Sociopath On Identifying Toxic People #shorts

Diagnosed Sociopath (aspd) Kanika Batra explains how she identifies toxic people in her life and how you can spot them too.

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[clarestopher]

I had a toxic friend who loved receiving crisis texts because it made her feel better about herself. She lived in the negative, so whenever I’d try to be positive she’d get nasty and horrible. She either needed me to console her, be her emotional punching bag, or relish in my misery. So gross. That friendship lasted 15+ years but I had to cut her off and I haven’t looked back since, tbh.

[lionessroarsjohnson]

It's good to get toxic people out of your life. The best thing to do is don't let them in to start with, if you can help it!

[flafelqueen]

Thank you for making me realize that I am this toxic person I have to fix myself

[SamuelAbaddon]

They can be your direct sibling beware ❤

[lorrainyhippohernandez]

Thanks for the advice just a decade late but I always suspected it but thought I was paranoid and guarded

[Mrlbtumor]

Reminds me of my ex best friend. She'd always laugh in my face when mentioning something I liked about myself or an accomplishment I was proud of, told me why I shouldn't be happy about it, and then regularly reminded me what a terrible friend I was for not wanting to talk to her every day

[tarynmoore]

Another clue is an unhealthy obsession with boundaries. I literally had someone who use to be a close personal friend tell me that she didn’t ever wanna here anything negative about my life, but would call at 3am to complain about hers. When I told her she isn’t treating me like a friend anymore, she accused me of having a problem with her boundaries. She had used “boundaries” to make me her on call therapist and tried to tell me that she had no obligation to care about my life. I had no obligation to be her friend anymore

[MeganiumForever]

So true. Just dropped a friend who acted like this.

[asterixdrink]

The fact is that when someone losts his/her mom, it's always a humble brag. If you miss your mom and mayby even cry then she was a nice person and you had a good mom -> humble brag. If you don't mind of her dying, its humble brag because then you anyway get rid of a person who is not a good person. Either or.

[Roseralee]

I have learned so much from watching you. Thank you for being so open and honest.

[rosemarietolentino]

Everyone is toxic today narcissist production is at a all time high in America.

[skribsketti]

I was once dating someone when I tried to unalive myself. I survived and was in hospital for a week. When I told her, she told me how much it effected her that I did that and how she couldn’t go to work. Also told me that she also wanted to die. While I was in hospital on constant watch because my heart could have failed at any moment, I was comforting her. She never even visited me

[katyagnew]

When someone has been sick for a long time, you can slowly start grieving for them while they're still alive. Sometimes consciously and sometimes subconsciously. So this can soften the impact when they do pass. At least, that was my experience. So sorry for yours and your family's loss Bea xx

[frozensky]

I find it so hard to care about people’s lives. I subconsciously change the subject to my life anytime I can. It’s worse when I trust the other person because I don’t know how to truly care about someone. I just care about how they make me feel. I hate it but idk how to fix it. If I don’t trust the person, I just respond with the bare minimum and hope they get the hint and stop talking to me. I can’t stand people

[TracyClark-zf]

Psychopathy and Sociopathy are very misunderstood diagnosis in that they'd label us the toxic ones but it truth we don't bother people. Some of us are more social than others but nonetheless we don't really care enough to mess with anyone unless your in our way of something we want or your being toxic.

[laurenc]

This is so great to share, I’m the type of person that is genuinely happy when others succeed, even if they have something I want I’ve learned how to separate those feelings of envy and be able to recognize that they too deserve good things and those should be celebrated. I work with someone that’s exactly as you described and they’re the MOST unbearable human on earth, and I’ve found people like this are also INSANELY IMMATURE and gossipy. To an extent that it’s embarrassing in a grown adult

[beingilluminous]

Ooohhh that explains a lot. I am one of those “rare people” who are genuinely happy for another, sometimes I feel “left behind” by the world, but then I assume we are all trying our best….and I’m also one of those that your channel helps immensely-knowing how I’m seen as a possible “mark”. The back handed compliments are the worst! However, now I choose to look at it as their loss-shared joy is doubled.

[tahrimabs]

Its very refreshing to see, a diagnosed sociopath is openly talking about the shortcomings and spreading first hand awareness to the words.

Being willing to accept certain parts of you with this condition, is remarkable.

[SparklingsPlayground]

Really appreciate your sharing your insights for others' benefit. These are so on-point.

[melissaminor]

I had a toxic person in my life once and for far too long. One time I told them that a friend of mine from childhood had died and their response was "did I tell you my cat died?" For one, his cat died a year prior, and two, he knew he had already told me this. He just couldn't stand to give me any sympathy and had to redirect the attention to himself. Pretty gross to compare an animal to a human, even though I am a huge animal lover, they are still two completely different things. This person was a huge narcissist and just couldn't stand the idea of being kind and supportive. Thankfully they are no longer a part of my life