The Difference Between Co dependence And Friendship | Whitney Cummings

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[KingsguardRP]

A fundamental human need is the need to feel important, to belong, and to be appreciated.

There is nothing codependent about wanting to satisfy these needs.
This incessant shift towards independence and individualism is tearing the very fabric of society and people's psyches apart.
Human beings are social creatures, and the core of being social is interdependence.

[szazyyt]

If anyone here genuinely not wants to give a fuck about what others think of you, then find a genuine purpose, something you really want to achieve and dedicate yourself to it with your entire being. If you're doing everything in your power to achieve said thing and that's all you do day in and day out, it will genuinely make you happy and you'll naturally stop caring about what others think of you coz it doesn't contribute to your purpose. Nothing will even bother you in the slightest coz your purpose is all that matters.

[festermann]

We are still fundamentally animals, instinctively observing our surroundings, and through this, we gauge how others perceive us. It's almost like a mirror, providing us with a sense of direction. Much of this process occurs subconsciously, and any deviation from it might even be labeled as insecurity. :)

[expresidentdavid]

Whitney Cummings could read a direct quote from a book of facts and I’d still question its legitimacy

[LeftyRighty]

taken to an extreme extent, not caring about others opinions is the breaking down of "society", i.e. the negotiated agreed behaviours and values we all work with/towards. Others opinions shouldn't be something that cripples you and something you follow blindly, but it shouldn't be something you totally ignore either. Both extremes are bad.

[daikhairai]

It's an out of context clip so there's something lost here. But if you care too much what other people's opinions you'll become shallow so far as the groups priorities lay and if you care too much about only your perspective that could lay you in a trap of semi sociopathy. The major factor to consider then is, what is the culture of the population you reside in? Are they moral upright people or are they a ship of fools in a desert absent water, wisdom or wariness of their own inner failings?

I don't fully blame people for feeling spiritually lost in a big city, it's what big cities are meant for the destruction of the individuals value over the collective and the consensual tortion forces of backlashing individuality desperately clawing to reassert itself. Although you could always move.

[thetruthexperiment]

No. Wrong. Both of these people make their money based on their popularity. They trade in attention. There is nothing wrong with that. It isnt pathological unless it is.