The truth about the best version of yourself

Seeing and walking into the best version of yourself are two entirely distinct things that require either imagination or authentic and deliberate action. Why do so many individuals desire this version, and why is it essential? What measures are required, and what does the process actually entail? As we sift through this essential topic, hopefully this conversation will yield numerous answers.

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[TeeProfits]

I’m learning that test will be repeated until passed. I keep getting the exact same lesson because I haven’t passed the test. It’s like I understand what I should do, but because of the trauma, I am terrified to do so. I am finally at a full point of surrender. A part of me is upset with myself for not surrendering earlier and another part of me has grace for myself because of the level of trauma I have endured. Healing isn’t easy but it’s necessary. Thank you for sharing your personal journey.

[deniseturner]

Returning to myself once again and building a deeper relationship with the Creator. ⛅️

[lornarichards]

At the age of 60 years I am ready to start my journey 🙏 for your words of wisdom. I have struggled with self doubt all my life and I'm ready to discover who I am and not what people say I am!

[ruthnotthechris]

Thank you for this video ♥️♥️ I’m only 13, and from a young age i went through a deep depression. I was in the hospital many times due to my mental health and at a point i wanted to give up. But I made a big change and really learned and healed. I started writing, saying affirmations to myself, and giving myself the love that i needed. I really have a mindset of growth that not many my age have. And above all, i’m just glad to be here in this moment and watching this video being truly happy with myself ♥️♥️

[CruciusLapin]

It feels like the universe is really pushing me to sit down and take a look at myself now and it’s time to unpack the why. Why I can’t form relationships why the self loathing why the sadness. And it’s time to start the journey to work through that. To get to that authentic self

[nessaj]

God sent this podcast to me at the right time!❤ Lisa I feel like you put words to everything I’ve been feeling and I couldn’t explain this sudden season of solitude. Thank you!

[mstea]

Gurl! Only God lead me to you! 😇Thank you for letting him use You! 🥰 I am on a healing journey and I know my daughter will also benefit from your words!!! Thank you so much for your vulnerability and courage. Love your energy!!! God bless you!💖

[laurenbacon]

I’ve been in my healing journey for almost a year now. I call myself a recovering people pleaser because I made my whole life so much safer for everyone but me. When I finally broke it was through confronting people who had taken advantage of my “niceness” for years. The first time I set a boundary it was an absolute mess, if I could change my anger and my resentment I felt in that moment I would. But that’s also the part about healing - we’re all just out here doing our best with what we know at the time.

Now, looking back I know that next time I need to set a boundary I will do it gracefully and without explaining everything. Losing friends and changing relationship dynamics is what I’m now dealing with.

This video came at the perfect time - because I am aware of all of my negative qualities. I want to overcome those barriers and I didn’t know how. Now I know I need to fill up my cup and speak to myself authentically and with encouragement, not with judgement or shame. Gunna go stare at myself in the mirror for a while lol.

Just love your words. Your voice. Everything. Thank you for doing the hard work and sharing your story to help others 🤍

[AAAFL]

My new motto " I don't play about me" 👏👏👏

[KeyontaAndrews-mosx]

Needed this 🙌 I’ve been walking my healing journey but still struggle with being fooled by people and letting them add more hurt and trauma to my heart 😢 I pray one day I’m able to say I’m truly healed and really feel it. Thank you for this message

[RoxyVanessa]

✨ I love this. Self love is the fight of your life. It’s hard but so worth it ❤🙌🏾. I came for your healing voice and I appreciate you! ✨

[melissasawyer]

Lisa Marie you have been a godsend. Your podcast is life. I love your perspective and truth that you bring forth. Thank you for sharing. Keep it going.

[marciaodonnell]

I’m 66 and newly retired. It’s a new journey for me and the blessing of more free time has brought me to your channel. I’ll be listening to your prior videos and anxiously awaiting new ones. Thank you for providing me with clarity and encouragement. God bless you.

[elizabethburton]

I needed this! I thought I was healed but I have been lying to myself!

[naumeb]

Lisa you truly express what I can not at times. Your channel is amazingly authentic. Self esteem is what I’m working on. I’ve learnt to honour myself. Pessimism and negative self talk are still a challenge but it is well. I am light 💫

[divinelyraven]

I appreciate your vulnerability. I feel like I’m in a similar space, realizing I’ve been broken and I have some things to change in order for my best version to show up. Thank you for showing up and sharing your testimony 💕

[jakesatov]

I really appreciate the idea of bringing in something positive about yourself when journaling, after writing the negative thing/experience.

Something that's been very formative for me along my journey is that I love people. I thought for a long time that I hated people - but it was just fear and a false certainty that everyone was toxic and harmful, and I was literally carrying that energy myself in that fear. It's like my defensive strategy was perpetuating a reality that made connecting and vulnerability impossible.

But I know now that I don't hate people. I still get a sense of fear, but I don't have to carry the associated weight of hate - a do unto others *before they do - kind of mentality.

It's taken a lot of work, and a lot of learning to love myself, and what I love about myself. That sense that "I hate..." comes up, and I give it space, but now I go back and address it - "what was I really feeling and what was happening at the time?" And now it just holds a lot less relevence in me.

Now I know I love people, and I love myself. The journey is rough - and often ugly - but I love that I find my way through it, I learn and grow through it.

It's wild what happens when we learn something about ourselves that seems so simple in theory - but is absolutely life changing, and reality shifting.

Thank you for allowing the space to share on aspects of our journeys; I love how we can all learn from each other and with each other in that way

[Choose_YAH]

“The change in you will allow people to just walk away and you have to be ok with that.” Truth and Tough but worth the turning the page. 🤍🌿📖

[Legalfairy]

Thank you Lisa,


I am somewhere in the middle of healing from losing my mum. A decade down the line, I have learned to have a peaceful quiet relationship with God. To be kind and forgiving to myself. To have non negotiable boundaries. That therapy works and I found a balance between solitude and having healthy relationships.

[DannieONeal-cxtv]

I AM TRULY BLESSED NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS PERIOD MR O'NEAL