7 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy - AVOID THESE!

7 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy

It's probably pretty obvious but there are things you should never say to a guy. Some things are better left unsaid when all is said and done.

There is a better way...

One of the questions I ask all of my newsletter subscribers is, "What have you said to a man that you regretted?" And it's one of the most popular emails I send out, because I almost always get a response.

We've all said something in a relationship that we regretted. And we wish we could take it back.

I'm in saving you some of the trouble right now by helping you understand a few of the things you never want to say to a man.

Don't say this to him: “It's no big deal. It happens to everyone.”

Of course we're referring to the inevitable failure in bed. Which is one thing a man doesn't want to experience. He never wants to let you down.

We know your heart is in the right place when you say this, but it is still a huge blow to a man's ego to fail in this one department. Everything a man feels about his own masculinity can be destroyed in a moment when he just can't get it up.

And when a woman tries to brush this embarrassing event aside quickly to avoid the discomfort and awkwardness, the comment doesn't land well in his brain.

Instead, focus on giving him physical affection and attention.

Chances are he's just anxious about performing. And once his thinking gets out of the way, his feelings can come to the front.

And everything will rise after that.


============================================
** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos:
===========================================
Carlos Cavallo
Dating Advice Guru
===========================================

[cynd]

A lot of things are about being sensitive to one another and knowing you’re partner well. Just practice kindness and what you don’t want said to you don’t say to them.

[lisam.]

If he can't take the "You need to go to the gym", then he is not strong enough to be a man. My God. I'm ok if people tell me that I'm fat. If that is the reality, I have no problem hearing it and taking action.

[amyj.]

When I got frustrated playing video games and I started to throw fits as a little girl, my mother would make me take breaks and followed up with "it's just a game. Relax, and revisit the level and if you need help to beat the level just ask for help and pass the joystick" I liked that she empathized with my effort and investment.

[NinaNaculangga]

Interesting video. Thanks for sharing, Carlos.

[Marciav]

Interesting video. I feel like your saying to walk on eggshells and watch what I say so I don't bruise his ego. What about what he says to me and offends me?

[lizvalenzuela]

Why would a man be so sensitive to me talking about sex or wanting to be with him? He feels disrespected?? Why?