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[jasmine_dumas]

"baby wasn't the size of a strawberry " actually broke me. :(
you have so many people praying for you as you go through this scary process, we love you ❤

[CookiehsAndDreams]

The audacity of some people to blame Liana saying "oh, you shouldn't have worked out" or stuff like that is disgusting. She's in the middle of grieving, leave her alone.

[sashal]

17:54 Oh darling, please don’t apologise for being excited. You were completely within your right to share the news, and you simply could not have predicted the outcome. You acted out of pure love and joy, and no one can fault you for that. In a way, it’s quite lovely that you did share the news, so your baby is remembered not just for being an angel, but for the joy they brought you and so many others for those few weeks.

[elle_blair]

Woah, I had NO idea going through a miscarriage was so drawn out, painful and traumatic (the actual process rather than the emotional loss obv). I’m so, so sorry your you loss. Please, both of you, look after yourselves ♡

[Offiacllydiamond]

That little moment where Liana just started crying broke my heart into pieces, no mother should ever have to go through the pain of miscarriage. I'm so sorry for your loss

[sueharrington]

you are right Connor. No one asks about the Dad. He has lost a baby too and must feel so helpless seeing Mom go through this You looked so sad in this video Connor. I hope you're doing ok <3

[EB-yuit]

17:54 You didn’t announce too early. You announced at a time that was right for you. It’s a situation that no one wants to find themselves in, but by sharing your pregnancy news early you were able to have the support of those around you (and virtual support on here) when you needed it most.

Also, the main cause of miscarriage in the first trimester is chromosomal abnormalities. This is something that you could not change or do anything about. You did absolutely nothing wrong, and please don’t ever for a second let people tell you otherwise! Thank you for being so raw and honest about a situation that is all too common and rarely discussed

[_Kyprioth_]

I miscarried alone and at home when I was 17. I hadn’t told anyone I was pregnant and didn’t tell anyone that I had miscarried for almost 5 years after it happened. I was far enough along to know that my child was a boy, but that’s all I ever knew.
If it means anything at all, please know that I truly believe that my son is keeping your beautiful baby company until you one day meet them again. They know that they are loved and they know that we would have done anything in our power to keep them here with us.

[desireemathews]

Cozy is still a big brother. His sibling is just a little angel in heaven. I'm sure you will have a beautiful rainbow baby soon!! Thank you for sharing. I'm 12 weeks with my 3erd and it broke my heart when I found out about your miscarriage. Stay strong tho. God has the perfect little baby waiting for you to be it's mama when it's the right time.

[jessicabrown]

“My baby wasn’t the size of a strawberry” absolutely made me ball my eyes out. Sending healing prayers to you and your family ❤

[EviePops]

7:19 the way connor grabs her shows how much he cares. I am so sorry. Koazy will always be there for you. ❤❤

[DLMetzger]

You shouldn't say you're sorry for crying. Your strength and honesty through this tough time is admirable. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sure it will bring comfort to another woman going through a similar situation. Sending hugs and prayers

[jdot]

THE MISCARRIAGE HAPPENED TO YOU, NOT BECAUSE OF YOU!!! Anyone who blames mothers for having a miscarriage needs to shut their trap & educate themselves! You did NOTHING wrong & I am so, so sorry you had to experience a loss as devastating as this. You have an amazing support system, lean on them when it gets hard & thank them when things get a little easier. Above all else, remember that you are strong & you are loved!!

[shannonmorris]

When I was pregnant with my little girl, you got pregnant with koazy, when you fell pregnant this time so did I shortly after. When you lost baby and posted it to the world to let us know I also lost my baby the same week. I understand everything you are feeling at the moment and I salute you as a mum, woman and as a human for being able to speak about your loss publicly and hold yourself together this well. There is light at the end of the tunnel ❤

[melissaharris]

It's the silent club you never knew existed, never applied to join, but has many, many supporters. So sorry for your loss. Healing your heart takes time, and you will never forget. But you will feel normal again one day. Big hugs!

[Pn_c]

Toddlers know, they KNOW, they’ve been in their mamas tummy and with their mamas all their life, they know when mama needs cuddles or anything, came from your recent video, Congratulations ml🎉❤

[Daynamarie]

0:53 I’m already crying. You do so great at using your platform for good. You’re both so strong.

[bunny-zv]

i dont know if you’ll see this, liana, but one of the best things i heard from someone regarding pregnancy after loss was “your uterus has no memory”. your baby and your uterus were communicating, and they knew baby wasn’t doing well, so they decided to let them go peacefully. your uterus has no memory, has no ulterior motives- this is not the end, if you do not want it to be. do not feel as though all hope is lost, my love, because you are strong and your body will fight to do right by you, no matter what. we love you, and i hope your family is able to take time away to recover and heal. please dont listen to people saying “you shouldnt have revealed anything until 12 weeks” that would not have changed anything. frankly, if you reveal a pregnancy before or after 12 weeks it does not matter. the only thing that changed is you now have a huge circle of people who are here for you, who want to support you and who are able to understand the pain you are experiencing. we love you, and please don’t be disheartened by this. it was not a failure on your part or your body’s part. it was simply a matter of natural process. you could not have changed anything. you did everything right.

[jules]

Liana I am SO sorry.
I’m an OB/GYN intern and we always tell our patients that with early miscarriages there was nothing you could have done, from the moment the embryo was conceived there must have been a genetic defect that meant it never would’ve gotten full term.
You did NOTHING wrong. You could’ve been in bed all day from the moment you knew you were pregnant and it still would have happened. This is in no way your fault.
You are so so strong and you will get through this. I think about you often and send all my love so that this time can progressively get easier. Take as long as you need and most importantly take care of yourself ❤❤❤

[DestinyR]

We had a missed miscarriage July 2023. We found out at our 9 week scan that it had stopped at 7 weeks. The moment I got verbal confirmation my body started to bleed. We have no children and have been trying for years. I have DOR and reoccurring miscarriage. We’ve been recommended for IVF and told using my eggs wouldn’t be a good option and that we would need donor eggs. Unfortunately, in the US it’s not covered by most insurance and we cannot afford $22, 000. We’ve been trying monthly while we save money for the treatment and just found out we’re 5weeks pregnant. Fingers crossed baby number four is healthy. Thank you for sharing. You bursting into tears is so relatable, I totally get it