How To Tell If Someone Is Attracted To You

You've probably seen a few signs that they are attracted to you...but how can you know for sure? In this video, I talk about 3 science based tips that help you determine whether those signs are signs of attraction!

I think that if you're able to read these nonverbal cues, you can avoid any awkwardness that comes with trying to find out if someone is interested and help define the relationship once and for all.
 
In this video:
0:00 - Intro
0:35 - Proximity
1:22 - Touch
2:25 - Eye Contact
2:56 - Outro

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[anewloveofficial]

It's pretty obvious if someone likes you because you can see it through his body language but I just can't understand myself, if I like someone I always distant myself because I am afraid to build an emotional affection towards him. Am I just the only one like this?

[dseer]

shyness changes the criteria im sure

and psychopathy

[damedane]

This is so easy, when I think Someone is attracted to me, I'm high.

[rasheedchemist]

This is very complicated topic. Usually, we tend to hide and ignore when we feel seriously attracted. Only brave individual could decide to show their interest. We are all attracted by others and feel attracted by others every day. Usually, I could feel something which is hard to describe when people looked attracted.

[emiliospowerballer]

I believe the way you can tell someone likes you is if they look at you a lot of times. Besides that though, it doesn't mean that they will approach you, or befriend you, or go out with you. It mostly means that you are just attracted to this person. As we are dealing with people, the end result is often disappointing because someone liking you vs someone being attracted to are miles apart and one does not bring the other.

[Wooist]

These are fantastic tips. Proximity, touch, and eye contact. These are the common ones although sometimes you will come across someone who is really shy and is afraid of looking at you, touching you, and being close to you. So if someone doesn't give you these initial signs initially, get to know them a little more and if those signs pop up at any point they are attracted to you! Great video by Vanessa

[heartquaked]

Your hair is sooo beautiful, and I am fascinated by your line of work and videos! Great channel :)

[sancho]

I just try to read the eyes. I’ve been doing that since i was in my early twenties and that’s also how i try to communicate my interest in a woman. I learned it from a french girl who practically made me fall in love with her with eye contact the first time we met

[AKaid]

Imagine being in a relationship with Vanessa, given that she has all this deep info on non-verbal cues. Must be tricky.

[PreYeah]

Thank you for this concise video! Compared to all the other "30-Signs-A-Guy-Likes-You" videos, this was short and simple. I liked the fancy-schmancy terminology too with the easy explanation. The person I'm crushing on is shy, but has definitely demonstrated all these signs! Sometimes I feel like he's moved closer to me, has broken the touch barrier at a party, and gave me a 3-second long hard-stare in passing while I was going avoidant on him (due to performance anxiety). We are on better terms now. Of course, with lockdown I no longer have these cues to go off of, it's basically just cues through chat messages and responses. Would love it if you could do a video on that as well. Thanks again for this video!

[aadeshmirke]

I am happy that I knew all the answers before starting to watch this video. So I give thumbs up to this video.

[chrisa]

You are Amazing and Charming. ♡ Very original, I like that and you give out great intelligence. Thank you☆

[Lvu]

more videos like this Vanessa. I truly enjoy watching your influential videos. So knowledgeable. Thank you.

[ottomechanic]

You Wana know something crazy, you made more sense in less time on this topic. Enjoyed learning the terminology. Were certainly a fastinating species. Thank you.

[vimalprakash]

If I could have .... I would give you 1000s of likes ... The way you explain everything is just amazing. 💞

[khloe]

oh dear...this means im attracted to everyone. or at least they may think that i am. my natural nature is to do all of these. i get shy on the eyecontact part because it seems to intimidate or weird out some people...but these are things i naturally do to connect.

[vanrajrajput]

It's awesome Vanessa. I like the content

[maria-lo]

I would love to see more of these videos! big like ❤

[anjumbasra]

Excellent as per your experience or exposure .
I like you observations.
Best regards
AnjumBasra