The Complexities & Oddities Of INFJ Sexuality

The Complexities & Oddities Of INFJ Sexuality | The vulnerable topic of love and intimacy can be a difficult thing to discuss with the INFJ personality type. With INFJ intimacy being one of the main topics this private personality type tries to avoid discussing, even they themselves may be curious.

So, what's behind the complex infj sexuality? And does personality type really effect the infj's sexual desires?

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TIME STAMPS:

00:00 - Intro
00:49 - Number 1: They are hopeless romantics
02:09 - Number 2: INFJs are innate people-pleasers
03:26 - Number 3: Physical attraction is a very small piece to the puzzle
04:37 - Number 4: INFJ are turned off by cockiness and overconfidence
06:08 - Number 5: INFJs have elaborate fantasies
07:43 - Number 6: INFJs are considered demisexual
09:17 - Number 7: They can end up seducing people with their energy and mystery
11:06 - Comment Question!

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[PSYCH-O]

Hey PSYCH-Os!👋
*So, do you think personality type has an effect on one's sexuality?*
Comment down below 👇

[ikasugami]

"...it's not impossible for the INFJ themselves to be left utterly speechless and uncomfortable with just how odd their mind can be at times." So true 😂

[abrazor]

"Nothing turns an INFJ on than their partner being turned on." - This is 100 percent accurate. From another angle, any discomfort from my partner turns me off immediately.

[laraoneal]

Infj woman doesn’t like excess pda or vulgar gestures. Speaking for me we are intellectuals. Attraction is never just based on looks. We take the intellect, sensitivity and overall self awareness to qualify real attraction. Character is really number 1.

[tadakatsu]

As an INFJ woman, I can say for myself arrogance in a man is completely a turn off for me for the reasons listed. When arrogance comes into the play in sexuality, for me, I feel it bastardizes the vulnerability involved in opening oneself in one of the deepest ways. It’s almost as if the other person who is expressing this trait is looking at you as if they’ve conquered you, rather than seeing your choice of vulnerability with them had arisen from your own free will and acceptance of them. So it was the utter polarity of it, as acceptance implies humility.

[karlsengupta]

Absolutely...I saw another video describing INFJs as "sapientophiles, " i.e., as individuals for whom deeply meaningful communication is essential in a sexual relationship.

[ShizuruNakatsu]

I am definitely demisexual. Even as a child, and into my teen years, I never wanted a shallow, sex/appearances-based relationship. I never wanted to kiss or have sex with someone based on what they look like. In school, when other teenagers were getting in and out of relationships every other week, and talking about their sexual escapades with pride... I found it all disgusting, and listening made me feel depressed and frustrated.

I do have an overactive imagination, and I dream and daydream a lot, including sexual fantasies. These fantasies can be crazy, and go completely against my own morals and values... but even in those moments, I know I would *never* actually do the things I'm thinking of. Even if the fantasies turn me on at the time, they only do so because they are in my head.

The thought of *actually* having any sort of sexual encounter with anybody other than a true partner for life, actually makes me sick. It's not an option for me.

[samraesamrae]

As an INFJ woman I can relate to that, emotional security is the most important ❤️❤️

[jerrimenard]

I like different people. For me, run of the mill good looks and ideas leave me cold. I want someone who's unusual and smart, as well as kind and friendly.

[FranciscoSanchez-jkct]

Physical attraction fades as the relationship grows, we love our partners by their character first.

