Increasing Age-Appropriate Interests and Behaviors

We are in a time when “nerd culture” is cool, typical teens and adults dress up as superheroes and go to conventions (cons), and entire cultural subgroups are formed online and in person around interests such as children’s TV shows, video games, Disney trivia, and other autism-friendly subject areas..
That means some individuals with autism can find like-minded friends who are just as passionate as they are. The definition of age-inappropriate has changed, and that’s a good thing for teens and adults with autism..
It is, however, important for teens and adults with autism to understand that teen and adult interests are expressed differently from childhood interests. Here are some tips for helping your child move toward more sophisticated, adult interests and behaviors:.
1. Help your child explore their passions in more sophisticated ways. If they are interested in Thomas the Tank Engine, they may enjoy train rides or train museums. If they are Disney movie fans, they may enjoy exploring Disney collectibles..
2. Help your child build strong skills in their areas of interest. Rather than accepting any level of effort as “good enough,” help your child build their skills during their childhood years. If they are interested in sports, they may need extra coaching. If they love drawing, art classes may be appropriate..
3. Introduce new opportunities that are similar to those they are passionate about. If your child watches the same TV shows and movies repeatedly, expose them to more sophisticated shows with similar themes. If they like collecting toy cars, they may be interested in antique toys..
4. Find authentic outlets where your child’s interests and knowledge will be appreciated. If they know exactly how to dress as a beloved Marvel character, they may be a real hit in cosplay at a regional con..
5. Raise the bar for unexpected behavior. Most people with autism can increase their self-knowledge and self-discipline with help and support. Many available tools can help your child find and use techniques to avoid difficult situations, manage frustration, and handle conflict. These skills can be invaluable as your child develops into adulthood..
6. Take it slowly. Even one new interest or skill is an important step in the right direction..

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