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UPDATE Old Sister's Upset I Announced My Pregnancy First, Cos Now Her Child Will Be Second Rate AITA
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I (26 F) am married to my DH (26 M) and have an older sister (27 F) who I’ll call K. For some background: K was the golden child but my parents rapidly changed their tune when she failed uni and started a party lifestyle for a bit (no longer the case). Suddenly I was the favourite because I finished school and had a moderately successful life. I think it’s BS that my parents have/had favourites, and I largely keep my distance, but it’s something that has troubled K a LOT.
So! DH and I recently got pregnant (surprise!) and though I keep a healthy distance from my parents, we still talk. Boundaries are really important to have with my them because they will trample over your entire life and privacy. Covid restrictions are a thing and I’m not big on big parties anyways, so I decided to just tell my family about the latest news during a monthly family VC last Friday. I was excited to share the news but I also didn’t beat around the bush.
Once everyone had done the preliminary catching up I said DH and I had some news, and then said I was pregnant. My parents, sisters, and grandmother lost it, screaming and laughing and crying in joy. This is the first grandchild/great grandchild/niece or nephew so they understandably had pretty dramatic reactions. Everyone was excited except for K who stayed completely silent the entire time. Once things calmed down a bit I asked if K was still there and she said yes but she had to go and deal with something. I thought it odd but didn’t give it much further thought.
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Update: AITA for announcing my pregnancy first?
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AITA for snapping at my sister at a family dinner?
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AITA for not replacing my nephew's pants and shoes after my daughter threw up on them
#AITA #Parenting #Family
So! DH and I recently got pregnant (surprise!) and though I keep a healthy distance from my parents, we still talk. Boundaries are really important to have with my them because they will trample over your entire life and privacy. Covid restrictions are a thing and I’m not big on big parties anyways, so I decided to just tell my family about the latest news during a monthly family VC last Friday. I was excited to share the news but I also didn’t beat around the bush.
Once everyone had done the preliminary catching up I said DH and I had some news, and then said I was pregnant. My parents, sisters, and grandmother lost it, screaming and laughing and crying in joy. This is the first grandchild/great grandchild/niece or nephew so they understandably had pretty dramatic reactions. Everyone was excited except for K who stayed completely silent the entire time. Once things calmed down a bit I asked if K was still there and she said yes but she had to go and deal with something. I thought it odd but didn’t give it much further thought.
Story 1:
Update: AITA for announcing my pregnancy first?
Story 2:
AITA for snapping at my sister at a family dinner?
Story 3:
AITA for not replacing my nephew's pants and shoes after my daughter threw up on them
#AITA #Parenting #Family
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