What a time to be alone! Releasing the fear of being alone. | Chidera Eggerue| TEDxMauerPark

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"I am enough because I said so, and that is not up for debate."

janakrige
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"we use our relationships with other people as a distraction"

meghanaenumula
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she's so cute! it's like she's speaking in front of a group of friends, I love the little laughing pauses. sis was feeling herself, I can tell she lives by her own words.

QueenZsWorld
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I honestly appreciate this woman's existence so much

JosephineOE
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Wow! Awesome speech. “Even when it hurts, choose yourself”.

tosin
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“The problem with people who don’t know what they want, is that you will never be enough for them.”

Wow! This girl has some wisdom!

sallyreid
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Now alone after out of an emotionally abusive marriage of 25 years, I am rediscovering my uniqueness, my self worth, my absolute priceless value, my being happy in my own skin, doing what I like, going where I want to, enjoying what I feel and desire. Surrounding myself with happy things, so that it is impossible to feel lonely on my own.

nola
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"I know am a mess buh I want to be the best possible mess I can be"... love you

bukolasolanke
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"I'd rather be alone for the right reasons, than be with someone for the wrong reasons." Some Kind of Wonderful

Voyeur
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I thrive and become a better person when I’m alone. People are a headache to be around. At least when I’m alone, I’m at peace, I appreciate myself more and don’t feel the need to be something or someone that I’m not. Thank you so much for reiterating everything I’ve ever thought x

sallyal-roubaie
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choose yourself, over and over again, day by day, simply choose yourself.

rachelmargolin
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“I cant remember a time when i learned anything from being right, from being pretty, from being nice”. So. Good.

lilysampson
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I wish this was something we talked about more. I was so mortified of being alone, I spent most of the time I’ve been alive trying to find people, hoping and even begging God that they’d like me then a while ago I decided that I wanted to be alone (I already was but I was deciding finally to embrace it) and it was so so so hard in the beginning, I was still fighting it a bit I suppose but the longer I stay on this path the more I realize that I’m the best friend I’ve been looking for all this time, I just needed to give myself a chance.

whatsherface
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Tbh this video couldn’t have come at a better time and I haven’t even watched the full video

TheLoveOfGodPodcast
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"I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not"
Stop chasing the dragon people 😉

masterdebater
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To get this at 23 is pivotal!!! She will do great work.

cleopatramemphisstudios
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When she said that joy is not wanting to change anything in your life, even the cringe-y things you've done!!! I relate because sometimes I look back on the less desirable things I've said or done and it keeps me from loving myself fully. Man i needed this! I want to be this girl's friend!

breosu
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Me, JC from Holland am alone, travel alone, I am a nomad roaming around on a Kawasaki Dominar through the Philippines. I left the Netherlands, all my friends and family behind, sold all I owned at the age of 54. I do not fear loneliness, I thrive on it.

Jeanetteslagt
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"Even when it hurts, choose yourself" this is SO important

solcinalli
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I'm 60. And recently, fiveish years ago, I have begun to F.L.Y. First Love Yourself.

walterpaton