how to deal with HATERS | stop caring about what other people think and become MORE confident

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[theclassyconsultant.]

"If you don't like me but still watch everything I do, honey you're a fan."

[forevergodly]

Remember sisters Confidence is quiet and graceful whilst insecurity is loud and ugly.

[Tamannaaa]

what other people think about you is a reflection of what they think about themselves

[Lishzel]

I still have tearss in my eyes.... I quit my social media acc just half an hour agoo because i was literally crying of all the hate they gave me

[SakuraxStars]

The idea that even if someone is the prettiest person in the world, if they have a poor self-perception then they see someone ugly in the mirror—it’s such an important shift in perspective.

[v.i.j.i]

Okay, off topic but I love how the outfit is so badass and just giving me villain vibes, perfectly coordinating this video's topic. Tam really is a badass for doing this

[-_--bpnf]

"Every judgement is actually a confession" GIRL!?!? You are such a genius for that, Shakespeare who??? I've never thought of it that way but it's so terribly true

[Dhilushi]

The ones who directly bully you are weak. However, the ones who indirectly bully you are weaker as they are scared of you.

[makeuprequired]

“You’re too busy prioritizing history over sincerity” DANG! I really needed this video, I’ve been contemplating trying to make “friendships” work that clearly haven’t been working for the last year and I’ve been putting the fact that we’ve been friends for many years over the reality that they’ve been hurtful, hateful and disrespectful towards me. Your videos always straighten me out to help me move forward, so thank you!

[Alisalisada]

"People who say that you are cringe are the people who fear of being perceived bad and can't get out of their comfort zone".I really loved this part.As a person who had many haters, Many people tried to spread a lot of rumours about me and tried to make me gain enemies, this video was so relatable for me and your advice is so useful and perfect.💖

[sitimasarkar]

The line when she said "i am the one who held my hand from the day i was born" brought tears in my eyes🥺
Thank you tam for making me realise this simple thing❤️

[khushii]

When a hater was throwing dirt on my name in front of the whole class and I remain silent, everyone assumed that I'm a weak idk how to defend my self. Even that hater thinks that they won.

[Omaima._]

9:23 1why are they on a pedestal.
2. being hated on is a privelage.
3. judgment is a game of misery
4. you will never meet a hater that is doing better than you.

[nirzara]

Omg im gonna watch this vid every single week to remind myself how privileged i am to be hated<333

[kattaraxx]

U ARE SLAYING THAT LIPSTICK MISS MAAM <3

[starring]

'HAPPY DON'T HATE' this is so true cause all of the peeople who has sucessful business or the have achieve their dream life they don't have time to hate on others it's always the people who are doing the least.

[nongnoc]

0:29 idgaf
0:50 #1 master detachment
2:09 #2 "how can i be 1% better than yesterday?"
2:44 #3 live a life where u r ur own bsf
3:18 #4 outdo the rest
4:13 #5 always be busy (not overwork)

8:05 mindset
8:20 #1 being hated on is a privellge
9:20 #2 "why r they on the pedestal?"
9:59 #3 ppl will generalize the tiniest thing u do to ur entire personality
10:59 #4 judgment is a game of miserable
12:24 #5 stop trying to be normal
12:56 #6 "have fun playing with urself"
13:33 #7 ppl can only see reality that they have experienced
14:21 #8 ppl only perceive u in a way that suits them
15:39 #9 they really are just insecure
18:00 #10 ur simply a moment in each other's life
19:01 #11 compassion & empathy

20:50 confidence boost
20:53 #1 why does their opinions even matter?
21:22 #2 u don't need to compete in order to be better than anybody else
21:57 #3 confidence & self love go hand in hand
22:26 #4 real confidence comes from within
23:44 #5 some ppl just hate u and that's normal

[erikasolis]

My dear. I'm 42. You are Not cringe. I wish at your age I had acquired the wisdom and focus on goals you seem to have. I watch your videos daily and learn so much. Keep em coming girl! 💪

[cupidzzn]

"Since when does what a stranger have to say become more important than my own opinion?" I'm remembering this for the rest of my life ty

[adeptisacademy]

That last fact really got to me: if you don't like someone and/or they don't like you, it just means you two aren't meant to be in each others life. What a freeing truth. It makes "obligations" to family and old friends who are not aligned with you meaningless. Why stay with people if they are not meant to walk the same path?