How to Get Ready for a Date

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So before you even make it to a date, make sure it's actually a date. With all the internet vagueries, the differences between a date, or a hookup, or whatever else, can be quite vague and so it just helps if you just clarify it.

Once that's settled, make plans together. Traditionally, dinner is what you do, especially in the beginning, however, if you know that the person a pretty spot or she has a very peculiar hobby, or she always dreamed of doing something, it may be a great idea to suggest just that.

That means, get a haircut. If you just recently got a haircut, simply go for a trim because it provides you with a polished look that says "I respect myself and others"

The day before the date, just reach out to confirm that the date is on and do not offer to pick her or him up in case it's your first date. Keep that for the second date.

Just like with the haircut, you want to make sure that your outfit stands out but that it's you at the same time because you want to be confident and you want to be able to focus on your date and not on your clothes and how it fits.

Of course, you should always adapt to your outfit to the date itself and the outward surroundings. If it's hot, wear something more summery. If it's cold, wear something that's appropriate.

Personally, I think it's a very bad first impression to look stiff so if you don't wear suits very often, skip the suit as it will feel very odd because you are just not yourself and it's unnatural which is unpleasant and your date will notice that.

If you usually wear polo shirts, maybe get a step up with a dress shirt, or if you usually wear dress shirts, get a step up and get a jacket or a blazer.

Definitely, pay attention to your shoes because it is something most dates will take a look at so I suggest a nice pair of leather shoes with a matching leather belt is perfect.

If you wear a blazer or a jacket, go with a pocket square. It adds a really polished look, otherwise, just go with a nice wristwatch. Definitely, skip the gold neck chains and maybe the wristbands because that may just give the wrong impression.

At the morning of your date, it's time to trim your beard if you have one or to get a nice proper shave. You can either do a double edge razor shave or you can go with a straight razor shave at your barbershop, it's up to you. Just make sure you have a great look.

Also, make sure to take a shower, brush your teeth, go over your nails, remove any nail dirt, clip and file them, and you can check out how to do that at home in less than 10 minutes in this guide here.

Under no circumstances should you forget deodorant. You can also add a little bit of cologne. Make sure you don't overdo it because that has a negative effect.

Before you leave the house, it's time to check your wallet. Make sure you have enough cash to maybe tip, pay for the valet, or other things that may occur where you need cash.

Definitely bring your ID in case you get carded and otherwise, make sure that credit cards are all valid. Let's say you go to dinner and the cheque arrives, don't let it linger, take the lead, and offer to pay and just wait for the reaction of the other person.

Last but not the least, I suggest you always review what you know about the person, maybe go through the messages again, maybe through their profile so you understand what they are and you don't get confused or get things mixed up because that could be quite embarrassing

Put your phone on silent and don't be late because if you are late on a date, it reflects very poorly on you and it shows them that you don't respect them and their time and it's just a very bad start to any date.

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Gentleman's Gazette

[Grumdy]

Nothing says casual first date quite like dropping $800 on a hot air balloon ride and showing up in a full panama suit.

[javarodeo]

I like how he uses himself as an example for the doe's and don'ts😂😂, whereas other channels show random examples of other people

[kinggeek]

Seeing Rafael in shirts tshirt and flip-flops startled me a bit!!!

[WinnieThePooh]

1:25 just love how he makes fun of himself, but just casually and these small things make these videos not only educational but also amusing

[ronaldmalcolm]

Gentleman's accessory idea: engraved condom case! What cries elegant better than a well-dressed tallywhacker? Bespoke condoms, perhaps?

[jana.]

1:38 "Do not offer to pick her or him up."

As a bisexual man I just went 👀👀👀

[theactualnic]

Sven’s point about stepping up just one step is such a good one! I will definitely remember that.

[kevinabernardo]

Make sure credit cards are all valid LOL

[nodarikirtadze]

Wow, this channel is more than I was expecting!!!

[sade]

I just love this guy!! I wish there were more polished gentlemen like him around!! 👍

[JorgeRodriguez-zcfc]

I feel that approaching a woman and asking her out on a date comes before this. I would love if you cover this step.

[tristan-bbzj]

can you make a video where you talk about the style of some famous fictive people like mr. bean or agent 47? curious what you think about their outfits

[Enkelados]

"(...) do not offer to pick her or HIM up (...)". Little details that really show the quality of this channel.

[crashbandicoot]

Man you're style is always on point! I wish it were easier for us regular guys to dress like you.
For anyone who has the means to aquire and care for a wardrobe and lifestyle you're advocating for, this channel is gold.
For us regular guys who like to keep it simple, I say don't even try. Keep it simple, buy less clothes and if you can encorporate Svens fashion advice to your cheap wardrobe--great!

[hakes]

Often times my date is suprised of me wearing a nice jacket and odd trousers, essentially a cocktail suit while they themselves are wearing a cocktail dress.

[Vikiify]

Your quality is getting better and better, keep it up :)

[davidhenry]

I appreciate your outfit recap/explanation at the end

[kinggeek]

Hey Rafael great video for a date I usually go with a mocha suit blue oxford knit tie and casual boots

[matteobenocci]

Dear Raphael, thanks for the video: sensible and comprehensive as usual. I agree that a necktie or a bow tie might look stiff on a first date. That said, what about some less formal kind of neckwear, such as a day cravat or a neckerchief?

[KGRumph]

You hair looks really good without be slicked down. It has has a nice wave and height. You should try working with the wave and maybe use a super light pomade.