Marriage advice: Tips for dealing with a difficult mother in law in Islam I Nouman Ali Khan I 2019

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Marriage advice: Tips for dealing with a difficult mother in law in Islam I Nouman Ali Khan I 2019. Discusses ways of solving issue with mother in law in islam. Tips on wife and mother in law problems in islam and how to deal with them.

[NazzyWazzy]

I am going through this right now and she is keeping my husband away from me she wants him to divorce me. Please help me

[fatmaaxmed]

We need guidance from Muslim scholars on this serious topic

[sabihaaltaf]

Very imp. Points. Most of the time son says she is my mother, I can’t interfere, but forgets that she is bullying his wife and not him. She is definitely not the DILs mother or she wouldn’t be so mean to her.

[sami-ruqhi]

In laws are not just oppressing daughter in law, they are breaking a complete generation. As Woman is backbone of happy family. Psychologically children are lost the generations.

[cutedevil]

I dont want tips, I want to know what punishment the evil mother in laws will get? My ex mother in law abused me and destroyed my marriage. Her son was obviously as thick as her so didnt think with his pea brain but obv it's her son so they're both thick. But I want to be comforted by knowing she will suffer

[AnonymousAnonymous-stkz]

I Stay in different country . But MIL expects me to call her after every 3-4 days(which i do) though She never calls me to ask about my wellbeing but only when i call her. Didn't call me to wish on first eid after my marriage only texted.Then She wished only my husband on call and told him why she(i.e me) didn't call her to which i got annoyed since she should be the one to wish me bcoz it was eid in our country not theirs how illogical is this!.
Next day we woke up a bit late and it was eid in my in laws country so she called me in morning and i didnt pick the call i was in bathroom then she called n shouted my husband that why we didnt wish her they argued then she cut the call. Then bit later when i called her she declined my call 2 times. Then in evening she called my husband and talked to him nicely but didn't talk to me. She just only wants me to call her ask her about wellbeing and doesn't bother to call me i also away from my own parents and country. she even told my husband that should i bow down to ur wife(i.e me) she thinks if shes calling me shes bowing down my feet How narrow-minded and arrogant!

[fatmaaxmed]

Such cases happen and men should protect their wife when they need them.

[Zerin]

My mil keeps saying I am not good enough for his poor son and don't do household chores enough .she calls me lazy because she works all day long

[nazima-afnan_journey_in_islam]

I appreciate the way these scholars explained. May Allah give us hidayat. May Allah bless these scholars ❤. If we follow what Islam truly says no one will be sad. I and my brother should take care of our parents not my brother's wife the same way my husband and his sis should take care of their parents not me. What i happily do for them they should be thankful. The same way I thank to my brother's wife what she does for my parents. ❤❤❤

[rubeena]

My mother in law is very nasty playing cheap politics with me

[bmirza]

Thank you for the video. Please update the title to either remove Nomaan Ali Khan or add Mufti Menk also since many clips here are his.

Very important message.

[urfabashir]

Sir, um carrying and they illtreated me during this period, I was broken deep down then Allah opened the way. Has my husband wronged his parents by our separation from them. His mother often tells him that you people will be paid for this. Wallahi I served them the best for the sake of Allah but they disturbed my psyche while um carrying, in a family way. I can't forgive them. What shoul I do? Have we done wrong.

[mahreenmalik]

What if you have been trying to ignore something that an elder mil is saying but you ignore and ignore and then it’s to the point where it’s causing serious problems between husband and wife. What do we do then?

[AbidHussain-jvlb]

Can u also do a lecture for men with interfering mother in laws

[CoCo-yvhl]

Tips don’t do it…. Don’t allow them in your life or leave the spouse…. If you have to be involved then ignore

[farnazejaz]

This is by mufti Ismail Menk not nauman Ali

[hypnos]

Most of domestic problems happened when a mother in law and the wife's son are living in the same home, most of time.. Ppl saying is the mother in law fault... Which is not valid unless she is not the one who own the house.. They share... If the parents's son own the house... Is the daughter in law fault.... Cuz they kindly host her in order to make their own son happy... ; rule n. 1 when u want to get married... U should be able to get ur own house, if not, then no marriage!! .. And those who accept to live with their own mother in law.. Are brainless... ;have some respect for yourselves!!!!

[ceydabadu]

My mother and father in law are evils children.. they make me feel like shit. They wanted to break my soul, by allah i will nicht forgive them. They are disrespectful, abusiv, speak evil about me, took my wedding gift and do like its hers. Come to my house when i am in Holidays, give my keys to my sister in law when i am outside, so she can make party. No one ask me if its okay. She is talking all the time about allah. By allah she is evil... Blames me in family talks bad in every social interaction with other. My husband and i we will divorce.. because i am the problem?!? Because i can not be happy and let the problem go. How can i forgive her? Allah you see everything. My heart is burning.. my heart is broken. Just because the problems they cause, my child and i have to deal with this. Gaslighting over

[jabeennasreen.]

Nouman sir now adays bahus are not like becharies this is 5g. Era .
Mufti menk always praising bahus.
Stop it font encourage them.
Give tips how to deal e th difficult
Daughter in. Laws.
Other wise you have to pay on
Judgement day . Be sure.