#mistercarlos

[MPeaches]

I've been a widower for 26 years.
I raised my daughter alone and she's grown and on her own, for 13 years now.
I'm an empty nester now.
I still work at a full-timejob.
I do everything for myself.
I'm never getting married again, but I live as though my wife were watching my every activity.
I know that my wife would be proud of me.
I've been told, that I smile a lot.

[georgegeorgiou]

God bless you Scott. Stay strong .

You have been lucky to have loved and been loved and know how to express yourself.

[michelleseyer]

My heart goes out to you! Her loss is unimaginable. As a woman, I'm deeply touched at the grace of your love for your wife. No man has ever loved me like that in all my nearly 68 years. That you still love her so, is brilliant.

[Anabee]

My heart BLEEEDS for you, Scott. Along with having to bury one's own child, the same regarding the love of one's life (espcly WAY TOO SOON) is, by lightyears, the harshest of all grief; on its own level. I know this firsthand regarding both.

[ri.b.]

I understand. My ex husband died unexpectedly 2 years ago and I see, experience or just think of something and I want to share it with him, especially when it's about our kids. But I can't. It breaks my heart all over again.

[ahammadjaseem]

You are lucky you have loved and been loved by someone genuinely... Many men of this generation don't even think they can get that

[Monsterbrainzzz]

I feel this. The woman I was going to marry passed away while she was still my fiancé. I feel the loss of her and life we didn’t get to live together

[ijmyshyrmw]

This is a never ending grief. Yhe people who don't know the consequences of grief are so blessed ✨

[tracedelaney]

Food and dinners do the same to me, so sad I can't share with her like I did before so many times, it's really hard when you lose a wife after 35 years. So many reminders to cherished memories.

[ramona.lehadus]

My fiance died almost 10 years ago; life is just not the same. Almost every day I burst into tears thinking of him. Healing is not healing us deep down.

[Dan-]

Men miss their wives more than wives miss thier husbands, change my mind.

[vw]

I used to love getting random food with my late father. I feel this when I find sweet foods, I tear up while trying to eat what it is and imagine how much he would have liked it or raved on the apple turnover is better 🤭 I am still over 9 years later after his passing, trying to find the best fish and chips ever. Dad started that while I was a little girl (nearly 26 years later). This one will be my forever favourite food mission.

[mendagy]

I'm so, SO SORRY!! Truly. Sadness, grieving & feeling bereft & lonely is normal. Please give yourself grace at this point; the time it takes is the time it takes.... Allow those heartfelt tears & don't feel less because of them.
I have had to help my Dad after my.sweet Mother passed away suddenly. They did absolutely EVERYTHING together & has the most beautiful.love - romantic AND the kind of gracious respect that is rare these days.
Also, my daughter's husband of 8 years died from COVID two years ago. I have had to be the back bone & caretaker for both.

And the one thing I have learned is l: if u shared a beautiful relationship, .over the years it literally becomes sweeter & even deeper.
Please hang in

[Psche]

Silver lining to all of this. She stayed with you and left unwillingly. The love of my life after 20 years, up and left me and I have a son with her that I share now. Thank god for him…

[jeanetteemanuel]

7 years ago lost mine, now 44 and just lonely.

[TelzAll]

Thats how grief works... you randomly realise the pain in the strangest of times

[Not-A-Fan]

I’m not looking forward to this, but damn it do I understand what’s coming my way. If you need to hear this I love you, just the way you are no need to change what’s already perfectly you. Be someone you’d wanna spend time with.

[martinrawstron]

She was with you all the way even when you were enjoying the meal 🥘, don’t worry mate she knows ❤

Damn. Yeah man I can appreciate this pain. I spend weeks away from my wife for work and when I do something in a new area I want to share it with her.

[im_]

I'm sure there are dead set loyal women that would never move on but the reality is majority of men especially average men who just want a simple life are just broken when the love of their life is gone. Most women move on within a few months, weeks even. Women sacrifice everything for their happiness, men sacrifice their happiness for everything, it's a different world