♡ GIRL TALK: my break up, toxic relationships & self love

♡ I N S T A G R A M: @Lisette
♡ T I K T O K: @Luhhsetty

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F A Q:

Name- Lisette
Race- Black & White
Height- 5'3
Location- LA

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Not sponsored.

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-xo

[DC]

“Loving someone shouldn’t cost you your peace” - a whole word.

[ChloeBrooke]

“Why am I crying about someone that don’t care about me!” Ugh so relatable

[atn]

Sometimes crying isn’t about the person, sometimes it’s about letting yourself down and dealing with things you never thought you would have dealt with. So crying isn’t for them, it’s for you! Stay strong 💕

[makaylag]

Note to self: Don’t get too comfortable in a relationship. Remember your own relationship goals and know your finish line.

[chelseaaao]

“ you’ll never find someone like me” … Well that’s the point

[nla]

To all my ladies leaving unhealthy relationships - I'M PROUD OF YOU and I love you and I support you.

[OpalBLeigh]

DAMN she kept it 100. She didn’t need to go this hard, she did it for us. To help us not to make the same mistakes 🥺❤️

[midnight]

You legitimately had no obligation to tell us any of this, and yet you did. That's a lot of bravery and transparency on your part with a lot of people who are basically strangers to you. While that may not always be a good thing, I think it's a good thing in this community you've built for yourself. You've gathered a community of people who look at you like their big sister. And just like you've always been there for us to give us tips on life and beauty, we'll be here for you to support you in moving on from all this turmoil you've just lived through ❤️ stay strong, Setty. You're more than just a gorgeous face; your personality and spirit are just as beautiful!

[alexisd]

I ended my 9 year relationship two days ago and came across this video. Thank you for validating all of my thoughts and all of my choices.

[ashleymanim]

"why am I crying about somebody that don't care about me" I feel you girl

[beth]

I would never have guessed that your relationship was toxic. I was also in a very toxic relationship it takes a long time to get over it and heal specially the longer you’ve been in the toxicity. You got this you will feel so strong, so beautiful and so much in your power within time. Keep your chin up high and take each day as it comes 🥰

[aliford]

I hate when men call women crazy to avoid taking accountability. He sounds like a narcissist. Good for you for going to therapy and knowing your worth!! 💜

[Lex_stewart]

I'm just just ready for Lisette post-breakup glow! She has so many blessings coming her way 💕💫

[frotondi]

My boyfriend of 4 years recently ghosted me, it’s been a week without hearing from him. I basically gave him an ultimatum that we go to therapy and work on our issues or the relationship is going to have to end. He did not reply and hasn’t replied since. No response is a response. Now I’m working on loving myself. When I know how much love I can give, it makes me stronger. Someone who deserves that love will receive it, but I’m going to have to receive it in return. No more unmatched energy ladies 🥳 here’s to high standards, never be too understanding of your mediocre boyfriend.

[gtodajuiceloveme]

Girl!!! I just left my ex last week and you described my entire relationship with him! He was the perfect guy on paper! He always conveniently had an excuse or an explanation for why he cussed me out or why he would purposely make me feel bad. He also asked me to move in with him. He gave me a ring and I'm so glad I didn't move in with him. He drained my energy and drained me of my happiness. This video was on point for me. He thought not cheating on me made him the perfect boyfriend but he treated me poorly. Im sorry you went through that, but Im so happy that you got out of the situation.

[babs]

Just because he was toxic doesn't mean it will hurt any less or feel any less real! It's totally okay to feel upset about someone who hurt you. Love you <3

[julissaraquel.]

It's okay to cry. You invested time & you had real feelings. Girl, God has so much better for you ❤ Don't settle for less.

[samanthachurch]

I just have to tell you that this is the most respectful, mature, and well spoken break up video I have ever watched. Like no passive aggressiveness, no smack talking - just honest truth. I really commend you for making it through your situation and coming out stronger, and getting therapy. I can tell you're a very strong woman and I see an even brighter future for you. Everything you said is very true as well and toxic relationships are so unbelievably difficult to stop, just such a mental game. You're a rock star and thank you for being so open. 💗

[BiancaReneeToday]

Although I don’t like that this happened to you, I loved this video! Love seeing this vulnerable side of you. You hit so many 100% true points!!! Sounds like Narcissist 101 😖 Congratulations on getting OUT! That is the HARDEST part! But now that we’re focusing on the new stronger you… 🗣 WHEN ARE YOU DROPPING THE ALBUM!?! Just gonna sneak in the VOCALS!?! Who is she!? 🤯🥰👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

[ericacarbonell]

He sounds like a narcissist and he was gaslighting you. I can relate. Thank you for being brave and transparent by sharing.