Dad Replaced My Mom by Getting Married to His Girlfriend and Kicked Me Out After I Told Her to...

Dad Replaced My Mom by Getting Married to His Girlfriend and Kicked Me Out After I Told Her to Get Out of Our

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[paranoidboyscout]

10 years later...."wHy DoESn'T My DAugHtEr tAlK tO me AnYmoRE....

[jordanwardle]

100% there is no money in the college funds, spent on nicole.

[Silencer]

How dare she share personal things to “strangers?” How dare the father pick a “STRANGER” over his kids!

[gwenrichard]

The withholding a therapist is him trying to make sure nothing can be used in court. Start recording now. Get your sister to record. Write down the times and dates of EVERYTHING.

Your sister will be turned against you.

[mizmiza.]

The father is a giant selfish a-hole . All these time he thought he’s the only that’s grieving and completely disregarded his children’s feelings and started neglecting them. The grandparents are also enablers to this situation . I hope OP finds a way out of this mess and find peace .

[DarkEinherjar]

OP needs to get her finances in order and prepare to go no contact with everyone in dad's side of the family. These people are way too toxic and controlling.

[zekebrix]

As a Christian, I’ve had my own mental health issues but when I went to speak of this with my pastor, he did not hesitate to refer me to a professional not try to spiritualize my mental health.

[fonandoozmando]

I would've yelled back at my grandparents

"Not once did I lie and if you're unhappy on what your son has become you only have him to blame for it, if you hate me for being truthfull then you can abandon me like he did, I will go to my other grandpa who seem to at least are for our wellbeing"

[nadhindrahakim]

As someone has commented before the dad doesn't believe in therapy because it will expose how a shitty parent he is.

[Doctorskin]

Little update I found!! Her father was arrested for neglecting her sister and kidnapping op from school essentially. They went to arrest the father and went through his phone and saw CP material. The also found nicole to have CP material on her devices as well. A looot has happened in ops life so I just wanted to give a tiny update.

[A-Warthog-ccwm]

Holy crap, no good ending here. Why is EVERYONE against OP? She needs to save up and move out as soon as possible and cut off contact with all these people.

[MatthewRatburg]

That dad, grandparents, and Nicole are terrible!

[DarkEinherjar]

It's not like those people don't believe therapy or counseling... the truth is that they're scared that those will expose them for the sh-tty people that they are.

[sarahsmith]

My God that was hard to listen to. I hope OP will be okay. Listening to stories like this make one feel so powerless. Poor thing.

[violet]

Heres the thing: a lot of people are failing OP and the sister rn bc there's at least half a dozen MANDATORY REPORTERS that this girl should be seeing at school every single day. Mandatory reporters should be reporting every single time she says she's been left alone at home without food for several days. They should also be reprting the fact that she was kicked out of home and is being threatened with homelessness if she reports these incidents to anyone. On top of that, since the college funds are from their dead mother, OP and sis would most likely have legal rights to said money. There's also the matter of calling the cops on maternal grandpa for "kidnapping", this could very easily be dispelled by explaining that they're being neglected to an extreme degree and they left home because the dad is verbally assaulting them for asking for the bare minimum and possibly also for being an alcoholic which could endanger the children. It doesn't matter for even a second what dad is demanding to save his image. Considerimg all of the false or harmful CPS calls sent in for perfectly fit parents, there should be just as many sent in about this father. Maternal grandpa needs to call CPS a dozen times over like yesterday. He should've been immediately reported to CPS about the head injury incident because that was completely intentional as neglect.

[jonghwabiased]

OP's father literally took the gold medal for worst father.

[ladylily]

OP needs to go to the police and CPS ASAP. I know these days, it isn't the best solution but it's the only solution. At least getting everything out into the open will put the spotlight on the shitty dad, grandparents, and Nicole. This will, also, make sure the baby isn't neglected and abused. The little sister is being manipulated with fear, so she needs to get out, too.

[DDs]

Just looked up OPs Original post/profile. She's in hot water and at risk for being found out. She also asked for her story not to be shared on FB TikTok etc. Her so called gradians lurk those sites. Guess that was redacted in this video :/

[gordybrown]

There was an update 2 days ago. Don't know why it wasn't in this video and why comments with the update are getting deleted, but I'll try adding it anyway.

Hi everyone, I’m only making a mini update.

During the meeting with the counselor and police officer, my father knew to expect a wellness check. In fact, he’s been home early every single day last week which is unlike him. My sister texted me last Tuesday that our father came home early from work and told her to behave. She was panicking and freaking out, so I called her to help her calm down. I explained to her that a police officer might come over for a wellness check, and she should answer the police officer’s questions honestly. I again don’t know specifically what transpired during the wellness check, but my sister told me that the officer came to ask my father some questions and asked her if she was ok. I asked her what she told the officer, and she told him that she was fine. Nothing has come out of it.

As soon as my sister texted me on that Tuesday, I tried sneaking out to go over to my dad’s home before the officer comes, but my grandpa caught me. He brought me back inside, and we had a yelling match to put it lightly. I yelled at him saying he doesn’t care for my sister and I. He yelled at me saying he was tired of my spoiled ass and that I should be grateful that I still get food and a bed after “the foolishness” I recently pulled at school. I left in the middle of his rant to calm down in my room. My grandma came up shortly afterwards to check on me. She said that your dad and grandpa are going through a lot to figure out this mess and to please not make it worse for her sake and for mine. I asked her what she meant by for my sake and hers. She said that I need to mature and act like an adult and to not cause her stress. Then, she said, “ You need to stop stressing Nicole. You know, the poor woman has been calling me crying about what you did. She’s scared for the baby.” After she said that, I did not have the energy to enter into another yelling match, so I told my grandma that I needed some space and left.

The counselor did not follow up with me during school last week. Also, I think it’s for the best right now. My sister had a panic attack last week. They almost called paramedics because she couldn’t stop hyperventilating. I know she is suffering and doesn’t need anything else placed on her mentally. I also don’t want to break her trust again after going to the counselor. She is the type of person to keep things to herself if there isn’t a strong rapport. If she is going through something, she will not tell you unless you force her hand. I still want her to feel safe and open when she speaks with me. I’m still evaluating my options and trying to find the best path forward.

Side note: I keep getting questions about this in my dms 1) My father, as far as I know, currently does not drink excessively or do hard drugs. 2) No, Nicole is not my stepmother. She is just engaged to my father. 3) I am not going to run away. I'm not careless enough to do that given everything

[TrueBlunty]

sounds like the grandparents were involved too but played the "oh why would he do that to u. we love u" munipulation.
seriously the whole family is evil