'Perfect husbands' can end up losing it all when wives follow this advice

Hey guys! Today is what I like to call a "frustrating" topic....women giving other women advice to leave their perfect husbands without shame or guilt. Of course anyone is allowed to leave anyone, but is this good advice when there are VOWS involved. Marriage should be treated differently than dating. What alot of women don't realize is that if they leave their perfect husband, they better be ready to be to villain...but let's talk about that...as always, let me know what you think and thank you for being here!

[TerryBell-lp]

I like that phrase, "The grass is green where it is watered.'
I am going to remember that one.

[jeffskidmore]

This happened to me. Wife and I had it all. A beautiful home, the cars, the vacations and her resentment just built up and it ended. We even tried therapy and she still didn’t love me anymore. A year after divorce she wants to get back together. After this mess, I just have no desire to even date. Thankfully no kids were involved.
Men, if this happened to you, a single life is not bad life. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy.

[Brookspirit]

Some women seem unable to move past the early exciting "tingle" phase and unable to move into the comfortable life partner stage. They are addicted to the exciting early stage, they aren't serious people, they should be avoided.

[akt]

You’re allowed to walk in front of a bus. You’re allowed to kiss a rattlesnake. You’re allowed to put your keys into a power outlet. Doesn’t mean it’s a good idea or there won’t be consequences.

[kws]

My first wife dumped me because she thought the grass was greener elsewhere. The person she left me for was a an academy graduate military officer. I was a former enlisted person a technician. Fast forward about a year to year and a half later. The guy she left me for is now the assistant manager on the night shift at a convenience store / gas station. I am an engineer with a Fortune 50 Corporation doing extensive travel in Europe. The point being is so many women only look at things in the short-term and they don't play the long game.

[toddr]

I still want to know why a woman's happiness is in the hands of the man she chooses, while the man has to take care of his own happiness.

[ThatSupportiveFriend]

Ron Swanson from parks and recreation once said “live your life how you want, but don’t confuse drama with happiness.”

[Crosshair]

Too many women mistake contentment for boredom.

[garry]

Oh Emily, I'm so glad you exist and have chosen to speak up over and over.

[charlesdavid-py]

This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.

[Archonbuster]

This woman talking about feeling “dead inside” is pure evil. If you ever hear a woman say this run for your life.

[didamnesia]

As a man, I'll just say that sometimes bedroom fun feels like a chore. But just like any relationship, it takes 2, and sometimes you do your best when you aren't really into it in the hopes that she does her best when she's not into it. That keeps a relationship going through the bad patches. If a woman uses sex as a reward, leave.

[PatrickDuffy-us]

My wife's friends (who were in sexless marriages or divorced), gave her advice to abandon her marriage. I think it was 'misery loves company' that motivated them to give this advice.

[TheOriginalBrent]

The biggest take-away from this woman’s video about leaving a good man is summed up as this: women willingly and knowingly sabotage other women. She’s miserable. She sees another woman thriving in her relationship. She becomes envious. Then she attempts sabotage the other woman to bring her down so she doesn’t feel like a lone loser. Women like this always approach the women they target for sabotage as a caring friend, a confidant, or as an advocate pushing through male dominance to alert poor women of the evils of men. Ladies stay vigilant. The devil disguises himself as an angel of light and you are under attack.

[royberry]

My first wife was out cheating often, then eventually wanted a divorce because she "wasn't happy anymore" - whatever that meant. Then I got to defend myself in court as she attempted to claim I was abusing her and out children. Eventually the judge saw through it, but I swear I was at the point of having a heart attack.

I lost nearly everything - AT FIRST. Now my net worth has exploded, my happiness has went off the chart, and I finally met a woman who not only is compatible with me, but actually WANTS to spend time with me.

If a woman like this (not you Emily...) wants to leave - help her pack her shit - return her to the streets! She deserves different like she craves, and you deserve better. Never stay with someone that isn't committed to you and shared goals.

[mrgregw]

"He should just know." Women keep other women single. They give each other dog crap advice. They want to free themselves from all accountability for just following their feelings, misery loves company, and/or they want to destroy their dating market place competition.

[Terrivel]

As is often said on the internet, “You are free to leave a relationship for any reason you want to.”

Sure, and people are free to shame you as much as that reason justifies.

[northern_lights]

It happened to me 17 years ago. I was blindsided. Her personal material and financial gratification through this whole thing took a toll on my son, who passed away, and that is what I am unable to recover from. I was serving in the forces at that time. I decided to remain single ever since.

[tlawhon]

The lack of accountability and self-awareness is appalling... my wife of 22 years and I still have our issues, but we are committed, and we know it. Each of us is aware of our own failings.

[verilyheld]

In Star Trek, the Kobayashi Maru test is used to teach StarFleet Academy applicants that they can do everything right yet still lose.
They don't however go up to those about to graduate and tell them 'hey, you did everything right the past four years, but we're throwing you out anyway!'