My Husband is Angry All The Time: What Should I Do?

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===VIDEO CHAPTERS===
00:00 Welcome
00:36 Is it My Fault?
01:24 Reasons Why Your Husband is Angry
01:30 Lack of Fulfillment
02:40 Loss of Independence
05:00 Anxiety & Depression
06:13 Unresolved Issues in Marriage
07:36 Personal Issues

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[annabellehe]

I wish my partner would go hang out with friends instead of come home and be mad at me

[EllenCPickle]

I tried being committed and being the perfect person he wanted me to be...didnt work, he is a narcissist and can never be happy, I stayed 25 years in marriages that were difunctional, the best thing I ever did was leave but thats just me..divorced over a month ago and he is still angry and I am happy, healing and striving. After I left I realized nothing is never enough for him, I paid for more than half of everything, his bad mood was because he was unfaithful our entire marriage, and he was angry with me because I was catching him. im not responsible for his character flaws....god knows I tried again and again....but when they are porn addicts, unfaithful, gambling addictions communication doesn't help your spouse, it gives him more opportunity to blame you. I know this is not what your selling, but communication doesn't help when you are being abused!

[Dancess]

I found that trying to have a conversation with am angry person is not helpful. It just makes them more angry, because now they get defensive.

[asdfz]

A partner who is always negative (angry, complaining, irritable etc) or unpredictable can't create a healthy relationship. The negativity overwhelms the emotional space. The wife/girlfriend suffers and is punished, walking on eggshells all the time. The relationship feels hijacked. Until one day she's gone.ir ends things and he seems blindsided and claims he never saw it coming. From his perspective it came out of nowhere. She probably tried to communicate how she felt many times and he didn't take her seriously. Nothing changed.

Chaotic childhoods, mental illness, immaturity/stunted emotional development, unresolved past relationship trauma but mostly a lack of accountability for self - can all lead to a person having emotional problems. And the wife/gf can't fix that. A person who acts like that blames everything outside of himself and lacks accountability..he sees life as happening to him rather than being actually taking charge like a mature adult. More times than not he sees himself as a perpetual victim in every situation.

Nothing going on in his life is an excuse to be mean or disrespectful. It's his responsibility to work to resolve his issues, whether that's within the relationship or not. But there's no excuse for being mean, snappy, and an emotional rollercoaster in a relationship.

Sometimes losing a good person wakes them up but often they just repeat the cycle with the next one, never learning a thing. They *know* that their crappy behavior drives people away but they never seem to be able to help themselves from repeating the same behavior with every at the same time wonder why everyone leaves them.

[lauralee]

Everything you said in the first 8 minutes is spot on. It is hard to deal with but as wives we have our own hopes and dreams to focus on. So I focus on them.

[kyliefinlayson]

This video is for me. My husband the last few months help saying how unfulfilled he is and is grumpy and complains all the time. For a year I tried to do everything to make him happy, it's not enough. Now I'm looking for solutions. Thank you

[destinyrose]

My husband is the same. He doesn’t have a job and he is miserable all the time. He think I try to control him with money but I have two jobs and I am pregnant. SMH. These men are just not built like that

[Skeijeindi]

Yesterday we were in the supermarket, he was taking some bread for him and struggled to put it in the plastic bag, I helped him but I didn't help him the way he wanted (I don't know how he wanted it) and so he rolled his eyes. I am not his slave so I told him to not roll his eyes at me for something like this. His answer then was to leave the supermarket without me and went home and said he lock the door leaving the key in. We were moving house and I am already in the new one, so he knows I have a place to go, but all this was very very hurtful. I don't need all this extra pain he gives me

[chocolate]

"He" is unpredictable, a lot. I often have to walk on eggshells around him. According to him everything is my fault. He is always comparing me to his mom, his sisters, or his ex girlfriends. Boundaries mean nothing to this man. He yells and blames me for his poor diet, even though he's the one with the money. He blames for his drinking even though he makes the choice to go out and buy alcohol, I don't drink. He blames me for him working so much, but he made the choice to fight tooth & nail for his current job. His communication skills are really bad but if I talk to him he agrees with me to my face but then does the same thing anyway, yells at me, cusses at me, throws things around, he thinks that being mean to me is supposed to get me to cook for him, clean for him, do his laundry, pick up after him etc, etc.

