I Get Annoyed By My Wife's Feelings...

I Get Annoyed By My Wife's Feelings...

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[Beachdawg]

Im old and want to share this with young men. If your wife comes to you upset about something you've said or done, she is fighting for your relationship. When she stops telling you, thats when she's already given up on you and really doesn't care about your relationship anymore. When you get silence, thats bad. Shes starting to move away from you in her heart and head. Also, when women say, "You don't listen." What they are really saying is "You dont give a crap."

[tonygroves]

I explained to my husband and my sons that emotions aren't good or bad, they're like the lights on a dashboard. When your oil light comes on, you pull over and figure out what to do. The oil light is not a report card on your success or failure and neither are a woman's emotions.

[Shlagayaga]

coming from an abusive relationship, when you go to your husband about something he’s done wrong, and he gets angry, it’s a way to shift the subject from what he did wrong to the fact that you made him angry. And now, instead of focusing on what he did wrong, you’re focusing on calming him down and not making him angry.

[OrlaFae-zk]

This guy reminds me of my mum. There's a reason I have Complex PTSD, and that one of my main trauma triggers is feeling like I'm not allowed to have a voice. When you're aren't allowed to have a voice, you're not allowed to be important. You're not allowed to have an identity, you're not allowed to have feelings or the right to give voice to those feelings. You're not allowed to be you.

This guy had no idea how abusive his behaviour is!

[michelleowenwest]

From experience, when this pattern takes root, the wife learns she can’t say anything to the husband but unbridled praise. She stops connecting with him to avoid the anger. She turns elsewhere for her emotional needs and connection—friends, kids, maybe even another man. Suddenly there’s no emotional intimacy and he’s going to become even nastier when that leads to a reduction in physical intimacy. And he will be utterly clueless as to why his wife doesn’t want anything to do with him. Thank you for first telling this husband to grow up.

[merrybachelorette]

Yea romance and vulnerability and closeness dies for a woman when the husband is like this.

[janebaker]

Why would she want to sleep with him after he yells at

[vidananovazelandia]

At least this guy called and asked for advice, most men with behavioural don't even think at all.

[calgal]

The more I watch this channel, the more I’m grateful to have dogs.

[sheila_Dee]

I’ve heard of husbands telling their wives that they don’t want to hear their feelings, simply because they don’t care about how their wives feel .

[MadeOfQuestions]

7:31, here's the issue with this line of thinking men. You don't feel satisfied because of lack of sex so you cut out emotional intimacy and make her feel unseen so she doesn't want to have sex. You're causing your own issue!

[djthenerd]

Sometimes I take my boyfriend for granted bc omg he's nothing like this. He listens to me, calms me done, holds me in his arm as I cry, and takes me seriously even when what I'm sad about makes no sense. I'm so blessed to have him.

[jayaitch]

Perfectionism is not a positive thing, it's about control.

[chrisw]

I have been with my husband for 29 years, he has trained me not to share my feelings, I’m so done with 30 years of this bs

[melissac]

He gets angry at his wife telling him he's doing things wrong, .. but he seems to control himself just fine when this guy, or probably his boss, tells him he's doing something wrong.

He feels he can get away with emotionally abusing his wife, so he uses that for control. But he can always control himself when he wants to.

[TheLovelyTraveler]

This man doesn't like his wife. He wanted an appliance without needs, he got a person instead and he's angry that there's any expectation on him from her.

[brownskinnbeaute]

Didn’t think it would be this hard to be vulnerable with my husband. It’s like it irritates him. Never imagined marriage being like this.

[vilmareynoso]

This is why I left my ex-husband. Any feeling or opinion I had was an invitation to berate me. He was the most insecure person I have ever met. Our relationship turned violent and I walked out with my six year old. I now have a husband who is the opposite. Dont waste your time with men like this.

[gschneider]

No matter how small the issue, no matter how kindly I brought things up, no matter how neutral my tone of voice, a neutral facial expression, my ex would fly off the handle and go into a rage. So I stopped bringing things up, and the marriage deteriorated. He also became abusive, which killed all attraction I had for him. He was blindsided when I filed for divorce. I believe he didn't view me as a person or was even remotely concerned with how I felt.

[nhgriff]

Women don't always want men to "fix" things. Sometimes, we just want them to listen.