Watch This if You Think You Lost 'The One'

If we keep telling ourselves a story that the person who didn’t choose us was “the one,” we’ll never be open enough to find the person who could ACTUALLY become the one—someone we can build a life with.

If we want to find a partner, we have to start telling ourselves better love stories.

Thank you for having me, André Duqum, and for the amazing conversation.

If you want to listen to the full thing, you can find it on André's youtube channel.

[margielamark]

He didn’t choose me, but he wants to keep me around. Your message just hit me like a ton of bricks, but in a good way. No matter how much I want him, he didn’t choose me. End of story. THANK YOU❣️

[Doohopper_Grandma]

You make a very good point. Hard to accept when you think you found the right one but they don’t feel the same.

[magdalenamaria]

A right person is open to develop the relationship with time effort joy and chemistry.

[van]

It goes both ways. You have to both choose to be in it or be out of it.

[misslanapaulford]

Technically you have to chose each other, their is no one sided..
They want you and you want them..
1+1=2❤

[slchance]

this explains a kind of cheating most people dont want to talk about.

Sometimes, the one who DOESNT chose you just wants you to go away and they know that cheating is the path of least resistance.
(1)if i they get caught you go away
(2)If they dont get caught, then they get to be with someone else.

Either way, the cheater wins with minimal effort and minimal confrontation. Most people, cowardly or not, dont want to deal with confrontation.

[cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn]

ThumbsUp No matter how hard it is to believe or how much they LIE....actions speaks louder than words.

[syukranukhty]

. ..and keep choosing us. Till death do us apart.

[juliandomenech]

I love that you tell women to "think" and stop been attracted to toxic men.

[DrEvil-hufi]

"The right person for us is the person that chooses us, the person that doesn't choose us could never be the right person for us" I love that.

"We have to tell ourselves better love stories"
I love that more.
Thank you.

I loved someone bc I chose him. But I didn't feel like his chosen. It hurts, but "we have to tell ourselves better love stories."

[brendacunningham]

I Agree...I AM Open And Ready To Receive My Divine NEW 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅

[siticities]

just love yourself..love is so ideal its seems like a fantasy..it never be perfect..thats a fact..

[unicornsarereal]

Oh, the light bulb that just lit in my head!! Thank you… 😊

[ghazalnaderi]

Only serious challenges can show us the right person who chooses us after many wrong people last year finally zi found the right person for me every thing was perfect I was terrible cause I deeply knew he wasnt the right one also he treated me amazing but at the end when something bad happened and I asked him to make our situation clear to go to the third level you say always I mean commitment he didn't choose me cause he has some priorities over me .I'm confused, but by watching your videos, I made up my mind and did things that were sensible although I'm suffering .
He was the right one who didn't choose me at the end, so I let him goooo
He wants to be in touch but without commitment, but I've learnt that one who doesn't choose me has no place in my life may be in my heart and memories

[Gregoria_]

A bitter pill to swallow... Mirages are so strong at times.

[thai]

I wish I had LEARN THAT lesson when in my late teens and not late in my life.

[mariachiguirak]

His laugh hit the nail on the head. 😂😂😂. Funny but that’s how that thought makes me feel also

[nathaliegrise]

I tend to think.., this kind of relationship pleases me. And theses characteristics bring slit for me in the relationship.. in other words experience bring more clarity of what I want to feel in a relationship ❤ sometimes with a heartbrake but the best is in front of me 🙏 keep faith and move on guys

[mikeywinters]

I wasn’t even looking for her but god guided her into my life.. it’s been 2 weeks but I don’t think she’s ready which absolutely sucks but I know he’s got a better plan for me in the end.

[susanlodzsun]

I'm so glad I found you at the right time in my life!
I feel like you are talking directly to me !