so much.

[TheSnugsterr]

I hate that a lot of dating advice for men often boils down to "Dance monkey, dance!" Be confident, but not cocky. Be assertive but not
controlling. Be emotionally open but never weak. Be charismatic & entertaining, but not a clown.
Persistently pursue, but play it aloof. Speak your desires, but don't be needy. Be romantic, but not a simp. Be open, but remain mysterious. Just be yourself.... Unless yourself isn't a confident, charismatic, driven, out-going, funny, intelligent, & fit guy. Having a great, interesting career and making bank helps a bit too.

It's just that easy, bro.

[NilsDavila]

Honestly I’m at a point right now where I’m really just focusing on myself. I realized that I have a lot self limiting beliefs and that if I want true happiness and wealth I need to change my mindset and habits. I don’t have to do any of that but I’m starting to want to.I’m starting to see that there are other possibilities for life and that I don’t have to be a prisoner of my own mind and environment. And I’ll start dating when I feel that I’m in a better place both mentally and Physically.Enough said

[sammogaming]

Very good video! Yesterday I went on a date with a girl I met on a dating app. It was a walk on a trail and went so good. We both are very active so doing this as a first date was perfect. We weren’t on our phones except for a few pictures of the wildlife. Talking with her was like a breath of fresh air. I went through a bad breakup earlier this year and your videos have helped me tremendously. So thank you for that! Much love

[Lorde_Nanners]

Hey Courtney,

This comment is more of a generalization of all your videos, not specifically this one, but just to start I want to say thank you for pursuing this type of content.

Your presentation is elaborate and thoughtful, and your information is delivered concisely.

Whats great is that your videos opened an opportunity to not just be prepared going into new dates/meeting new people. Instead allow me to reflect on past interactions that didn’t work out, and understand why my actions could have contributed to the end result.

Thanks for having that older sister wisdom for those that did not have that exposure. I feel as if I have a deeper understanding of women and their individual perspective on dating, as well as a better idea of who I am, and actively working (mentally and physically) toward that better version I see myself as.

Thanks!

[SeekerGoOn]

I’ve been a good listener for a long time. Being introverted, it’s a good way to show interest and to have topics to go back and forth on.
Be careful, though. If she never asks about you; Red Flag 🚩
If you don’t offer at least *some* input and opinions she won’t get to know YOU.

[andrewtrotter]

I talked to a lady recently who said a guy showed up for a first dinner date wearing a camo t-shirt, board shorts and Crocs and no socks. Unless it was to a water park or a boat ride, how does a grown man not know how to dress for a first date?

[johnzywko]

Becoming true friends is harder because that’s the real deal and relaxing being yourself pulls it together…just have fun, enjoy meeting someone new and getting away from the same old, same old life..there are so many things to talk about in todays world.

[spencer_jackson]

Talking about your sex life really loud or asking me about mine in public is unattractive. A woman did this to me and people in the restaurant were turning around and staring at us lol

[michaelcdarby]

Courtney, I want to thank you for all the advice you have given me through your videos. I finally approached this girl that I’ve seen for awhile and had a great conversation with her. At the end i asked for her number but she said she had a boyfriend but that she really appreciated me approaching her. I never would have been able to do it without learning what I should do through your videos. You are a great teacher!

[Pacowaka]

Went on date #2 with a person who only talked about themselves. The second date was in hopes that she would ask me things or want to learn about me, but nope. She is incredibly sweet, and I love sitting and listening to others, but it felt very one sided. Ended up just being friends.

[georgewiel]

Thanks, Courtney. Wishing you a pleasurable Sunday.

[Criner]

All of these also apply to women. Being non-reciprocal was a big reason why I broke up with the last woman I dated. She was the easiest person to talk to, but not with.

[MrGilperc]

Thanks for a very informative, well thought-out video. Everything is basically laid out to make your date successful. Also, thank you the Tiege Hanley link. I've been thinking about it for a while and the discount just makes it a no-brainer.

[qbrown]

Great info Courtney 👍🏾. Thanks for sharing your wisdom 💯

[siliyemoodislam]

The huge unattractive mistake is not to trim your nose and ear hairs . Smallest details can ruin your style. Plus, stop making noises when eating.