Going No Contact With A Narcissist At Christmas

When you go no contact with a narcissist at Christmas they could really lose their minds. This is one of the worst things you could do to them and it could cause a narcissistic collapse or narcissistic injury. so be careful

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[DaughterOfGod]

Nah I left him in March of this year, 2024, moved into my own little apartment, went no contact, got fired from my job 2weeks after I left, got a new and better job 2mths later. Got promoted twice in less than 6mths at new job, learned a new language, regained my hobbies, got in the best shape of my life, moved to the country I’ve always wanted to live (why I was studying the new language) met a healthy man last month, will spend Christmas with him today and he actually got me a gift wasn’t prepared for that.

Anything is possible but when you’re with a narcissist, life seems limited and on hard-mode. Once you leave that narcissist, life becomes so beautiful and you become beautiful because all that stress makes you crusty. If a narcissist is destroying you, get out! It’s so much more beautiful and fulfilling on the other side. Make sure you get trauma therapy be use to don’t want to bring that baggage around with you in life.

[KayNKateTV]

I sent all my ex narc items to their mothers house where they was forced to live after I accepted the discard and went no contact 💪🏾🌻3days before Valentine’s Day 😇.
Imagine receiving all those items in front of your narc mother and receiving an email informing you of a 30day notice of the rest in storage.

I changed my number and NEVER LOOKED BACK!!! 1yr no contact!💪🏾🌻

[Roxykai]

As I sit here crying on Christmas Eve getting the silent treatment😢 thank you Lee needed this ❤

[rhiannon]

Their disrespect, WAS your closure ;)

[PlantingWateringSeeds]

No contact for Xmas and the next day which is his birthday, then new years. It will be glorious for me

[ear]

Yes it's great this Christmas being around family and true friends without the drama and ungratefulness.

[KayNKateTV]

Respond with happiness! 😂 turn everything into a positive.

They hate to see you happy 😂
Your happiness is painful to them. 💪🏾🌻

[kianicole]

No more ruined events. Just make your own plans and do not include the toxic person in your life

[Ragedodge]

What's sad is I really don't want to hurt anyone like that...but I deserve to never go back to this treatment...itsxa gift for myself for a better life...even to be alone would be better than this

[mzbarb]

5 months no contact
He's only hoovered me once (thank God) by proxy and that was on Thanksgiving.
8 years of his shenanigans
I decided enough was enough on the 4th of July weekend of 2024
I challenged myself to get through the first holiday season without him by being happy ALONE!
I spent Thanksgiving alone and I will be alone for Christmas. I have a strength in me that only God has provided me with.
Loving yourself and learning to be happy by yourself is the best gift that you can give yourself ❤
I give all the praises and glory to God 🙏🏾

[divineawakenedempress]

I’ll tell you what I gained from being nice and forgiving to a narcissist: I sowed good karma that I am reaping now. My conscience is clean knowing I put good on this earth and it’s coming back to me. I gained wisdom that I can now share with others. I learned how to set boundaries. Don’t let those narcs shame you into not being kind. By being jaded and nasty to people, you’re letting the narcissist win. Keep being kind, set boundaries and watch how God and karma will deal with them. Narcissists will never know how to truly love, heal, and transmute the way you do fellow empath. Keep shining bright and being you ❤

[sbiynwb]

First time not spending Christmas with toxic family.. much peaceful for me.. especially inner peace. 😊

[SzilviK]

Yup !! Current situation. Yesterday I changed my # . He was nice enough to tell me he was having a female flying in to see him for Christmas and he was blocking me ( for the 1000th X) It is absolutely going to be a bs free peaceful Christmas ❤❤❤

[AlexandraUsugaMesa]

I went no contact a week ago cause I knew he was gonna ruin this Christmas like last year, he started acting weird I let him and broke with him then I drive all the way from Alabama to New York and I am having the best holidays ever with my family without him I got him a gift but he said he didn’t want anything so I gave it to a un expected guess in our Christmas party, sorry for the Narci . He keeps playing to lose me I let him win. Boy bye

[Jervdbur]

Thank you Lee,
No contact is for me not for her. It's difficult but its the best present ever.

For al those others who dealing with mixed feelings. I wish you a very very good Christmas. You are not alone, not lonely. Celebrating with a toxic person is lonely. Take your power back. Love you all

[OlimpiaGrecoTomisi]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex boyfriend, and I can't seem to get him out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win him back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss him deeply and can't stop thinking about him

[monicarai]

Ignore them. Its no point involving them if all they do is hurt your children and play with their emotions and use them to hurt you in return. You deserve peace.

[thepaintedpoppies]

This is my first NC Christmas. They ruined my youngest's first Christmas last year. The holidays were horrible with them and it finally triggered me to wake up after 35 years of abuse. We will be NC a year the end of January.

I cried a lot today. Not because I miss them, but because there is still a void there where a loving family should have been but never was. But I have my husband and boys and am trying to slowly heal. Maybe by next year the holidays won't hurt so much.

[colagreene]

7 yrs with this person and everything from spreading rumors and blaming me for EVERYTHIG to padlocking me in while he went to the store (he left while I was sleeping and I heard him unlock it when he came back I was PISSED) But I live the "giving yourself a present" for Christmas ❤.
He's an ungrateful and miserable person that I can do without! No contact for 3 weeks and it's SO FREEING! NO EGGSHELLS NO MISERY!

[antwanetteanderson]

I discarded my ex narcissist a month before Thanksgiving and NC because of domestic violence then got an emergency PO. PO still effective. They are so toxic and disrespectful on top of my ex being abusive. I pick me. He has the new supply thinking I was the abusive one but I have a paper trail of police records. Scheduled court for next month for a permanent PO 🙏🙏