The Secret Power Women Have in Relationships

In this eye-opening video, we dive into the dynamics of dating and intimacy, exploring the unique advantages women possess in the modern dating landscape. As we discuss the unfair advantages that women have, we aim to provide insightful dating advice for men, especially those over 50 or navigating life after divorce. How can men thrive in dating in 2024? What does it mean to be single at 60 or even single at 40?

Join us as we dissect the economics of love, uncovering the realities of dating, sex with single women, and the challenges men face in relationships with high maintenance women. Whether you're seeking zero commitments or looking to recover from divorce, this video offers valuable tips on dating for men, helping you to embrace a better life as a single individual.

Whether you're a dating coach or just someone trying to navigate the dating scene, our discussion on life after divorce and the journey of being single and thriving is sure to resonate. Discover how to make the most of your dating experiences and find joy in being single, while understanding the complexities of modern intimacy. Don't miss out on this crucial conversation that aims to empower men in their dating lives!
00:00 One Sided
01:55 The Sex Switch
04:09 How This Becomes a Problem
06:27 How it works: Examples
08:41 Post-Marital Sex
13:10 More Manipulations
16:18 The "L-Word"
17:52 How to flip your own switch off

[IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

YouTube is the best.
Older men sharing life wisdom is something young men need desperately!!!!

[dennisgriffin]

I’m almost 50 and was married for 15 years, and had 2 children. The ex tried to use sex as a manipulative instrument, but I never took the bait. She actually didn’t know what to do when it didn’t work in her favor. Long story short, it uncovered many issues that she had with herself, and as of today, I’ve been happily divorced for 10 years.

[tadghsmith]

Watching these videos really hammers home the old saying, “men who understand women don’t get married.”

[KJ-pudw]

If your woman does not desire you for sex and intimacy then not only does she not love you, she does not respect you. In fact she despises you.
Leave her.

[georgesontag]

She doesn't have secret power. She has the power to take your house, land, savings, cars, pension, 401k, alimony and child support. All she does is file for divorce. She just sits back and allows the laws to take it from the man.

[jeffdutcher]

The only way you can control the relationship is to not give a fk and be ready to exit stage at a moment notice.

[timizo]

You are absolutely the best. Everything you say is completely 100% accurate. I was with my ex for 14 years. The first year sex was incredible. Multiple times a week. Sex dropped off considerably after marriage. It then spiked back up when she wanted to try for a baby. After our son was born, sex died. It was maybe once every two months. It was entirely obligation sex. No passion or intimacy and she just wanted it over. She trained me so well I eventually stopped asking. I was tired of the rejection. It also didn’t help that she put on a lot of weight and started putting purple streaks in her hair. The only thing she wore were leggings and a tank top. She also got that ugly nose ring that all modern women seem to put in their noses. Not attractive. Thank you so much for what you do. It’s so comforting to know I’m not alone.

[solve]

I was 42 and married a 22 year old after 8 years together before I moved her in.

She was a virgin when we met and traditional. She cooked, cleaned, worked at a job and sex on tap whenever I wanted, which was 4- 5 times per week.

When she reached her mid 30s she started to get demanding.
One day she said to me "if you want this marriage to work you have to sell all your motorcycles and fast cars, give up catching up with your mates, stop your occasional Wiskey drinking and your Pot smoking" which was 4 times per month, not daily.

Ontop of that she wanted me to see a Psychiatrist, and when I asked why?

She said what sane man has so many motorcycles, likes whisky and likes catching up with mates twice a week for rides and sessions.

Monday morning first thing I got my Lawyers to draw up papers, gave her what she deserved financially and said to her if you don't sign the papers I will bankrupt the both of us and you will get nothing.

She knew I would do it too.
She signed and kicked her arse to the kerb.

Moral of the story is, if you think you found a Unicorn, you haven't, they will eventually turn on you with a vengeance.🇦🇺

[melissasmess]

Men never know women initially, they only meet their representative, they find out who they married after the divorce.

[NoMoreRatRaceForMe]

Watching your videos even inspired my 290 pound self to start walking. Walked 4.5 miles yesterday in a wild life preserver in Texas- Thank you for all you do

[keithnetzel]

When they withhold sex, withhold attention and affection. If you aren’t getting what you need physically and they are using sex as a weapon… get it somewhere else and leave the relationship.

[Mdykstra]

Every time I see a woman that looks interesting I think to myself. Does she look like somebody I would give 95% of my belongings and all of my money to... Again?

[Dee-ss]

I learned young, never married, no kids.
You are spot on.

[mkrb]

For many years, I tried to make my ex happy. You name it, i did it, in hopes I could get the intimacy back. It never worked. At one point, I bought her an upgraded phone, and I took her old one. I found several texts to other men with hearts and see you soons. After nearly 30 years, it was over. You are exactly right.

[ceejay]

Even though I've never been married and have thus obviously never been divorced, there's definitely something therapeutic about your videos. Your sharing of the conclusions you've reached after an obviously extensive thought process is intriguing, to say the least. I find myself reflecting on experiences I've had with girlfriends that "match" the situations you discuss. I think you're doing a lot of people good via your channel, so keep up the good work!

[ericbaxter]

My girlfriend of 3 years just didn't want to one night during a week vacation I paid for in St. Thomas. We dont get a lot of time together in general due to differences in work schedules. She turned me down one night, and I made sure she knew I could get it somewhere else, and we could just be friends if this was the path she wanted to go down. The entire year since then havent had a single issue with her. Sometimes, they just need to be reminded that you can walk away and you have options.

[lukejonte]

Hands down, this is the most honest video about men in relationships I've seen in years. I feel less of a freak for seeing it. Good stuff.

[PulseCodeModulate]

Mr. John Griffin, your content sneaked up on me, just outside of my radar but, your honest, down to earth videos have caught my attention in processing my own relationship challenges. As a 58 year old man with two children, who spent 35 years in a marriage and now separated for two years, I relate to many of your own experiences. I also relate with your CALM energy in finding peace within myself after the tumultuous ride of conjugal love gone awry. I have found my own peace and serenity in typing out my feelings, relating to others and helping them on the internet. But, you are capturing the process of healing your own experience with all the video and audio showing how men must develop and grow through the pain of lost love. Your authentic presence is palpable and most welcome. I know that you are now on the fast track to healing because I saw you laugh/ chuckle at least five times during this video. That means that you are not only healing yourself but, you are healing others. Thank you for delivering your brutal honesty and needed grace in your sacred journey of life. Jeffrey Z. in SC

[jaimelopez]

We all pay for it. Some pay less, some more. Never free.

[ItalNico]

When I was dating my wife she told me one day that she had the ability to "turn off her sexuality and bury it in the ocean", referring to how she got by being single between relationships. However, she failed to mention that she would also do it once we moved in together, and especially once we were married.