Confidence isn't loud, here's how to find your voice | Nimi Mehta

Today I am joined by a new friend, and amazing woman - Nimi Mehta!

Today we chat about the misconceptions about confidence, can it be soft? PLUS how to find your voice to embrace that confidence. She shares her “Voice Layer Theory”, how she took a leap, how she has struggled always being “nice” and utilised that to become assertive + a really beautiful self care practice you can try. There’s so much in this one, I know you’ll love it!

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TIME STAMPS
(00:00) Introduction
(05:40) From unemployment to forging own path
(10:46) Career v Entrepreneurial mindset
(13:21) How do you take a leap in career?
(16:21) LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!
(20:45) How to find your voice
(23:04) Voice Layer Theory
(30:05) Alcohol on my voice
(34:00) Being nice v being assertive
(45:00) Habits for creating space for self

WHO AM I?
My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel!

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[Anish-Neupane]

I'm here to improve my English skills.

[Pappurajput-jfqh]

It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[AnjaliSharma-rghz]

I am sure most of the people come here for learning English ❤❤❤

[McGlennCanete]

I'm literally crying right now. I hope I can pick up all the confidence that have lost in me these days

[magdaramirez]

I thought I was the only one coming here to improve my English 😂

[EnglishBros]

I've learned a lot from the interview. Thank you very much!

0:23: 🎙 Discussion with Nimi Mehta, CEO of Speaker by Nimi Mehta, covering her diverse expertise and excitement for a synergistic conversation.
4:56: 💡 Importance of continuous growth and reframing goals as markers of progress in life.
9:26: ⚙ Embrace every experience as a stepping stone towards your destined path, even if it seems insignificant at the time.
14:11: 💪 Choosing between fear of staying stagnant and fear of taking a leap can lead to growth and fulfillment.
18:57: 🔍 Understanding body language cues in response to stress or new encounters is crucial for self-awareness and control.
23:38: 🗣 The impact of external influences on diluting one's voice and identity.
28:25: 🗣 Understanding the evolving nature of one's voice, the impact of external influences, and the importance of critically analyzing one's surroundings.
32:58: 🔑 Understanding family dynamics impact personal growth and self-awareness.
37:51: 💬 Importance of balancing kindness and assertiveness in communication for women in professional settings.
42:25: 💬 Importance of pausing and reflecting before responding in conversations.
46:54: 💬 Confidence is not about being the loudest in the room; it's about finding your voice and being authentic.

[simayass]

These two girls are just gorgeous, I lived the way she is so gentle even when she is interrupted by the presenter ✨✨

[sreymouysam]

BEST channel for a new English learner! Particulary, listening skill and midset-changing

[satomwilliam]

“You don’t need to be loud to be confident “👏👏👏

[emaemelda]

you look soo gorgeously different with this hairstyle! love it!!💕

[mohamadmohamadi]

This podcast inspired me to improve my English skills and do not stop anymore, l'm greatfull

[RhillEnglish]

