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[holisticcoachvictoria]

3 things you always keep private:
1. your love life
2. your income
3. your next move

[Seer-nnqo]

I read this somewhere: “ You gotta stop telling bad spirits good news.” I live by this.

[Lexiesimone]

Please dont announce you're making moves silently.

[eniale]

Your Co-workers ARE NOT your friends....👀👀👀

[anmorgan]

I've learned that when you plant seeds, you keep them covered until they sprout. You never let birds know where your seeds are. They'll pick at them, take them, destroy them, etc... Discretion and discernment are key. I've learned that lesson young and also the hard way too.

[brownbunny]

Short Story: A few years back I made friends with another black woman on the job. She seemed cool and we talked and bonded over different things. I got too comfortable with her and told her I was going for a certain management position. I interviewed and didn't get it. A similar position opened up a few months later, interviewed, didn't get it. Come to find out, she had been talking to someone who was close with those in leadership. Telling things about my personal life that I had shared with her putting me at a disadvantage. Learned my lesson! Ladies, keep your business to yourself.

[Lawyerbaejess]

I recently became a licensed attorney. I told no one I was sitting for it. Then, I popped up with my bar license. Next, I am working on my real estate license. I also keep my relationship very private. Just have to move in silence.

Update: Now a licensed attorney and realtor. 💄🙏🏿

[skylarbrown]

“If someone asks if you listen to me, say no” 😭😭😭😂

[zol]

I keep everything I do to level up to myself. I hate how nosey everyone is and I don't want to bring any negativity into my healing space.

[xshesyourqorqeousxx]

Black men: Chrissie never tells Black women to be accountable
Chrissie: Sometimes we (Black women) get in our own way

[whitney]

I'm more reserved naturally and I find its easier to see through people's bs when you listen to them and the way they talk about other people.

[beautifulblacksoul]

One of the main reasons is because as soon as you state you have higher standards, there will be hoards of people trying to discourage you and convince you that you don't deserve. Then when you do it, they will try to compete with you and be aggressive.

Please MISS (Move In Silence Sis).

[MyRedmamba]

I have noticed a significant increase to the amount of black women at the gym I go to. They look like they range in ages 18 to 50, have their natural hair held back in a puff, and wear cute but not overly girly work out gear. We don't talk but I can tell they are in there to Level up on their physical attractiveness. Seeing this makes me proud.

[mardigras]

Stop doing “Girls Trips” and travel and tour alone. Stop going to happy hour with girlfriends and go alone. Learn to just be alone. I’ll sit at a table in a restaurant ALONE and sometimes you get men who think you’re lonely. Signifying “you have no friends and no man therefore no drama” Then these men will approach you out of sympathy because they feel sad for you so they throw on the cape. Come to your table, strike up a conversation and possibly/hopefully offer to pay for your meal. If you accept or decline depends on the man, the mood, and the vibration in the atmosphere. Go to Barnes and Nobles alone. Go to the park ALONE. Alone alone alone. Alone is not lonely.

[JayySonataWTF]

I noticed this a while ago. Specifically with plus sized dark skin women. A lot of which are very very feminine. They play up their femininity, they know what works with their body, they feel confident and you can feel that. But they never ever discuss it. They are always very stylish and usually have lots of men chasing them of all races even though we are told bigger women aren’t attractive. Their femininity and the way they hold themselves and take care of themselves make them attractive to men. As well as the way they talk. Very smooth and sweet. Sometimes sultry. They make lots of eye contact. Smiling. Knowing how to walk seductively at all times. Standing straight. I’ve seen it. They never discuss it. But it works. And people HATE to see it. They hate seeing men who like them and they hate seeing them level up.

[sheritownsend]

I knew a girl for a year, before I knew she was rich. I found out when she was about to leave America and invited me to come to her villa for the summer. While in America, she bought her clothes from Goodwill. I love people like this. They're about the business of DOING and BEING, not talking. 'Silence IS golden', when you know how to use it.

[Bloombaby]

I've noticed something about my well-to-do friends: they are very private, they're very selective about who they deal with, and they don't share everything. They are also protective of their images.

Ladies, be mindful of the company you keep.

[intuitivedepth]

I've decided to become a big sister mentor to other young women. I plan to introduce them to you and other black progressive women

[KeraBear]

One thing I've found helpful is to have my antennas up when people start asking probing questions. When you start getting serious about leveling up, people will notice that you are moving differently. They will ask questions, sometimes with an agenda. If the person asking the questions is not someone you know well AND trust, keep your answers vague and brief while still being cordial. This is especially true when dealing with white women in the corporate world.

[freddysharky]

Haters need company - let them stay lonely or with other haters