When /How To Cut Off Toxic Family | Toxic Parents | Soul Talk

Hey Soul Family! Welcome to my channel. Thank you for stopping by! In this video, I discuss the trauma of toxic family especially parents. If you are struggling with this, this is for you!

Please remember to put your happiness 1st always! I love you soul family, and you have a sister in me!

Love and Light

Zada

[jasminepoteat]

When I was a child, I literally waited to grow up to have my own personality and to be happy and free. I was mocked and shamed for thinking. I couldn’t be my own person.

[quanyin]

More and more people everywhere that have been family blacksheep and scapegoats are cutting them off and connecting to their soul family an tribe of like minded high vibrational souls

[missskeetchie]

Don’t waste the time trying to fix people, put your needs first, it hurts but YOU must come first. 3 years since I stopped all contact and therapy is helping. Can’t pick your family

[BILDEMRICH]

I've developed an allergy to toxicity. Family, friends, co-workers, church members, etc. can get somewhere and sit down. I👏WILL👏NOT👏 participate in dysfunction.

[witchsistah]

"Our parents don't live forever."

THANK GOD!

[CCGarland]

Thanks for making this video. You are so sincere. I'm at the 3 -month mark of no-contact with my nuclear family :( Not sure if I'll ever talk to them again as I was the scapegoat and recovering from mental health issues. Some days, it hurts really, really badly to know I can't talk to them but I stay strong. Can't look back.

[southernbawselady]

Matthew 10:36... "Your worst enemies will be members of your own family"

So sad, but true!

Stay strong and blessed everyone! 🙏💜

[jeanetteatkins]

It hurts so bad for me to cut my family off, but I need my peace! No more tears. 🙏🏽❤️

[ChocolateBabe_]

Thank you. I’m in a awful place when it comes to my family. Forgiving toxic behaviors and being gas lit by siblings who gets mad when I don’t conform. Sick sick sick!

[gregjones]

It’s sad that people take ones kindness, for weakness…..

[Janelolll]

It’s a gut punch every time my mom asks me what’s wrong with me, and why am I so sad? And I tell her it’s because of the mind games she plays, and her refusal to understand she’s causing me and others pain. she acts absolutely SHOCKED every time, like I’ve never told her this before and how could I possibly blame her for anything, because she’s such a caring person and she knows what’s best for others even if they don’t know it. A normal person’s reaction to someone telling them they have hurt them is to go “wow, I’m really sorry for what I’ve done and I need to take a step back because this needs to change, I’m so sorry I’m causing you pain” but her reaction is “wow! You’re making me sound so bad!!” “And “OMG it’s not like I’m beating you or something” she’s just absolving herself of any blame, there’s no way I can make her change, she’s way too far gone in her fantasy world.

[fionam]

I’m five years out and I’d say if the family is truly toxic save yourself and get out as soon as you can, as a fifty year old woman I can assure you it doesn’t get any better. It tough and difficult for sure but worth it. I’m raising two children on my own without support so if I can do it anyone can. Good luck to you all I’m with you in spirit willing you to break away and save yourself. You can do it, find your own tribe they are out there in smaller numbers

[incognito]

I am cutting my family off as well. I am the scapegoat since I was a child. I have always sensed something was off since I was a child from many traumatic situations. There's lots of gossiping too in my family and dysfunction. My family always tells me that I am horrible and cruel and I am evil. But still use me for money, despite repeatedly sabotaging me from having full independence. They cause me anxiety, depression and stress. My few friends make me feel the most heard, validated and they tell me my true personality is gentle and wayy too nice. So it makes me feel so confused❤️🌺Anyways I am going with my gut and I am finally cutting them off and the drama out of my life, they never change.

[afrofaeries]

I cut off my family a week before Christmas after moving into my new apartment for college. On Christmas Eve, I went to church, lit the candles, and cried tears of joy. The Bible did warn that your own enemies would be your family 😢 But I still thank God everyday

[MsGechi]

💜 They almost took every ounce of attention and energy from me. They gave nothing back. When I realized, at 40, that my health was being affected, I let them go. Two years later, one of them past away. We are both at peace now. 🕊️

[robiness]

I blocked my narc mother but she’s still able to leave voicemails, and she does daily! Zero boundaries…even asking if she can come over ….like wtf! Can’t get rid of this toxicity 😢

[StephanieEno-stxf]

My entire family has broken my heart and I’m just this is the last broken heart I’m never gonna have

[CommentLit]

So many dysfunctional families and they don’t want to take accountability its ridiculous

[All_That_Jazz-JL]

Thank you for this! I'm going on five years of no contact with my mother! Our mothers are our first bullies! I've expressed that to her at a very young age! 🫂Hugs to you on your healing journey, sister Queen!

[christophercox]

My advice is to move!!! Moved 2 hours away and I promise you I will never talk to any of those people ever again.