WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO THE NARCISSIST

WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO THE NARCISSIST

💜💜Hey everyone, welcome to the channel. Thank you for being here. My name is Andrew. You will find unique perspectives on toxic relationships I will share insight and educational videos to help inform you on the potential behaviors of people. This is my moonshot,my calling, my passion, and what I do every single day. My hope is you will get educated and value from these videos. Sending you positive energy and abundance.

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[NarcSurvivor]

All that matters to a narcissist is their image and how they see themselves in their own minds. Everyone else is expendable.

[TwilaB]

Yes, the narcissist text me saying " how are you", I asked the narcissist, " why you didn't call and ask me how I'm doing ", the narcissist blew up in a rage and hung up on me. The narcissist said I was complaining, all I did was ask a simple question. Narcissists are twisted in their minds; all they care about is themselves. Thank you, Andrew.

[anne-oc]

Yesss Andrew. I was an unpaid non existent helper.
Fog lifted & I'm divorced now. But it was a hell of a ride with a narc. I'm peaceful now🤗

[jonvia]

I went no contact with a sibling recently. Ive tried to be nice and Ive tried to work things out. After that, Im just keeping myself open to their toxicity if Im not proactive about it. My mom, who is also a narcissist, acted insane when I told her that Im cutting contact with my sibling. She actually cried over it saying that this sibling is "all I'll have" once her and my dad are gone. Meanwhile, I was never close with this sibling and I have a social life that doesnt include toxic people, along with having a career in live music, I'll always be around good people and can always choose who I spend my time and energy with. I'll be just fine without that family member in my life.

[Ladyduchess]

Felt like I was the Earth Angel & He was the Devil!

Glad I Released this Demon!

[pheyup]

I truly believe that we are all here for a reason, everyone has a purpose. I just don’t understand how a narcissist has purpose or reason. I’m guessing they are here for us to witness true evil.

[lisaatkinson]

You hit the nail on the head with the inheritance issue. This is what I’ve been living for two years. I didn’t know my sibling was like this until she was called out for stealing the inheritance (with evidence) and then the mask slipped….Rage, a nasty smear campaign, revenge. Now I know what malignant narcissism is and all the red flags for decades now makes sense. Thank you for your videos, Andrew, which has been education and therapy for me for two years. Luckily I have two other good siblings and we have been each other’s support. But it’s been a nightmare. I don’t know how I never saw it, but I believe I fall into the trauma bond bracket since I always looked up to her and chose to overlook the red flags. The trauma bond is finally broken and I’m not a young person!

[yodaspank]

I didn't even want to click on this video because I know what matters most to him is himself. I'm just here to leave a comment and give a thumbs up because I have to. I have to because I still have to come back to this channel more often than not. To remind myself
Edit: the rumination is really gross. A lot of us have been so isolated we don't even know where to start. That would be a good video my friend. How to move on!?🙏🏼

[the-writerofmyownstory]

Their time is valuable, my time is to be there for them; they make sure I know they think the grass is greener with anyone but me by ignoring, belittling, lies and gaslighting. But god forbid I am unavailable or remove myself completely from the relationship, then I am the bad one, smeared to every mutual person and we know. The smear campaign has been brutal 😢, I keep reminding myself this is me having my own back, holding my own hand on path to peace, self worth.

[sorearm]

Totally agree.
All they want are anything that fuels their supply, their valuation, their means to an end of bolstering their ego, anything and anyone they can use for THEMSELVES.
They are user's and abusers.

If you've ever been in such a relationship you will realise this and have experienced this.
Gaslighting, blame shifting, poor me victimhood, they are utterly without remorse and will destroy you

[J.A.]

That's exactly how it is. They can't even get a sentence together. It's terrible, this bad behaviour.

[MariaChicco]

The perfect description of what the narcissist really wants. The part where the "will is allegedly incorrect" made me smile....its the stuff of family feuds and generations of bitterness, hatred and spitefulness. Is it worth it? NO. So very sad, how destructive the narcissist can be, by planting that seed of 'entitlement'. Thank you for the much appreciated wisdom.

[kathyjudson]

This just answered all my questions of today …… he is jealous, , , , and is always in competition

[nickel]

They're texting others alright. Their phone(s) is the key. If it feels weird, trust your instincts.
That's how I found the first string to pull. I didn't trust my instincts at first but as things got worse I finally started to listen to my gut feeling and boy was it right. What I found surpassed my worst nightmares and it just kept getting worse over time.
What I've learned the hard way is that if things seems to be too good to be true they probably are and if things seems weird they're probably more weird than they appear...

[nicolehayes]

Thank you Andrew! You gave me the confidence I needed to pack my bags, get my daughter and dog and walk away in silence W my head held high ❤✌️🙏💯💪🌹

[dynahdubin]

You were right about the narcissist loving and meeting people preferably my narcissist women and his money. For sure no matter what type of relationship you are in with a man if you’re a woman they are cheating behind your back from the day they meet you no matter whatUntil the end of the relationship and they will lie about it and say you’re crazy. Fret not we are right

[jswan]

I believe narcissism is an addiction…my ex-boyfriend is an alcoholic/compulsive shopper and my mother is a compulsive shopper.
They’re addicted to using people up so they can get whatever they want.

[maryannepholi]

He made me feel like I was the only one who could support him physically and mentally. Then I realised he had 3 other women.

[annawallace]

their image matters, that they look rich/wealthy to those (neighbors, strangers….) outside of their house, like they own the best cars, boats and all the toys, as if they have “it all” and the list goes on.

[roslyncerro]

I'm accepting elevating solo. I'm grateful I'm always learning. Thank you Andrew and tribe.❣️