[sg]

What is strange with your comment and everyone’s else’s in here is that these men seem to be so wonderful in the BEGINNING. No way you ladies would have married these types of man knowing what you know now. I’m here watching this with a friend cause she going through it and reading the comments it is so clear how so many men have did an 180 degrees since being married. Society has caused a lot of men to lose it. It ain’t easy today being the only sole provider and trying your best to make sure your family is okay. And Yes, a lot of women today are getting good paying jobs and bringing home the same amount of not more than their husband. Any husband would feel less than knowing their wife has it together but he don’t. The issue is a lot of men just don’t know how to communicate properly and end up hurting their wife that has been there since day one. She is there to help, why not give her a chance? Why not listen and try her ideas to make the relationship better. It is such a shame that ego and pride are ruining husbands lives. I just hope all the ladies in these comment find peace with or without their husbands. In the meantime, a lot of men just need proper help and guidance. 🙏🏽😔

[chocolate]

Whatever "He" is going through is no excuse for him to yell at me when he feels like. Slamming doors. Throws things around the house. Throws things on the floor and just leaves it there. Urinates all over the toilet...on the floor in front of the toilet, the toilet seat, the toilet lid, even pees on the toilet tank and this guy is 60 years old, it's absolutely disgusting. But according to him I'm the reason he drinks even though he makes the choice to go out and buy the alcohol

[SydneyOZmum]

My husband get jealous on me promoting in my career and earning more than him. At the same time, he wants to do part time work. He does not want me being house wife, looking after kids at home. He is angry that I am moving on to another company with better condition. He expect me earning money, looking after kids myself most of time, doing all house chore and give him his own time. He often says that we have kids only as I wanted so I should do more with kids. He can take time to respond to kids needs, but I should not. I have to make immediate action to their needs otherwise he get angry. It's been 3years doing this. I do not know what to do. Whether I can be single mother or how to solve it out

[sinjinmonsoon]

Mine doesn't work. He is retired. His dog hates him. I can't stand him. He's a mean bully that wants to be mad. He's jealous. Everyday, everything is a problem. He looks for stupid stuff to angry at. Everyday he pulls this.

[jolantathabrew]

my husband last 3 years all time angry, aggressive,muddy... i really don't know how long i can live like that .

[fsillah]

This answered my question. He is a failure and i think he knows it and resents me for it. Well that’s on him! I won’t take it personally so i don’t mess up my own mental health . The sad part is i dont even want to engage when he does that. I’ll just say sorry and move on. He’s a grown man let him fix himself

[arifrankenstein]

🙄 Can Mom get more of an independent life and feel like more than a wife and mother? I was raised Ina house that yells. I don't want children to as well. I've tried so many times to have a civilized conversation and he blows up every time. I wait for the right time. I choose words like maybe we could try instead of you need to. I make fucking bullet lists so I can be clear and concise with my points. It still turns into, "I'm out, I don't wanna hear this, it's so fucking stupid" I'm trying to heal from trauma and find healthy ways to deal he can grow tf up and do the same. If he didn't act like a spoiled brat all the time he wouldn't put me in a foul mood. And he never apologizes. He's just like his mother. One of these days Alice 💪 straight to the moon

[barbarasunday]

My husband has a high conflict, physically demanding work environment and tends to bring stress home. I find it helps him unwind if we go driving when he gets home. His release is fishing and there are a lot of spots around us.Distancing time on the job from time at home helps our communication.
This video makes a lot of sense with some of our most common conflicts. Thanks

[Melissa-klli]

I think you are spot on, but why do men get into relationships if they want to be independent and how is that fair if a women can not have the same independence, statistically women still do most of the child rearing and house work and they also work in a lot of cases. Why do the men take out their frustrations on there wives when the wife is bending over backwards to support them. Where is the support then for the women. Some men have checked out of the marriage and really do not have the guts to leave. They want to look like they would not leave the marriage but try to push the women into doing it, so they can say see I didn't leave the marriage my wife did even though they had checked out of the marriage years before.