And for the real reason is they use it against us.
roycecharlton
the real answer is that they WILL eventually use whatever they say against their husbands.
georgetektonopoulos
Amen.... You can't discuss the problem WITH the problem...
mrmiscast
Ouch! While that sounds brutal, it's the truth. Like it or not, women have a tendency to stockpile ammunition for future battles!
charlesmauro
I was on pins and needles to hear his answer. Once again, pure GOLD!!
Soei
History has taught men that once we open up about our feelings, they will be thrown back into our faces at the first opportunity. The other problem is that once we show vulnerability to the woman in our life, she will lose all respect for him.
russk
You confide in your wife and she will use it against you. And this woman should know that. Over the years, my wife often asked me what was bothering me and I would say I was ok. After she pushed had enough, I would relent and tell her. And then she would let me have it. She would also bring it up in the future. I finally stopped confiding in her because i didn't want to go through this with her all the time.
tidelovinyankee
We need more of this unfiltered honesty in the world
MarinaSvensson-wd
Perfectly said Michael. Or it will be used against us when the other wants to win an argument later on...that's
mwall
Because once you talk about your feelings and or show emotion it will eventually be thrown back in your face!
davemoritz
He's right. She's gorgeous 😍🥰
GGraf
I had to stop this one after she said what she didn't understand the first time. TOO MANY MEN have confided in women sometime in their life, only to have her use that info in an argument days, months, or years later. It took us awhile, but we learn the lesson eventually.
bobbymackey
The reason is, a lot of wives say, they want their husbands to open up, and talk about their feelings even cry, but when men do, their wives no longer see them as men. The wives then, divorce their husbands as a result.
patrickmcgavin
To discuss malaria with a mosquito!!! THAT'S pretty good there! lol 😏😁😆
Kenneth-ctrx
Brilliant answer! Reality is that it's hard enough to stabilize a woman with her emotions without undermining her trust that you have her problems under control when she sees you have issues of your own. Best that she keep her delusions that men are insensitive rocks they can trust. Gives her both safety and a feeling of emotional superiority.
rogerhuggettjr.
It's never forgotten and when they feel threatened it's always thrown in our face.
leedawson
EASY....
Women marry a man to be their rock, the protector, usually to be the bread winner, the one in the relationship,
who will do the..."heavy lifting."
When an issue arises that exposes a weakness with these reasons, what will she think of him. How will she still see him as
..."Knight in shining armor"
jeffgagnon
That is perfect! What an analogy. In most cases, it's like saying, "How do you discuss the wife's problems?" Most men can't without a fight ensuing. Honey, that's a perfect dress. So, what was wrong with the other one?...what is different about me today? Do something along those lines.
E-Lighterswon
Three reasons: 1) If we're a bit vulnerable you'll find us more attractive, but if we're too vulnerable you'll find us less attractive. 2) While men share very little with our friends women share everything with theirs. Anything you tell her will almost certainly be shared with all of her friends. Women tend to make decisions and process the world through committee and that committee is her friends. 3) Sharing your emotions, concerns, fears, and vulnerabilities with a woman means that sooner or later she'll use those against you. If you're lucky she'll only use them in an argument (which is still shitty) but she just might use them against you in a divorce or a child custody hearing.
I had a hard time getting women in my 20's but I'm in my mid 40's and I have beautiful women in their 20's and 30's all over me now. I'm not any better looking, richer, or more confident then I was back then, the only difference is I realized women are basically children and I started treating them like children and women eat it up.
matthewschafer
Mike & Jenn... Thanks for putting a big grin on my morning!! You guys just crack me up!! ;^)
