Do you ever think about yourself? #pov #realization #love #friendship #menatlhealth #helper

[SimplyIwon]

If your the therapist friend you might think venting to others makes you “annoying” or “not relatable” but many people are here to support you. Okay? Don’t ever think your not good enough you always need breaks sometimes.

[sophiap.]

"you ultimately become the person who should've saved you when no one did."

[paolobattini]

Setting boundaries and saying "no, thanks" is necessary sometimes. I felt that.

[Zin_Kai]

This just helped me notice a lot of things
I've always felt like my main purpose in life was to help others, and my life has gotten into a routine of finding those who need help the most, helping them, and then having them leave me. This video is really accurate because I've never had somebody help me.. I've been through therapy, it didn't help.

[JustACryptid]

I was the therapist friend for years. For a while it made me feel good because I was helping people. But when things started getting bad for me in 2020, being the therapist made me feel so much worse. What annoyed me even more was that my friends that complained the most always labeled themselves as the therapist friend. And it wasn’t a title I wanted to fight for, but it added insult to injury because every time I tried to vent, the conversation almost immediately switched to someone else. I gave up. Now I’ve left those friends for unrelated reasons. It’s ok to leave the friends who take advantage of your kindness with nothing in return. It’s another toxic relationship that you’d never know you were in until you’ve left it.

[iamtheboogeyman.]

This is so relatable to me..that I’m crying.

[flammy]

the worst thing is feeling like you're always there for everyone but no one's there for you..😔

but honestly, have you ever thought of giving the love and attention that you're pressuring yourself to give others others, to yourself?

if you see this comment i want you to know, whoever you are, you are so loved and you matter in this world ❤

[Nightsky]

As the therapist friend AND the mom friend, I really felt this. The one person I did go to for help ghosted me a few months ago and ever since I haven't been able to find someone else who is willing to help me the way I willingly help others.

[SIMPZZZ]

I love how he's talking into a colour remote thing👁️👄👁️

[issaccsmh]

I love your videos so much you make me feel like I can actually talk about my feelings to my friends and my family<33

[ddluvxo]

I was that person, not anymore. Now I’m choosing myself over everything each and every time without any regrets bc ppl will confuse ur kindness for weakness and walk all over u

[ZJ]

As someone who has been the therapist friend, this is so relatable. And a lot of times when you’re the therapist friend, that gets taken advantage of..

[parinita__]

idk why i struggle opening up to people and sharing my problems and in case if i ever did so i regret saying every single word later... but i always make sure to comfort everyone and assure them that it's okay to have problems they can open up to me they aren't alone in it... I never get annoyed or irritate listening to people's problem but i can barely share mine with anyone it feels like people wouldn't care much or they may use it against me or may be i am just unnecessarily burdening them with my issues....

[MisterNobodyReal]

I help others because it gives me a reason and making them feel better makes me happy

[voiZeris]

That's so me. I help everyone and they can come to me when they have something to talk about. In my Relationship with my gf I'm mostly like this. But I do know that I need someone that can helpes me. It's hard to explain

[thegreenninja]

I never realized that is what I was really feeling. Thank you for helping me see this, as I am the therapist friend, so that you...

[Jaja-kmqv]

Yes that's exactly it, i don't want people to feel the way I've felt for years so I help them to the best of my ability plus I do really care abt them

[Ale]

Who can help me when I’m busy helping others?

[SnapeArgento]

I have this thing where I'm always the one that's listening to others but bc of a friendship that I had, i started to keep everything that was happening only to myself and never speak about it (this person would always be like "oh I don'tknow what to say, sorry" and wouldchange topics immediately before I could keep saying more stuff or just start telling me her problems that I always listen to without any complain) . It's still hard for me to not think that I'm a burden to everyone and that I make people feel uncomfortable by just trying to tell them how I feel, I never need people's advice but I something need to talk or just share my thoughts

[Heather_]

It is really hard being the therapist friend like you always had to neglect your own feelings to make someone else happy