Why Your Ex Suddenly Dumped You!

Why would someone you're dating or in a relationship with suddenly dump you or even ghost you?

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's behind someone breaking up with you out of the blue.

Lucia is an internationally known dating/relationship expert, author of "Lucia's Lessons of Love", former host of "The Art of Love" TV and radio shows, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker.

She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News.

Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from Italy, France, Germany, Canada, Japan, the UK, Australia, Azerbaijan, Chile and Denmark.

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[paolaminervini]

Dear Lucia,
I want to say thank you. I’ve been 83 days in no contact and he reached out today. I begged and pleaded when he left and today i didn’t even answer because his message is not significant. I’m in a new mindset now. I need respect. You were so right!

[susan]

Why would someone want to get an ex back? They are an ex for a reason . A man who loves you will not put himself in a place to lose you . Shame on him .

[jayc]

One girl i dated was always talking about exes and how she is always mistreated. Haha, she was the common denominator.

[aaronbentonart]

My ex wife got mad at me one time for looking at her wrong... i said what did i do? She said "you looked at me just the same way my ex used to look at me!!!" I said "what look would that be? I dont have a mirror...i didnt even know your ex..how am i supposed to know not to look at you a certain way?!" Oh man. Lets just say, she divorced me. I'm better off without her.

[jacknorton]

I had an epiphany. I walked away and went no contact. I have filed my LLC paperwork, a new job and I am doing well. Just over 3 months of self investment. My question is who really rejected who? It's all in your mindset, no contact gets easier in time and use it for self improvement. Mind, body, and my money have all improved.

[vanessacolon]

My ex CONSTANTLY talked about his previous girlfriend AND his ex wife. He constantly compared me to his ex wife. It was SOO annoying! I should've ran away in the beginning.

[titanniki]

My bi Polar/Narcissist Ex GF set me FREE 3 1/2 months ago after 17 mos. She loved bombed me 1st 3 mos. Next 14 mos it's like she just kept me around for supply & mirrored my actions. I've learned she is not capable of love or empathy. She probably had a new supply weeks b4 she set me FREE. She Played, used, & Abused me. Mentally & emotionally. For last 2 months my GUT was telling me something not right. I was so in Love i didn't listen, then when i made a journal, BAAM!!She made Everything my fault. I'm struggling with Trauma Bond. Receiving therapy. Working on me. Don't want to carry this baggage into another relationship.

[blackjacket]

This makes so much sense, why did I ignore this red flag

[deliteful]

Although we dated a year I was definitely the rebound. Let’s just say it was a relationship I shouldn’t have entered into because of his history 🚩🚩🚩and I took him at his word that he “changed”. He broke up with me via text and gave a bogus explanation. I didn’t reply, happily blocked, and deleted his number.

[timroess]

Ex was in a 30 year marriage; we dated for about a year; talk of marriage; and wammo; dump city; she clearly wasn’t ready

[rebeccaweaver]

I just enjoy every YouTube video you do! Thanks Lucia!

[peterknyk]

Hi Lucia! I have a feeling this is going to help me because I was unceremoniously coldly cruelly dumped! Thank you!

[Barkentin]

🤔Hi Lucia, I dont care why, but still Im going to watch your podcast about the subject, Im looking forward to the stream start❤✊✌

[mikaboo]

Just found ur channel but ur almost at 100k🎉

[tarcisiasiniscalchi]

I love Lucia. I wish I had a little Lucia in my handbag. 24x7. Sometimes people lie, though. They might say they dumped the ex but it was the ex dumping them. As for the gut feeling or intuition, well, intuition can be very wrong

[cybercomputerized]

Ok, so I'm very discouraged. Every relationship I've ever had has ended with this "no contact" situation. I'm beginning to think that I will always be alone. Maybe I'm just not relationship material? I just want to find a person that cares about my needs too. Is that being selfish?

I always end up feeling F. I. N. E
Fucked up
Insecure
Needy and...
Emotional
I do fine by myself, but this last girl I dated has me thinking hard about my emotional maturity...

For some reason I got too attached to this girl way too quick... I don't know why... Maybe I'm too empathetic?

[raes]

Lucia, I found out on my own unfortunately when the persons phone rang they silenced it and then excused themselves to the bathroom a little while later to call the person back (along with other signs). At first it wasn’t a big deal when it happened once. Then it kept happening and I was like “ok I see what it is”. I dunno what happened after because I checked out of the situation but he still tries to get me to “hang out” with him til this day. 🙄

[michaelvega]

Hey Lucia if I took my ex girlfriend of 11 years for granted and just reached out after a little over a month of no contact and she doesn’t reach out should I just stick to no contact? We’ve been broken up for a little over two months. I moved out and begged and apologized for everything while breaking up. Then I I distant myself to give her space and I’m just now reaching out. Been working on the things I need to change and am actually proud of the things I’ve accomplished while alone.😅 we were supposed to get married and start a family next year. She’s 27 and broke up with me, I’m 28.

[gert]

Hi Lucia I just let you I have been listen your video very day when ever I have a chance doing day, they give me strength every to be a better person
Just let you to know you’re amazing coach.
I was dating a young lady for 4 months .we used to spend a lot times together after work
One day she walked out of my life just like that without knowing what was going on.
I invited her for Dinner she came, we ate after dinner she said let talk, in then she told me she breakup with me at that time I was pleading to her I love her, give a second chance ect she said no then she left. Doing the night I called her twice and txt she never responded.
I have been no contact from ever since, I don’t see her either, no calls, no texts no none of that, it has been 5 weeks,
Should I continue no contact ?

[kimbarker]

Hi Lucia I know why my ex dumped me she was shit scared of commitment!!!