🎯 Key points for quick navigation:-
00:00 *🌟 Introduction and guest background*
- Introduction of guest Nimi Mehta, discussing her multifaceted career in media and public speaking.
- Background discussion on Nimi's career trajectory, highlighting her roles as a TV and radio presenter, MC, and public speaking mentor.
- Description of initial impressions and expectations from the conversation, hinting at a synergistic and easy discussion.
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01:48 *🚀 Nimi’s breakthrough and challenges*
- Nimi discusses her breakthrough as an MTV presenter and the unconventional way she secured the job.
- Early career challenges, including the temporary nature of her dream job at MTV and subsequent unemployment.
- Reflections on the impermanence of career highs and the importance of evolving dreams and goals.
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03:12 *📉 The impact of career setbacks*
- Nimi recounts the non-renewal of her contract and the lessons learned from the temporary success at MTV.
- The realization that career goals are not final destinations but checkpoints in a longer journey.
- Emphasis on the importance of resilience and adaptation in the face of professional setbacks.
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04:33 *🌱 Growth and career reflection*
- Detailed discussion on the emotional and professional growth stemming from early career experiences.
- Encouragement to enjoy the process and learn from various career phases, regardless of their outcome.
- Strategies for handling career transitions and setbacks, stressing the importance of persistence and self-reflection.
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06:08 *🎯 Strategies for career re-entry and persistence*
- Nimi shares her strategic approach to re-entering the media industry by staying connected to influential networks.
- Insight into the monotonous yet strategic job roles taken to stay relevant in the industry.
- The importance of persistence and never losing hope despite facing numerous rejections and challenges.
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08:11 *💡 Persistence and seizing opportunities*
- Anecdote about persistence leading to opportunities, with a focus on the significance of not giving up on career aspirations.
- Discussion on the benefits of exploring different roles within the media industry to truly identify one’s passion.
- Highlighting the importance of determination in pursuing career goals and the positive outcomes of relentless pursuit.
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09:50 *🌟 Transition to a broader career and lessons learned*
- Nimi describes her transition from specific media roles to a more entrepreneurial and varied media career.
- Reflections on the lessons learned during the career transition, including dealing with uncertainty and the fear of change.
- Advice on choosing discomfort and fear that leads to growth rather than complacency.
19:38 *🌟 Trusting your gut instinct*
- The importance of listening to your body's signals in social situations to assess compatibility with new people.
- The challenge of doubting oneself when the body signals a mismatch in vibes, leading to potentially detrimental relationships.
20:47 *🎤 Finding and defining your voice*
- Exploring the concept of "finding your voice" in personal and professional contexts.
- Understanding your voice not just as a physical attribute but as a representation of your identity and influence on others.
22:38 *🛠️ Legacy and self-reflection*
- Transitioning from career-focused goals to considering one's legacy and broader impact.
- Reflecting on personal growth from a shy individual to a prominent public speaker and how to teach others to find their voice.
25:14 *🔍 Evaluating and refining your voice*
- Techniques for isolating and evaluating the influences on one's voice, including social media and personal relationships.
- The ongoing process of identifying authentic self-expression and the influences that shape our perceptions and decisions.
39:17 *🗣️ Balancing kindness with assertiveness*
- Discussion on balancing being kind and being assertive without compromising one's self-respect.
- The importance of being clear about one's desires to achieve desired outcomes while still maintaining kindness.
40:13 *🚧 Importance of setting boundaries*
- Exploration of the necessity of setting personal boundaries and saying no as a form of self-care.
- Reflection on the effects of people-pleasing, which often means prioritizing others' needs over one's own.
42:20 *🎭 Response vs. Reaction*
- The distinction between responding and reacting in personal and professional settings.
- Emphasizes the value of pausing to respond thoughtfully rather than reacting hastily to maintain self-control and dignity.
44:13 *🌐 Relationship Management and Authentic Interaction*
- Focus on the significance of leaving a positive impression in every interaction.
- Highlights the importance of treating everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of their role or status.
47:58 *📝 Building and Reflecting on Personal Achievements*
- The practice of documenting personal achievements as a tool for building confidence and self-awareness.
- Encourages regular self-reflection and acknowledgment of personal growth through visual or written records.

[LungaShongwe-ow]

It so heartwarming to see other people who are here for the same reason as me and the reason is to fluent in English. Let not forget to subscribe while we are improving our English.

[sommediaco]

Thank you so much for putting this out! My favourite from the episode has to be "you can be kind and still be clear and concise with what is it you want"

[YuliaGrushevskaya-bihe]

What is important is with whom you talk😊 Some People have very low consioussness and they live and juge others they can take your kindness for weakness. Just live your life in harmony with yourself. Dont try to proof your value to anyone 😊

[rewanmirany]

I find out this amazing interview by an accident, when I was looking for improving my English skills. However I like people when they have power and self-confidence.

[SylviaiTrev]

Great video. Really needed to hear this today. Keep up the great work Erika! ❤

[lyaalia]

"The worst that can happen is they said no. You can't miss something that you never had. But if you keep going something might come out of it" <3

[ayazmubaraka]

Whatever she said it was so powerful to empower yourself and get most out of your time and capabilities.

[Soundforsoul]

Law of attraction did take me here. What these ladies said was gold, and exactly what I needed to hear. Send much love to you all <3