Self Maximize (Introduction)

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This is installment #1 of Self-Maximize. It's a self-reflection mind map (free on my linktree), a packet with exercises (for sale on linktree), and a structure for using awareness to make your own life better.

I've been talking about Self-Maximizing for a while. I wanted to put everything in one video, and that's not possible, it turns out. There's just to much advice that some people need and some don't. So I created a map of how consciousness works in real life and added some starter exercises to help you do what I did - work on these sections by pointing the finger at YOURSELF and questioning your own choices, beliefs, and habits.

In this video, I go over the map and how it works, and then I provide a preview of what I think are the major areas that modern men and women need to work on. (#1 for both is looks, #2 for men is power and #2 for women is supportiveness / not craziness).

If you install the map on your mind (it's only seven sections) and use it to check on your life every day, I believe you will begin seeing new ways to act that you never saw before. Also, more exercises will be added in future editions.

Hopefully, I'll make more videos to follow, which will focus on smaller areas of self-improvement, like fitness, fashion, and status.

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[Windo]

“Being funny isn’t gonna matter if you’re fat and you smell”

Thanks @hoemath …I needed that

[XPLAINMYNAME]

So refreshing seeing a guy that is proactive and actually helps you do something about your life instead o complaining about his position in life.

[JoshJCommons]

Not only is this incredibly entertaining it's also probably the most accurate and comprehensive model of the current dating market in existence.

[justaguy]

real question: don't you ever get tired of not "being yourself"?

I have self maximized in the past. Went to the gym, dressed better (but not confortable) clothing, learned to talk better. It indeed attracted more women to me.

But after some time, I got tired of putting all that effort. Went back to what I'm confortable with and women stopped giving me attention. And I just accepted it.

Didn't this ever happened to you? Maybe it happened to me because I didn't climb high enough to get to the point where the benefits are bigger than me investment?

[conradcrawford]

This is very inspiring to me. I’ve been self destructive and letting myself deteriorate the last several years as I have had no motivation and just given up on life. Basically if I got clobbered by a bus, I’d be ok with it. But I’m going to study this and attempt to make the changes to improve myself. You are doing great work here and I’m glad you’re making a living from it. I can only hope many others take away at least 1/4 of the things you’re saying and make a positive change in their life. Thank you for this sir.

[jacobbartlett]

I’m 19, and have been using this metacognition throughout my entire life as I had a lot of free time and self reflection was always how I coped. I found that this strategy is exactly what I’ve been using and it has worked pretty well. People respect you more, they talk to you easier, you don’t have to put in as much effort just to talk to people, it has also let me crawl out of depression and change how I react to stimuli as well as learn new skills. Remember, this strategy isn’t just for dating, but for almost any problem you have. It teaches you how to consider your own actions, how you and others reply to those actions, and how you can change to achieve the response that you want.

[christianmcnally]

Bro is the chosen one sent to bring balance to the red pill / self-improvement dichotomy

[bigj]

I'm saving this and watching it 100x

[andreasgiulio]

Massive salutations for the Evola reference. Bravissimo.

[jessemtaki]

You are a certified professor 😅 in my book nothing can say otherwise

[guadalupefreyre]

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[balaque]

This dude is literally teaching metacognition and I'm here for it.

[-thenewguybehind-]

guys… he actually did it.

He realeased Self-Maximize.

[jasminkirkwood]

This is an incredibly autistic way to view relationships and social transaction. I will be applying this rule to every interaction I have from now on.

[harsh]

Saving this to my playlist of “Life Lessons I need to teach my kids if I ever self improve enough to get em”

[slimbroski]

“Women are born at the top of the mountain, Men are born in the valley around it.

A man is judged on how high he climbs. A woman is judged on how far she falls.

Men have much to gain, Women have much to lose.

Masculinity is built, femininity is preserved.” - Unknown

[shawnkrystkowiak]

bro really said "autism glasses" twice 😂

[gusthethird]

Babe I can’t talk right now… self maximize just dropped!!!!

[ciarandempsey]

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