How to be Attractive

I laughed so much editing this. All in good fun! What are some other weird things on #tiktok I should talk aboot?

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[yolandaponkers]

“Give a whole bunch of affection and then suddenly rip it away” is literally how narcissists and psychopaths gaslight those in their lives. No one with empathy and a conscience would ever take that advice.

[QueenSoledad]

There's nothing funnier than a boy who can't be a day over 15 talking about wifeing someone up

[sgtigereye]

One of my favorite dating advice article I have read was from a 1950s article about how to get a man. “Go into a corner and cry so that the man will come over and ask you what’s wrong” “pretend that you are ill so they will feel like they are taking care of you”.
My niece and I joke all the time about it, if she is going on a date I say what do you do? She proceeds to walk into the corner and turns around and cries “I’m

[mbelieve]

“All I want is to be attractive to strangers on the Internet.” Pretty much summarizes the ridiculous state of our society right now. Glad we know how to get “wifed up” now.

[BrittnyFontanezAOz]

The fact that Jamie can sing, make fun of herself, make us laugh and she is overall a genuine person makes her 10xs more beautiful and attractive. Plus she has beautiful curly hair. So your looks Jamie are a BONUS!! ❤👏👏👏

[VGobaira]

I paused it in order to comment. It’s impressive how so many women can’t understand that other women are completely happy in their bodies without their commentary. I love your channel because you guys are so real and because you love yourself as you are and you’re perfect as you are in my opinion. you’re soooo beautiful and you guys are like the Uber power couple that I would aspire to be

[pleothoria]

I just wanted to say that as someone who has lived through an abusive relationship, hearing you actually call manipulative & controlling behavior abusive [instead of dancing around it by calling it toxic or unhealthy] means a lot.

It's a small thing, but the vast majority of people still refuse to call abuse abuse, and it goes a long way towards making abuse victims&survivors feel validated and supported.

[Mehmehmeh]

I’m actually cackling. Imagine being so emotionally fragile that a woman using proper punctuation threatens you. 💀 5:54

[juliabazanska]

As an almost 40-year-old lady I want to hug every single one of these young adults and tell them that they should be free and just be themselves. That way when somebody does find them attractive it'll be for who they really are and not for a facade that will inevitably drop one day.

[arareanddifferenttune]

Man seeing those comments on how “unattractive” Jaime is on the screen made me sick. I know she is confident in who she is, as she should be, but it still made me feel so sad. It’s horrific that people think it is ok to talk to another person in that manner! You’re awesome Jaime, beautiful inside and out. Thanks for always making us laugh ❤

[lolabloo]

My husband, who is a therapist, told me most people who go out of their way to comment mean comments, usually need to feel an intense stimulating feeling. That intense stimulation is usually caused by major insecurities they are feeling that the video is invoking in themselves. Idk why but that's what it took for me to truly understand that phrase, "it's not about you, it's about them".

[CloeCorpse]

i feel sorry for the young generation growing up on tiktok, man it is freakin toxic as hell. love you Jaime and congrats on your 12 years!!!

[QueenDramaLlama]

What's CRAZY to me is that anyone would think or say you're nothing other than freaking gorgeous - physically and intellectually. You have beautiful facial features, gorgeous hair, you're hilarious and super smart. Also, you have a partner who loves you unconditionally. All of those other "experts" who are single can just suck it because they're all just jelly. Also, this was super funny!

[mimz]

The woman “giving advice” while doing her makeup is literally describing “how to” narcissistic abuse - word for word. She probably doesn’t even realize that other people don’t feel the need to be as calculating as her, that we don’t see every interaction as part of a game. She reminds me of my ex 😂 he was so deeply insecure that he constantly felt the need to overcompensate, study others behavior and calculate his next move. He was so preoccupied with how others would perceive him that he didn’t know how to have a relationship and he thought he could “see through” everyone (including me 😑). There are times I feel sorry for these people but because of the huge amount of pain they cause other people it’s hard to actually feel for them. Sorry for the rant lol but she’s giving me the creeps BIG TIME and she’s teaching people how to be abusive to others. As always, amazing video Jaime, thanks! ❤

[shelbybenson]

Jaime, I’m a firm believer that women should always support and uplift other women. In my 30 years of life, I have never been loved by a man. I’ve spent more than a decade trying to become a “desirable” and “high value” woman. But I realize now that all the people-pleasing and beating myself up has only increased my unhappiness because nothing I do will make everyone like me or care about me. I’ve gone above and beyond for crushes and friends, and none of those people have ever actually valued me. We can’t change what other people want to think about us and we shouldn’t try to. You are so beautiful and I adore your videos and sense of humor. I fully support you. Never stop being exactly who you are, and don’t let stupid vomitous masses get to you .😊

[jaymeemorgan]

Love how you can respond to mean comments with humor. You're much more emotionally mature than I am. 🤣

[jaimefrenchofficial]

Lol I love you guys. Appreciate the compliments, but I wasn’t fishing for anything. I just thought it would be an effective intro 💅 don’t stress your pretty selves

[Lea_and_Henry]

The biggest problem and greatest virtue of social media is that everyone gets a platform.

This includes self-aggrandized narcissists and children who think they are grown.

Intelligent and sane rebuttal commentary is needed. Without it society will nose dive faster than it already is.

Thanks, Jaime.

[RjTnMommy]

Yet another reason why my children don’t have tik tok.
I’ve been married for 16 years, together with my husband for 19. Watching these people, I just want to shake them and yell “what is wrong with you?! Who hurt you?”
I’m holding these “gems” in my brain to later tell my children not do be dumb.

Thanks for the video, hilarious as usual.❤️

[angel_moono]

Ppl calling Jaime ugly is insane 😭😭😭 this woman is gorgeous and genuinely so funny