[HillbillyHippyOG]

All very true. The acute empathy translates into bliss for any partner lucky enough to experience it. 😉 ✌🏼

[OpinionatedBrunette]

This is pretty realistic.. I usually end up doing my partners fantasies..instead of my own..I want my partner to be happy..❤

[Luemml]

As an INFJ I can attest to having a vivid mind and overly elaborate scenarios that can be quite kinky at times. But our people pleasing ability can get in the way of that, so if a partner is not into that, their well being and pleasure takes precedent over our own desires and wishes. nothing to me is more off-putting than a (sexual) partner who does not enjoy themself. I mean if my partner is not happy in a relationship, how can I? that only goes so far obviously, but lust for your own sake never works, it has to be a synthesis, not a one-sided thing, otherwise, pleasuring yourself works pretty good too, say when your partner is not in the mood. but yeah, that emotional connection is tantamount and requires trust, openness, vulnerability and getting to know each other pretty good usually. to let someone in into our "inner sanctum" in a sense takes a lot. We do not open that door for everyone. you need a vip pass for that.

[MermaidMoney]

INFJ woman here.. definitely this all feels true. When I am truly in love with somebody and feel completely comfortable with them my mind goes very spiritually high vibrational ideas and places.. so when I was once with my husband of 13 years, (about 11 years into the relationship LOL it took me this long to get to this level of I don't know what? Spirituality? Sexuality?) suddenly I saw us in a garden with marble walls on one side and one side was open-air looking out into a world of beautiful fruit trees and lush gardens.. and in the moment seeing all this beauty turns me on and made me way more passionate. It was so bizarre because when other people talk about their sexual fantasies or experiences nobody I know has ever been through this..

[cherylbrown]

Wow. I thought I was like this because of my upbringing. Pair rarest personality type with super rare childhood. I grew up in a Christian cult community, but no communes- just super strict, no sex before marriage, no dating-> old school courtship, didn't watch TV, sex was bad, EXCEPT in marriage! And even that was only for procreation! Yeah, because you can just flip it on and off. And I try to tell me husband- I'm the real deal! Sex with strangers is not exciting to me. Actually, it's terrifying!

[Thrasea_Paetus_Glow]

INFJ male here, covered it all perfectly. My personal experience though when I was unhealthy and in an extraverted sensory addiction mode twists a lot of this to making awful choices in partners and doing things I normally wouldn't have been comfortable with. When we really can't state our boundaries and will do anything for the person we choose it can get very, very ugly for us if they're toxic. It's so important we don't lose ourselves in our hopeless romanticism and are able to state our boundaries!

Thankful for the many experiences it's given me lost in that state, despite the trauma it's now a source of peace knowing I can provide a vast variety of pleasure from those mistakes for the person I love and share that with. Took a long time not to be ashamed of sadly.

[jacksaintjack]

In every situation (other than the bedroom) I find myself within myself, observing others and trying to pick up on what is making them tick. I am calm, cool, and self assured and may appear a bit passive. But once we are in the bed with that special one, the gloves come off. I go into intense mode. It is all about her. My goal is to be the best she has ever had or will ever have. My needs are secondary. My total focus is on her and sending her to places she never imagined. That is what gets me off.

[algonix]

INFJ-A + INFJ-A is the perfect couple of the most magical romances

[M.D.M.X]

I might be alone in this, but I have a slightly different take on one point hehe.

So basically for me, intimacy (in whatever degree) is tied to a person and not an activity.

In this case, sex in and of itself isn't necessarily intimate and can be enjoyed casually (and/or frequently) like other activities with people. It's essentially using the same given body parts to generally feel the same type of similar sensations / potential pleasures, regardless of it being different people.

It's indeed within and through profound and complex connections true intimacy is formed. Getting to know, understand and accept each other / share and feel pure emotions, discuss and grow from each others pain, fear, shame, regret, hopes, dreams, wishes etc. That level isn't reachable by many people.

Unlike sex, which by nature is more a simple physical act of pleasure in comparison, but still a fun time, even if void of any connection. It becomes something beyond sex if it's with someone you have reach that intimate connection as I mentioned.
Same as having conversations with others, often it's the intimate bond with close friends what makes those meaningful, but can also be considered valuable / appreciated in some way with a complete stranger.


Anyway, just a quick 'in a nutshell' thought as I killed some time :).

[BNJAMN]

Hopeless romantic where hopeless is the key word.... definitely need to feel like we are not alone in our responsibilities....