SIGNS she's about to leave you; MEN should WATCH OUT FOR THESE!!

Today I wanted to share some information that can HELP your relationship. To many times, men are blindsided by a breakup and many of these times, it's because his girlfriend/ wife/ fiance has not communicated the extent to which she needed to. That's on her and ideally she will recognize that before it's too late. But is there anything men can do to help prevent this?? especially if he loves her and will go above and beyond to keep her in the relationship??...the answer is yes. SPOT these signs and start the conversation that she was unwilling to have...

[spidalack]

I'd rather be lonely by myself than lonely in a relationship.

[xiongher]

A woman will end the relationship months before she'll let you know.

[undead]

She will end her relationship with you in her head to give herself the excuse to cheat, then monkeybranch her way to another guy, THEN leave you. This could take months. So recognising the signs early can save you a lot of time and effort

[shumwab]

Sign #11. She's been fat for years but all of a sudden starts working out incredibly hard and getting fit and losing weight. She's making fitness a huge priority in her life to get in shape to attract that next guy.

[thethesaxman]

It’s downright depressing how familiar all these behaviors sound

[procopiusaugustus]

As a divorce lawyer I have heard hundreds of breakup stories. A common theme is women go through the stages of grief while still in the relationship and are over it when they leave. Men are oblivious and say they are blindsided- “what happened”

[davidp]

Most of these things are done to make herself feel better so she can have a clear conscience, but when a guy does them...he's the a-hole. The level of hypocrisy is insane.

[billstarr]

Yes Emily this list is pretty much spot on.
In my experience when she gets into this phase trying to talk things out will never be allowed.
She has a plan and a time frame already set in her mind. All she is doing is setting up her new life with what she needs.
Once she has achieved those goals that is when she'll spring it on you.
Oh, watch the behavior of her girlfriends, they're in on it too.

[bphmtdk]

1. She stops bringing issues to your attention
2. She starts focus on herself more
3. She stops putting any money at you
3. She stops putting any money at you (lol)
4. She stops talking to your family
5. She starts priority work colleagues
6. The little things she stops doing for you
7. Whatever lovelangues she had, she drops it
8. Seggs will be different/less
9. Will not ask you anything
10. She stops planning for the future

[drew_on_drums]

Every single day i watch these and im reminded why I'm better off alone

[briankenakin]

My wife does about 7 of these things now. Nice. Especially when it happens after 33 years together. Well, I guess a woman can choose to change her mind at any time in the relationship. Guys often don't look at marriage the same way. No communication means no chance to fix the relationship. Thank you for the video as it re-affirmed my suspicion about the state of my relationship.

[marktaylor]

Man, you just described every relationship I have been. Reminded me of why some loneliness now is better than being lonely in the middle of a dishonest relationship.

[macdieter]

12. She stops you doing things for her - and afterwards complains to many others that you no more do things for her.

[hendrikmoons]

If she does any of this, dump her. For she has already dumped you.
Divorce her, believe me, it is better to be the one that initiates the divorce.

[bphmtdk]

If she is bitching all is fine, it is when she stops bitching you gotta be alert!

[georgezimmerman]

I'm gonna go out on a limb here, I'm certain I'm going to receive some backlash as well, I'll preface by saying, I'm a woman, married 15 years this May. I agree with everything she listed off in this video, but I also feel the need to mention, that just because one or 2 of those things may happen in a relationship, its not an immediate end to the relationship, run away now sort of thing. Sometimes with relationships there is a bit of ebb and flow with all of those things. Sometimes I find myself pulling away when I feel extremely overwhelmed as a coping mechanism, but that doesn't mean I want to leave or have written off the relationship, it might just mean i need a little time to process. The key difference here though is that I come back and communicate with my husband what I am feeling and why I feel this way. I think the key take away here fellas, if she no longer expresses the need to, or desire to want to, communicate with you in any way, it might be time to reevaluate things. I also think too many women are way to toxic towards men and that men often times get the short of the stick. I also highly doubt anyone will even take the time to read this far and realize I'm on the mens side. Way to many women are raised to be narcissistic idiots and taught that it's ok to belittle men and treat them terribly, then wonder why no good men want anything to do with them. I've had plenty of bad men in my life that I've had to deal with, but the women were/are have proven to be way more detrimental. Without good men there aren't good women, with shitty women there are shitty men.

[eliflynn]

My favorite is the "you're at work too much" b.s. when they contribute nothing financially at all. Basicly make you work long hours and then leave you because you're never home. Those are great.

[ed]

I was just thinking back about my ex the other day and was wondering why she refused to show gratitude for gifts that I bought her... Now I know why... it made her feel guilty! O how I waisted my life...

[hidenwatch]

Been married almost 20 years, she's been doing these things most of those 20 years

[tipstruckers]

What I got from this video is women put so little effort and communication into a relationship in the first place, you probably will be blindsided when she stops doing what little she does you won't notice.