Please pay attention to your kids body language

[Carly-ucmb]

My mom doesn’t care if they give me a bad vibe or smth. She only cares if an “incident” happened. Like I’m trying to make sure an incident doesn’t happen 😭😭😭

[SHALIMAR]

This is such a great way to make ppl aware because in so many situations ppl ignore signs that could have prevented things from happening

[malindamillington]

The way I wish the adults in my life had bothered to pay attention when I acted this way with certain people. I was also raised we hug all extended family members when we see them whether we want it or not.

I absolutely refuse to put my daughter through ANY of that. It's her body and she's allowed to have boundaries for it. If she doesn't want someone touching/hugging her, even me, then she damn well doesn't have to. And I will back her physical boundaries no matter who else doesn't like it. Period.

[Ivyhope]

This is so true and when ever kids get quiet when there normally super talkative and happy but they just get quiet and not as comfortable around certain people

[TheRAHTruth]

I love you guys! Spreading healing for all mothers and daughters is huge! This purpose is bigger than any of us. Keep going! 💜🌹

[laurenmajors]

There has been so many occasions.. my dad’s father.. ever since I, my sister and old cousin were young.. and those hugs were not hugs a grandpa would give his grandchildren… my parents never said a word and he did it to all of us and we were all uncomfortable… then we said something when we were older and they said they noticed😞 then teachers and bosses would become a problem and everyone just looked at me like I was crazy when I said something… we live blindly.. keep an eye out for others..

[antonieocole]

Thank you for posting this this is something that everyone needs to see especially those who have children. In this day and age children are protected like they should be and I truly appreciate you sharing this video

[Lifewithelianaaa]

I feel like this around people older than me especially older men I js freeze up and it scares me when they like pit their arm around me I js feel weird and uncomfortable..

[KaziaJones]

I actually realised i was depressed from these videos thank u for showing me that and opening up my mind

[Kar_Kar]

I sealed with this with my bio father but I don’t have to see him anymore so that is great

Y’all made me cry cause it brought back memories but I love y’all’s stuff it is so relatable ❤😢

[dvkins]

My daughter does all this around me after she gets her phone taken away as a punishment. If she isn't mad at me, she's the one clinging to me. Sadly, when it comes to parents, it can be deceiving

[holliee]

Unfortunately, it's not the only reason. Autistic children have the same symptoms around their parents. Shut down, sheltered, refusal of touch, lack of verbal when spoken to, lack of eye contact. Parents of Autistic as well as spectrum children know these symptoms all too well. 😢

[SaucyEL]

the way I identified with this so much more than I expected to

[Panhandlebluegrass]

It could also be an issue with the kid, not always the “family member “. Especially Gen Z, they struggle socializing appropriately.

[poojanair]

when I’m a mom one day I hope I’m a mom like you 🩵

[Lizzybet-cb]

This hit hard for me…my relationship with my parents is a bit different because my parents divorced the day before they realized my mom was pregnant with me… about 8 months after my mom had me she started darting me step dad. They are now happily married and had my little sister. I love my little sister my mom and step dad so much. But I had a ruff time with my biological father because he was never around neither was any of my other family from that side and I only saw them about once or twice. But I ended up getting a lot of trauma from him and my relationship with my father and grandmother on his side was toxic and still can be. I’m not seeing him anymore because he works in the navy and is across seas, but there were many times in my life where things like this would happen because they would always try to hug me and got angry when I wouldn’t let them even if I was uncomfortable with it. I’m doing better now and have a wonderful therapist and a supportive mom, dad, and little sister. If no one even looks at this comment I understand, I just felt like I needed to get this off my chest when I saw this video and I hope this is a safe space comment section to open up about this. Hope everyone has a great day🥰

[EllaStvrn]

growing up my mom didn’t care if i wasn’t comfortable around my family, and she physically forced me to hug them. i cried ever night because of the things she’s told me and did. and she wonders why i don’t hang out with her as much as i did before. but ur a great momma i never had💕

[c.a.t.f.i.s.h..]

i’m really comfortable around my parents and sister but sometimes i just don’t like to be touched by them at times 😭 hope they don’t think i’m uncomfortable around them

[They.luv.kloklo]

My mom can tell when I’m scared or I get bad vibes, for example not to long ago we were in the store and I saw a creepy guy. She just saw my vibe change and she grabbed my hand. I love my mom❤

[rdary]

100% true, ive done all of these at some point, its good y'all are teaching people the signs