Actions Speak Louder Than Words: The Importance of Meaningful Change in Relationships

Actions Speak Louder Than Words: The Importance of Meaningful Change in Relationships

We discuss the importance of actions over words in relationships.

An apology without real change is just manipulation, and it shows that the person doesn't truly care about you or even themselves.

It's crucial to look for genuine transformation, not just empty promises.

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[grace]

My husband doesn't care. He told me he never cared about me, not even when we were dating and not even on our wedding day. He told me he decided on our honeymoon that I'm over-sensitive, so he didn't feel obligated to take seriously anything I said.

I've endured ten soul-crushing years, and I'm an absolutely destroyed human being.

He also pretends to be a Christian. Just this last Sunday, the pastor preached about being a Christian husband and leader of the house, and they take responsibility and accountability for the condition of their own household, and he asked serious men to come to the front for prayer. My husband went up. The very next day, he was being a completely out of control asshole in the midst of this, he said he wanted a divorce and saying really abusive and horrible things to me and threatening me until I was so traumatized with fear I was shaking with terror and begged him and begged him not to leave. Then he told me how things are going to be from now on with no mistakes or he's leaving. (Which included him being allowed to bully me whenever he wants, and I'm not allowed to say or do anything about it).