Don't ever make him feel more special than you. You are the special one. Treat yourself accordingly.
dbedazzling
Basically, act as if the person died. Literally dead. Games only work if you want a toxic relationship.
lisabuckner
I did no contact by blocking him. He tried to reach out but I still ignored him. I'm so God damn proud of myself bc I really liked him. But I just CAN'T let someone disrespect me. I don't care how much I like or love the person
blueblaze
My mom always told be the biggest “punishment” you can give a man is to walk away and NEVER go back. Well, now, sadly, it’s come in handy!
hannagg
You wouldn’t talk to someone you were dating everyday? Wow. Did I hear that right? Boy... a man who’s truly interested in you messages you to check in at leasttt once a day. Expecting someone you’re dating to talk to you every day IS a realistic standard. Don’t accept anything less.
SoulyBeauty
When guys don't give you what you deserve, call him out then move on 100%. Remove them from your social media, do not reach out. It may be months or years later but he will circle back with regrets.
PT-zzks
Assuming that he doesn't want a relationship is the best advice. It's better to be pleasantly surprised than disappointed.
MrsArwena
Finally one reasonable "no contact rule". If you go no contact, then you must have a good reason for it, and you don't reach out ever! When (if) the other party realises their wrong doings, AND if they see a value in your relationship - they will contact you. And then you can negotiate. Otherwise, they'll just assume that you going no contact is just a bluff, which only decreases your value as a person. Good luck! 🍀
majamaja
He comes back for his ego and to check if he can still have you and nothing else. A man that's trying serious about you isn't ok with losing you if it was the real deal. 99% of the time they come back because of their ego because he's been rejected elsewhere, bored, etc.
stephblenheim
The more I learn the less I want to be involved. At any rate, I want to say Thank You for all the insight. You seem to be on of the better dating coaches out here. I feel you are actually trying to help women understand.
guacgirl
Like I always said “LEAVE THEM RESPECTING YOU.” & most importantly “LEAVE RESPECTING YOURSELF”
Mindsetolympics
Guys act this way cause most of the females are easy nowadays, and they know that there are girls who will give them what they want, so they dont feel like being bothered at all. Keeping high standards means keeping wrong guys away.
_voyageuse
I did no contact for the first week. I really thought he would call and see what was going on. He didn't, so I reached out and we fell back into the same cycle. I realize he doesn't care and he's never going to change. I've not contacted him for a week now. I don't plan on ever contacting him again. But the realization was painful.
bollagurl
I believe I’m doing the no contact right and for the right reasons..I’m moving on been dating and focusing on me..I’m just letting it go although it is really hard when you really wanted it to be something meaningful after talking for months and putting in so much effort and communication..but it is what it is! I obviously didn’t mean anything to him or else he wouldn’t have put himself in a position to lose me..
Rachel-rswh
No contact for me is for my healing...🥰
LaNereNere
We have to learn to be comfortable being alone. We also have to understand that we can be a great catch and still not be the one for a lot of the men that we meet. Our he is a lesson not necessarily your husband. Give him some room to show you who he is and act accordingly it’s no script needed. These guys know what they are doing and you gotta be the one to tell him keep it real or keep stepping and mean it.
yeddins
That was a brilliant video, Elliot! Thank you!. I realized that harsh truth after my divorce, when men have been stringing me along for months and years, going hot and cold, pulling away, coming back with grand statements of love and although I went completely non contact, I always took them back, for them
to repeat the same cycle over and over again until I could not take it any more and cut the cord forever.
jasminaloulova
Being single is AMAZING. Seriously, this gam okay crap is toxic and unhealthy. I have my 2 kids they are almost grown and I intend to be single until it’s my time. These attachments are so unhealthy with the mind games. Not worth it
Wikkedfit
This video is freaking amazing 🙏
Detach from the outcome, work on yourself, live your life, get over him, stop waiting for him.
Magnoliasdiary
No contact means 'bye bye, I'm soo done' I still hurt but you're not worth my time anymore. I'm so done. They never were my family in the first place, and yet going to try to hurt my feelings? I'd rather be single.
