Wondering if you can't handle transition as adult?

Are you freaking out you can't handle transition?

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[Kira-zmvy]

In my mind transition isn't even a big deal. Or it shouldn't be. The society we live in makes it difficult. My main concern like so many is the loss of family and financial stability. Yeah, I've been dealing with this for a majority of my life and I feel like I can handle most aspects of transition. I just imagine if I can make it through a gender transition then I can handle anything. Not being able to transition in my 20s or 30s has robbed me of so much potential I think.

[samc]

For me I think the difference was between confronting my feelings vs continuing to repress. Repression is worse but it's slow and spread out. Acknowledging myself is an actuely stressful thing. It was always easier, in the moment, to put it off until later.

Much like many things in life, it was way easier than I had expected and I kicked myself for putting it off so long. It's still hard and there's parts that suck about coming out, but I had no idea how much better it felt to finally feel at home in my body.

[tremereowen]

Perhaps the idea of not being able comes from the fear of having to endure a lot of pain all at once. I mean, perhaps it is easier to swallow a lot of little pills one by one rather to have a huge one in a single take

[faithsibanda]

If you're not happy as you are now, changing your gender won't do anything for you.
There's more danger on the other side of transitioning than is being let on. Higher depression rates, suicide rates. Before you do something irreversible, do a thorough research, not just from one perspective.
Also make this decision with the knowledge that social acceptance doesn't equal happiness, the life you live, the way you were born was for a reason.
I know life might suck hard for you, but you have to push back, and fight for what you want, don't take what may appear to be a fix but will only sate you temporarily.

[jadak]

Then you don’t know anything and people get mad that you don’t but you never got taught it my mom failed me she knew I wasn’t ready and let me take the jump I have a disability and she did everything for me now everyone I didn’t know what I didn’t know.