TTC 💔

Trying to conceive is a lonely and hard journey, but it doesn’t have to be. This post is for all of my TTC girlies 🫶 you are seen, valued and loved. Maybe your feelings range from sad to angry; your emotions are valid. Maybe you have been trying to 6 months or maybe you have been trying for years. Maybe you have experienced loss like me, or maybe you haven’t. Maybe you are trying ivf or maybe you aren’t. It’s not a competition but instead a sisterhood of women who cheer each other on through the journey. Feel free to share below your story or how you are feeling 🫶 and if don’t want to/ aren’t ready to share details drop a 💙 emoji and I’ll say a prayer for you. Most importantly you are not ALONE IN THIS JOURNEY SISTER. YOUR STORY IS NOT OVER YET 🩷🫶 #tryingtoconceive #ttc #ttccommunity #ttcjourney #miscarriage #ectopicpregnancy

[amandalee]

The kindest thing someone can do is just listen and maybe ask, “is there anything I can do to help?” It’s hard not to try to make someone feel better, but most of the time listening is the only thing people need.

[areiaw]

Me and my husband TTC for 3 years, and it was one of the most humbling experiences I ever went through. We got lucky after a round of IVF. Our girls are due in March 🌈 but the hormones were so hard on my body I couldn’t imagine doing it again. I have so much empathy for anyone on a fertility journey. There’s really nothing you can say other than - I see you and your resilience and send nothing but love and admiration your way ♥️

[aprylburtchin]

I walked this road for over ten long years, India. I understand your hurt, disappointment, pain, and disbelief of others' comments. My heart goes out to you!

[arielaalves]

Oh India😢, you are not alone❤
This is a "club" that no one wants to belong to, but here we are...
Did my first ever embryo transfer last week (after 9 years of TTC), next week will know the results.
I am praying for you, that you will not have to go through this part and that great things will happen to you soon❤
Baby dust to all of us trying and praying🙏🏻

[yanushkaemsultan]

May God give you what u r dreaming about❤

[carriethompson]

Girl, I promise in God's time, it'll happen. I went through the same thing as you & then it happened. Give it to God... and don't ever think ur not good enough as a woman.. it's just up to God. We dont ask questions, we just believe.
Love u girl ❤

[twinkieskoolaid]

My mom loves those crepe myrtle trees. She planted one and no matter how she took care of it and nourished it, it looked like it wasn’t going to make it and slowly started drying out but one day while I was watering it, I couldn’t believe it, I noticed a tiny new leaf and slowly the tree started healing! By summer it had beautiful red flowers. Don’t despair ❤️ something beautiful will bloom, don’t lose hope🙏🏻

[ashleacolom]

It took me 5 years of ttc. I am praying for you. I know this is a very difficult time for the two of you. The best advice that I got for to allow yourself to grieve each month that your period comes. It’s way better then just pushing it way down.

[BRIXX]

It took my so and I 10 years to have our son he’s now 8 and I’m 35 don’t give up girlie your rainbow baby will be here soon when god always has a plan❤

[sasousousa]

I follow another couple who struggled too and finally adopted the most brightest little angel. God has other plans for you and I'm sure someone in this world is waiting for you to find them

[heatherbrooks]

I'm going through my second miscarriage since November right now. If I hear "atleast you can get pregnant" one more time I might lose it. We got 12 weeks in this time and it was the hardest thing I've ever been through. There's nothing anyone can say to make up for not having a baby growing healthily in your belly. Praying for you and I hope we both get our rainbows soon🩵

[missmistyeyedd]

Ok I got the chills when you said “well at least you know you can get pregnant now, right?” After me trying for the first time, just to get pregnant, and miscarry early. A lot of my family and friends said this. One even asked me if I knew for sure that I was pregnant.

[jonabumstead-jvql]

You’re a strong women. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps me a lot.

[Shellbellx]

As someone who has heard all of these except the last one, my heart goes out to you.

[morganadams]

I am so sorry you had to hear those comments, I have known people that have gone through IVF treatments and all I can say is wow. You are so strong way stronger than all those haters

[Youcangarden]

Same. We ended up adopting through foster care after IVF, miscarriage, premature ovarian failure, and failed egg donor ivf. The way I dreaded most was the way we were finally able to build our family. There’s no easy answers but there is hope. Much love to you. I wish you all good things.

[ellenjolenewilkins]

Rest, leave it in God's hands. Every good and perfect gift comes from above. You and your husband are healing now. God bless.

[nataliapinto]

I'm so sorry people are so I have ovarian cancer since I was 18, I'm also infertile I don't want to tell people cause I don't want people to treat me different.... I tried IVF once last year with donor eggs, now my tumor grew and i need to have an hysterectomy as But I still need to listen to those questions every time.... When I got married everyone was only excited for that... When I bought my house, I was so happy and proud, but people decided to turn even those news on a " I thought you were having a It's so disrespectful and ignorant... I'm really sorry you are going through this. Only you know what's right for you... One step at a time. I'm starting foster care soon. Is my next right step. Everyone's diferente. Hope you find happiness in yourself and feel complete even if something is missing. You are enough! You really are ❤

[sillymoosegoose]

Gods timing is perfect! He will provide, “good things take time”

[charmainedoeseverything]

I’m so sorry. I feel so sad when I see women trying to fall pregnant but have to go through such a hard and painful journey. It breaks my heart 😢😞 Please do not give up ❤lots of love.