Minimalism Didn’t Make Me Sell Everything. Bye Toxic Minimalism | luxury minimalist wardrobe tour

Hi there, I'm Eileen, a recovered shopaholic. I used to drop by Chanel if I had a bad day at work. Hermes was my favourite on birthday, anniversaries, and Christmas. And Louis Vuitton was for small treats (I know, it sounds crazy even to me now). Fortunately, minimalism came into my life, and everything changed for the better. So it really isn't an understatement to say minimalism saved my life. Well, until I went too far with it. At one point, I actually toyed with the idea of selling everything and resigning to a tiny capsule wardrobe. I wanted to be the textbook minimalist. In this video, I talked about how minimalism got toxic for me, and why I decided I'm happy to be the kind of minimalist who owns designer bags and enjoys dressing well. Between the weekly unboxing and ideal minimalism, I found my happiness in between the two ends of spectrum. Moderation is the key to doing anything for the long term and with pleasure xx

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Thank you for watching this video about how minimalism became toxic for me and why I decided to become a minimalist who enjoys carrying designer bags and dressing well xx

[Lady_Katie]

I can relate. I started out completely minimalist and got rid of things I now regret getting rid of. It’s okay to like nice things. And actually, when you buy higher quality items you probably won’t buy as many. That’s the philosophy I’ve adopted. I buy less, but in higher quality. That way, what I buy is something I truly want and will last a lot longer. You can’t impulse a $200 sweater as easily as $200 worth of fast fashion. At least this is true for me. I definitely consider my purchases for much longer now.

[slowbrownfox]

Your story has so much more truth for women than most minimalists would realise. Shopaholic is where I started too, then I questioned am I just shopping so I can enjoy decluttering 6 months later? It seems crazy. We are constantly bombarded with social media and influenced into what we buy. I've even bought things based on what minimalists on social media own! Isn't that crazy? Time to take a step back.

[anttoronto]

You have a very realistic attitude towards minimalism. I also tried the “home minimalism” and after a few months of editing, downsizing, I had to stop. It didn’t feel like home. It was just too restricting. Also, we are in Canada, and it is so difficult to downsize costs, jackets, and all winter gear. By the way, these items take up an enormous amount of room. Your videos are great!❤

[triplefruitful]

You have progressed beautifully.

Reflection, insight and wisdom with lovely taste.

[DianaDang]

I love this! I mentioned in an old comment how I love both luxury and minimalism. However very rare to find a YouTuber to combine both so it's nice to see you are promoting luxury minimalism! Since one day I would love a curated collection myself.

[ulloaleticia]

I love and highly respect your realization of keeping those things that actually “bring joy” to your personal life!!! You should NEVER stop consuming very good quality items that make a difference to your life and style. You deserve the very best of this life, you work hard and deserve it. It seems as if you have mastered your own version of High Class Minimalism… I respect that. Thank you for sharing your video! 🙏❤️✨

[angelamelum]

Every time I watch a video about your wardrobe I get inspired to wear things I already own instead of purchasing more stuff I won’t wear.

[LadyShanghai-wjkh]

This is where a lot of people get it wrong… Minimalism is all about fewer things & items that have purpose… It doesn’t mean fewer things that are cheap that have purpose. In fact investment pieces last longer and in turn save you money in the long run.

[pinkpotatoes]

I feel that having 2 of anything is sensible, either as a styling option as well as a backup necessity. Having only one of something is only for the richly resourced. For those who may go without sometimes, having a backup item is security.

[athena]

Who else binge watches Eileen's videos for wardrobe comfort? BTW, I have two Burberry coats; one trench and one quilted; best everyday coats I ever owned.

[anas.]

A white sofa is a terrible idea, period. Children or no children. It only works for pictures or people who are never home. Sailors can have white sofas in their apartments 😁

[flohough]

Minimalism can mean different things for different people. I think you've found a good "happy medium" with it. I did a major house purge over the past year and I didn't get rid of everything. I sort of used the Marie Kondo method--I was much more mindful about what I kept and why. And after finishing most of it, I instituted a "something must go every time something comes in rule." It makes you think more about how much you really want something. I'm also not doing as much emotional shopping either. It's all a journey.

[blktauna]

"it has to make sense for me" exactly! Very astute and wise. Happy medium is always the goal.

[olgag]

a Burbery trench coat is one of the very few luxury items I might actually buy in the future. it seems like something I can literally wear for the rest of my life (and wear a lot as it seems so versatile). I consider it a good investment. yours is beautiful (I want it in black), and I've said it before, I love your style. I find it to be very ... calming?

[momslayedit]

Aint nothing wrong with openly admitting something isnt working the way you envisaged and totally owning it. I love your sincerity! Do you hun.

[audreywade]

This is exactly how I feel about minimalism. It’s just what adds value to your life. ❤❤

[minimallyleah]

Minimalism is just a tool that we can use to focus on the things we really like. Glad you realizing what was important to you. What I find helpful about minimalism is selecting areas that I need to reduce. I find that wardrobe items aren't what I minimized yet. I minimized paper clutter and clutter in things that just don't serve me anymore.

[Lindy]

Dear Eileen, #thankyou for another lovely content, we appreciate #you very much 🌷🌸 I am embracing the luxury minimalism with joy for quite some time now, downsizing and selling slowly the items that I no longer need or like or no longer serve my lifestyle… having less and of high quality is really more and above all, liberating, however I’m still battling some battles when it comes to purchasing 100% cashmere items as it’s so hard to resist this lovely #comfy material 😎

[donnashapanka]

Eileen, thank you for having such a full view of reasons why less spending can give you long term independence. I found your channel several months ago and have watched many of your videos. They have been very inspiring. Thank you for continuing to share your exclusive approach to intentional spending. It really is the best I have seen.

[seaha]

This was a great video and very inspiring. I’ve been decluttering for months now and I feel less stressed out. Clutter gives me anxiety and I now love going to my closet and knowing that I love these pieces. I’ve sold jewelry, clothes, handbags, SLG’s, my kids old toys, duplicate items, useless kitchen gadgets, paper clutter, etc. Feels great.