Here's Why You Self-Sabotage

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Are you wondering why you self-sabotage?

Well, there's one main reason. And that's because it's really your unconscious trying to protect you.

When we self-sabotage, it gives us the illusion that we're in control. We can predict what the future is what's going to happen or not happen, because we're making it happen. And that makes us feel safe.

And so next time you're upset with yourself for self-sabotaging instead, remind yourself, you know what, I know that you're trying to keep me safe. Just say this to your own brain. But you don't have to do that anymore. I'm an adult; I can handle my own self. Start working on your self-awareness and your mindfulness. And you'll find that self-awareness is the key and mindfulness is the key, and all the self-sabotage really starts to lessen.

I'm Dr. Abby Medcalf. Follow me for more tips just like this.

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If we don't do it, somebody else will!

johnpulaski
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Also, is a coping mechanism for overwhelm and breakdown in executive function after narc abuse. And fear of failure and low self esteem. Long list. Thank you for this concise and informative video. I love your channel.

mendedandwhole
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Who is we…who is the voice in our head..can I meet him and give him a name?

SouthernLocks
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That doesn't make sense to me. For me, it's because I dune feel loved or love myself.

pattyturnage
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It hurts others & made me ill physically i have no sympathy for controlling self sabatoging people. Stay away

justkim