Why We Need to Slow Down in Dating

Are you sick of coming across people like the ones I’m talking about in this video? Yesterday I held a 90 minute FREE event for anyone looking for a committed, lasting relationship in today’s world. I believe the most beautiful thing anyone can have in their love lives is someone to BUILD with—someone who looks at you and says: “We’re in this together . . . it’s you and me.” Do you want that for yourself? Are you tired of a world that seems filled with casual hookups and people who never never seem to be ‘ready’. Well you’re not alone. Over 6000 people watched live yesterday, and thousands more are watching the replay right now as I write this.

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[sherrilltedman]

I say Go Slow to go far!
Online dating is the antithesis of this! Ppl want instant connection, and aren’t willing to put in the time and energy it takes to really get to know someone.

[madhurmotwani]

I've always been dissed for taking things slow. But this video snippet validates my approach.

[bernadettekuhns]

We never know when we are being deceived until it’s too late.

[nicolapetersen]

The minute you have to sacrifice everything to be with someone please know, that relationship is going to destroy your life!

[CaliDreaming]

Assume are angels...but are 😈 demons in disguise. Thank you. Great advice.❤🙏🏻

[Sofia-txlr]

They say anything to create an experience.

[Doohopper_Grandma]

This is So True and Realistic. You don’t know how many times I was on the verge of this kind of stuff happening. I spent 25 years married to a Severe Narcissist and been single for over 10 years . But what you speak of, may be happening to me now as I am in a new Love Bombing situation that all of the sudden has almost reversed. I don’t even know where I stand . I never changed but the person I am dating has. So this is such a Wonderful reminder to slow things down and see what is actually happening! You have Amazing insite Matthew ! I Love your insight! You are so right we are willing to sacrifice So Much to like you said not end up on the same page down the road. I am almost 65 years old and dealing with this. Frustrating because I don’t feel like I have a whole lot of time to play these Love guessing games. Meaning at this age you want solid answers in a relationship and not people who can’t make up their mind what they want. Thank you for sharing your realistic Wisdom.
By the way I also Enjoy your Accent when you speak! GOD BLESS YOU ! 😊👍🙏

[dawnkennedy]

This I definitely had to learn the hard way. You couldn't be more correct on all of it! People date backwards now days. They have sex before they get to know them.

[doraev]

You're so right! There are so many people looking for love, but don't understand the level of commitment needed to actually feel what they are searching for. I moved to another country to find that after 6 months he changed his life in return. We are trying to go slow, but it's not easy to ease into it. We were not on the same page until nearly a year later. He was my friend and it's moving, but was painful until we got on the same page.

[maureennamukemo]

This is soo true I met someone who was nice and all he was too fast so o decided to pay attention to every detail what he said did everything and I didn't sleep with him I later found out he was married with a kid blocked the bum and am happy.

[CarpeDiem]

This is so incredibly So many- especially men are looking for artificial connections.

[mrw]

Matthew as always, advice that's absolutely impeccable.

[agentblue]

Go slow to go smooth
Go smooth to go fast

[clairexxx]

Absolutely and it can be when youre already deeply involved after time the things you've been promised never materialise and the dreams you held on to are never delivered and then you are nagging or being unreasonable if you dare to want to have a conversation 😔

[SzilviaFarkas-dgzr]

Story of my life. I wish I knew these were all red flags 🚩 and I also wish I wasn’t blind to see all this .

[vivienneberkeley]

You are so powerful
Ty Matthew such wisdom

[lolitamoonprod]

I wish I had this advise when I was a teen. Glad I know now. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💖

[WonderWoman-uyyn]

I wish I'd heard this some time ago - perfectly put and incredible advice.

[tinaali]

Love ur advice as always.. I wish you speak about single parents sometimes too.. it will be great 👍

[goldenlioness]

I’m so proud of myself for going slow and holding off on sex. There were so many red flags in the beginning but I was love bombed. I’m happy I snapped out of it and it was removed from my life.