Is it true that most men who desire multiple women can’t “provide” for them? 👀

[Longhairdontcare]

If he was really taking care of his wife mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially, he wouldn’t have energy for another woman.

[whyyousucha]

Multiple women sounds so damn stressful anyway lol and most dudes that want multiple are def thinking sex wise....theres a whole can of worms they're not even equip to deal with

[shh]

The wife sounds so foolish "he just wanted to know!"

[shadowalkerwho]

When you do the math it is true, a lot of men would love to have multiple women but only a very few men are actually mentally and emotionally equipped to handle that responsibility as a GOOD partner in good faith. And a lot of those men who are so equipped aren't particularly interested in attempting it because they know how much actual effort it would require!

[Indigowaters]

And these are usually the ones that can't afford one child, but go around making multiple and then complain about child support and not being able to live. Should've thought with the head on your shoulders first.

[feliciadance]

If you have a mindset to be with multiple women, you’re not for me! This is non negotiable…. Next‼️

It is very selfish and any man who desires multiple women lacks self control. The biggest Godly flex is to please your wife and to love her as God loves the church. If any man wants multiple women, let him have them but ladies, don’t include yourself in that number ❤

[jerrilynfrancis]

Every man that I know who carries on with this whole conversation about having multiple women, only deals with broken insecure women. They can never deal with the woman of high emotional, spiritual, and intellectual capacities. They usually hate those type of woman because they can’t get over on them, and in all cases that I have experienced, none of those men can fully financially take care of those women, those children and Harley themselves without demanding much from those women. They are usually looking for help, not looking to be helpful and supportive is usually holding it down… Each of them more than him, so yeah it’s usually an excuse

[LoveLove]

Tell it like it T. I. S. & no they can’t handle multiple women nor take care of themselves for that matter. I just had a guy try that w me. I told him to get lost & stay lost like he already was. I wasn’t going to have a confused man come into my life to try to confuse me. I’m too focused for that BS ! Btw…Great topic!

[alanakemp]

My man can have as many women as he wants. A mama, some aunties, some sisters, me, daughters, nieces, god daughters, and all that!

[ddavis]

How many men have you seen actually handle 3 women?

When i say handle, i mean control the direction of their lives SUCCESSFULLY.

99% of men struggle doing that with one woman, but be having these harem dreams that are unrealistic.

[juannmorris]

Men have 5 children by 5 different women that he say he can't take care of.How long will they act like this isn't destructive to a community

[hereforit]

Apparently, this man IS “taking care of” multiple women . . . in the bedroom.

His girl is excusing, even DEFENDING, his behavior. His women are probably taking care of and supporting *him.*

“Selfish” or nah, if they like it, I love it. He’s obviously getting away with whatever he is and isn’t doing and does or doesn’t provide.

They’re grown.

The only reason he came to the mic was to let the crowd know he’s a playa’. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[ShanecaRene]

I see Kitty didn't come to play today 👌🏾

[alanakemp]

Some men are just hoarders... they dont be wanting alot of women, they be wanting to collect alot of women. Like cars, shoes, and all the other dumb shit they have an obsessive amount of

[DemonMul]

Nah fam, as a man that brother doesn’t speak for me because I DO NOT want multiple women 😂😂😂

[vivisnotes]

Lol She was about to throw hot grit balls at the guy 😂

[earthzone]

Unless his wife agrees he really shouldn’t be married. Let him go so he can be who he is.

[grocify]

I noticed most men are quiet on this one. That speaks alot. I wonder if women paying attention🤣🤣🤣

[rjc]

It was in wealthy/powerful men’s nature to have multiple women. Not middle class or poor. They always leave that part out 😅

[JeremiahMcCullough-rhsm]

There is definitely a different mindset needed to be that guy. Not saying it's not obtainable if you tryna do that but you can't be a regular degular.